Oooh, sorry Cody... I have had some dating issues myself & hate being misled. I'm healthy & energetic to be almost 44 but not a hardbody who works out all the time even when not with child. I just stay busy which keeps me pretty fit. Pictures can be very misleading whether or not you photoshop or pose using strategic angles. I for one am DAMNED glad to hear my pictures do me no justice. LOL Some people just don't photograph well.
As previously discussed, there are also people who carry their weight better than others, too. Maybe this girl has been w/ BBW lovers & rejected for being too small for their taste?
Perception & expectations... lol