Unbelievable...3 out of 12...Am I doing something wrong?

[ntl00kin4fun]

Tonight makes 3 out of 3 in-state ladies that have stood me up (2) or robbed me (1) in 9 months of hobbying. That makes 3 out of 12 ladies total that I've met (the other 9 were met in other states or visiting from out-of-state). Is that a "normal" percentage of failures or could it be something about me or how I converse with them that makes me a chump in this state? BTW, before anyone wonders if I check the ladies out first, two of them were first contacted through a reputable screening site. (Note that I am NOT blaming the screening site.) And the last lady had a few good reviews on another website.

[gimme_that]

which screening site was it......im sure if you were robbed p411 wouldnt take to kindly to it and have deactivated ladies profile until the issue was resolved.

Were these ladies advertising on backpage? Any have a long track records for reputable reviews from members who are respected locally for there contributions? Without names or alert we wouldnt know who your rdfferring to, and by not saying anything to warrant change you are adding to the problem.

[ntl00kin4fun]

The screening site took care of the ladies. The last one was a backpage girl. But, like I said, she had some very positive reviews.

I did post my "reviews" of the first two ladies on escorts.com, but with the changes they made, the reviews disappeared. I am not looking to make new what's old news in these two situations.

I am just venting a little and trying get an idea of the average failure rate of a hobby date actually happening, once it has been set up.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

....might be normal unfortunately. Actually that might be "good" and I mean that loosely.

[LAVixian]

Sorry you're having bad luck Hope things turn around for you.

[Likinikki]

With odds like that...I'd buy some lottery tickets!