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dhoustonguy · 07-11-2016, 09:51 AM

I joined a SD/SB site awhile back and was contacted twice by ladies who wanted to meet me. Maybe it was my spidey sense but something about each encounter made the hair on my neck stand up.

On both occasions I went to the meet place early and found guys who looked like undercover cops waiting outside. Either that or George HW Bush was arriving soon. It was pretty obvious both times. On both occasions, the lady was running "late". On both occasions, the lady arrived in a late model Chevy Camaro. There were many other similarities but I won't go into them here.

Thankfully, on both occasions I did not meet these "SBs", but bailed at the last moment. I went back and parsed my ad from the SD/SB site and realized that my ad could be misconstrued, so I removed that part. I also realized that one of the ladies wanted an "allowance per meet" and another said she had "fallen on hard times". One claimed to be a student, the other in real estate sales. Both were plausible reasons for having a flexible schedule.

On another occasion on the same site I searched photos and found cross postings on BP in the body rubs section. The phone number and name was different, so I warned the lady on the SB site that her photos were being used by someone else, but she never acknowledged my gesture. Ergo, she was LEO also.

Bottom line, I now believe the police are actively monitoring SB/SD sites and are conducting busts. If I had met either of these women I would have been busted.

Curved65 · 07-11-2016, 11:20 AM

Forgive my ignorance, what is a SB/SD site?

dhoustonguy · 07-11-2016, 11:28 AM

A Sugar Baby/Sugar Daddy site

Alyssa71 · 07-11-2016, 02:29 PM

Now that's scary! Le is everywhere nowadays. You would think our tax dollars pay them to do better things than this.... smh

Guest123018-4 · 07-11-2016, 04:07 PM

Did you discuss money in exchange for sexual activities?
Did your ad discuss money in exchange for sexual activities?
Did she discuss money in exchange for sexual activities?
Did her responses or ads discuss money in exchange for sexual activities?

Did you pick the place to meet or did she?
Do you thinck that BP: girls don't use SB/SD sites as another means of advertising?
Do body rub girls thinck they are not hookers because they only give hand jobs?

This alert brings so many questions to mind that a reasonable person would avoid this sort of activity altogether.

dhoustonguy · 07-11-2016, 05:17 PM

I was drawn to try an SB because the dynamics are different. I have been around the block more than a few times - everything from T-Road to Diamond John and pretty much everything in between, except gay/TS. I even dated Amber (RIP) before she started ASPD. I just don't post reviews, but I enjoy reading them.

Did you discuss money in exchange for sexual activities?
No, although both brought it up indirectly. One suggested an allowance per meet deal. I didn't suggest anything except a meet & greet.

Did your ad discuss money in exchange for sexual activities?
No. I did mention in my ad that I'd like to find an SB and "help her out". If you visit one of those sites, you will find that language is not unusual. But "help her out" could be gifts, rent, mentoring, advice, auto mechanics, etc.

Did she discuss money in exchange for sexual activities?
The first one did, the second one, no.

Did her responses or ads discuss money in exchange for sexual activities?
No

Did you pick the place to meet or did she?
I did both times.

Do you think that BP: girls don't use SB/SD sites as another means of advertising?
Sure, why not. I found out that particular SB was on BP because I used google to double check her photos.

Do body rub girls think they are not hookers because they only give hand jobs?
You would have to ask them.

The whole thing scared the shit out of me. I read the excellent legal threads on eccie and I don't really think they had a case on me, but I think I would have gone down if I had met either of them.

My point in posting this warning is that this constitutes an extreme waste of resources to bust a potential sugar daddy looking for a consenting relationship with a woman on a pay web site that both sides have to pay to belong to. I'm sure they bust people off the SD sites every day, but nobody has posted about it.

spear89 · 07-11-2016, 06:46 PM

this is good info, thanks for posting

HoustonDan · 07-11-2016, 08:02 PM

If you're using a SB/SD to find girls to meet at your hotel room you're not using the site for an arrangement, you're using it for prostitution. That's illegal, having s SB isn't illegal. There's a massive difference.

I currently have an arrangement with a SB and have had several in my life to date. They're great. I have zero worry about a legitimate SB/SD relationship, but what the OP is describing isn't a traditional arrangement.

Personally, I think this was a shake down. I doubt it was LE. They may be monitoring but the costs are so high they're are likely just going to stick with the low hanging fruit of BP and CL posts.

Guest021217 · 07-11-2016, 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HoustonDan

If you're using a SB/SD to find girls to meet at your hotel room you're not using the site for an arrangement, you're using it for prostitution. That's illegal, having s SB isn't illegal. There's a massive difference.

I currently have an arrangement with a SB and have had several in my life to date. They're great. I have zero worry about a legitimate SB/SD relationship, but what the OP is describing isn't a traditional arrangement.

Personally, I think this was a shake down. I doubt it was LE. They may be monitoring but the costs are so high they're are likely just going to stick with the low hanging fruit of BP and CL posts.

Lmfao having a sb/sd is still paying for sex fucktard you still make an agreement

eros1970 · 07-11-2016, 10:16 PM

Which site? http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/ ?

Clingus · 07-11-2016, 11:09 PM

I spent some time on one of those sites that was advertised on here.. Total ripoff and some of the "SB's" on there turned out to be providers on here.. Go Figur. I'm not opposed to that kind of arrangement but the likelihood that you're paying someone to be exclusively yours is slim..

Gotyour6 · 07-12-2016, 05:30 AM

Unless you discussed sex for money it wasn't a sting.

If you did discuss that then you are not looking for a sugar baby.

Learn how to screen and stop looking for cheap pussy.

woodpusher · 07-12-2016, 07:34 AM

I used to have an account on seekingarrangement.com and met some real gals looking for their benefactors. I also met providers there too. My experience was positive and usually had a public meeting first to feel them out, talk biz and see how they look in real life.

dhoustonguy · 07-12-2016, 09:51 AM

I'll admit it could have been a shake down. I didn't consider that until I read some of SJ's posts on the topic. The only thing that makes me think it was LE was that one girl gave me a number that was both untraceable and disconnected from Verizon's network, but she could send and receive texts. IMHO I was not arrested b/c I never got out of my car.

I've never heard about any app/program that would allow you to have send and receive texts but have a disconnected voice number, especially one at Verizon? One time it rang through, but typically not. So I think only LE can turn the number on and off, and that's why I'm leaning against a shake down, especially the first one. Also the fact they both drove the same car (only difference was color) was too coincidental by far.

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