Does it have to feathers? I have enjoyed this with type of thing with several of my lady friends, but we usually use a variety of things. Could be feathers, soft luxurious materials (silk, cashmere, etc.), some times rougher materials, ice cubes, etc. I've found this sometimes related to or leading to candle/wax play. Its about enjoying and experiencing the sensual feel while at the same time giving (total) control being tied up.
The problem I find in the hobby is that this type of play requires a buildup and needs to be done slowly, i.e. takes time, no wham-bam. SHE needs time to enjoy it. Build this into a "session" and I think you need at least 2 hours, and probably more. That's more difficult for me (and other men I'd guess) to find a block of time and doesn't translate well into an hourly rate.
If I could find a lady who enjoys this approach and these types of activities without having to watch the clock ... that would be the holy grail.
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