Ok, so over the past 7 years in this little hobby of ours Ive read countless threads of what the guy likes, dislikes, wants, wont stand for, would rather have, blah blah about a providers incall. All good and fine with me.
BUT, why is it when a provider, well
me anyway, goes to a hotel to meet someone, why do you have every freakin light in the hotel room, ON?? The room itself is not all that big, so why the 4 lamps in the actual room, the bathroom, the entry, the makeup vanity, etc. all just blazing away!! Heck, open those curtains, leave the sheer ones behind it closed and get some natural lighting. Turn on a corner lamp in the room and maybe the bathroom light with the door half open. I guess it wouldnt be so bad if each bulb wasnt at least 75 watts or more, but gheez....if you wanna make sure we are the girl you called for, believe me, the light from the hallway is good enough to tell whether or not it is her..lol But if you insist on having every light on, then at least turn the radio or TV on...
anything. There is nothing more nerve racking, (
for me anyway) to walk into a room that resembles an interrogation, and hear nothing but dead, ear peircing
silence.
When I walk into a room such as Ive described, the first thing I do is start walking around, turning off lights, making the room more provider freindly I guess, and find some music. If the other person in the room thinks this is "too much activity" and considers this "high strung, influenced by something illegal in the system, or what ever"...it's not. Its called setting the mood for whats to come. Yes, I like a little light when fooling around, but lord all mighty, feeling like your in a spot light when doing the doo doesnt really get me in the mood I need to be in, ya know?? Im high energy enough, but when Im nervous, it's even higher, as some of you well know...lol
And yes, it may be cold outside...but the walk from the parking lot to the room is plenty of time to warm up before entering the room. Could you please kindly bring the heat down to at least 75 so I dont have to sound like all bossy or a whiney ass and ask, ya know, when I am flipping all those lights off?? lol
Providers (
who care ), will go out of their way to make sure when you come see them, the surroundings in which you come to are made to your comfort to help ease the initial "
hi, I'm so n so, ready to f*@*??" so you can enjoy the meeting as best as you can. Is it too much to ask for a little less lighting when we come see you?? Just a thought....
Hmm, does this mean Im becoming high maintenance in my old age??
Ok, rant over. Back to your regularly scheduled hobby.....
What is up with all the lights??
I get cold easily. Goosebumps because you're touching me just right are sexy, goosebumps that make me want to throw on a parka and mittens are not.
