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pickupkid · 01-18-2011, 08:01 PM

How do you feel about exterior activities...like dinner, travel companion expenses, paid. club activities ,,,,,How do charge?

Tara Foxx · 01-19-2011, 02:58 PM

I know that some of the other cities are using multi hour sessions, like Day session (includes the entirety of the day) or Night (ditto)...somehow I just don't see that taking off here in San Anto...

MsPrittiKitti · 01-19-2011, 03:30 PM

true!!!
i posted a "clock free" date on my site...
will see how it does in SA...
i guess the question could be for the gents too...
how do they feel about such??
im sure the ladies, may tailor their marketing/rates to accomodate
hey tara...i dont have your #...pm sent!!

Mature Companion · 01-19-2011, 03:54 PM

It happens in SA. With the right companion and the right gentleman.
From personal experience: It's something I enjoy with my dates and happens more often than I can count.
Off the clock dates are a wonderful way to enjoy my companions for who they are & enjoy wonderful stimulating conversations etc. Long before we go BCD and devour each other.

Likinikki · 01-19-2011, 07:46 PM

I have weekend extended dates and travel rates for my time as well as dinner dates. I've taken many trips with my boyfriends and enjoyed each and every trip.

The key to a successful date/relationship like that...is to make sure everyone is on the same page regarding the expectations. I do not lead people on by allowing *off-the-clock* sessions one day...and expect the client to know when they're back on again...that's just not fair. And, I do not use the hobby as a dating service.

bosmac · 01-19-2011, 08:27 PM

I had the pleasure of meeting with a SA young woman where we arranged ahead of time to spend an evening together:

1) we met, got comfortable together (OK we hit it off and I'll keep the BCD activities to my self) we then went out, had a very nice dinner
2) stopped at her "local" watering hole, enjoyed a few drinks, she even introduced me to a few of her friends.
3) back to my hotel, relaxed (OK and again BCD activities)
4) she offered to spend the evening (OK I am an idiot, but had an early am flight)

All in all had a fantastic time, we had agreed to a donation up front (2-3 hours), no expectations but we really hit it off and felt real comfortable with each other.
Great time was had and we have stayed in touch since. I travel to SA a few times a year and have enjoyed meeting with a number of the beautiful woman of SA.
That said, its all about chemistry.........I know of a number of SA woman I would love to spend extended time with, as a matter of fact, I am hoping to be there next month and need to start planning!! Any takers?
My 2 cents worth!

yogi692 · 01-19-2011, 09:29 PM

As a guy who lives alone and hates to sit in the apartment all night alone, I would love to have someone to go to dinner with from time to time.

Guest021824 · 01-19-2011, 09:41 PM

a dinner date is always a nice way to break the ice on first encounter. It is also cool to just hang out with someone you are familar with as well. That could be on or off the clock all depends.........

obanrocks · 01-19-2011, 09:58 PM

Interesting question. As I am often on the road alone, a companion date would be nice. Sure, I'd like it to end BCD, but it does not have to, it can end in the car, on the road, under the tablecloth, behind a bush, on my hotel balcony.....

Seriously though - getting to know my companion and having a guided, personal tour of the local culture would be perfect. Biggest problem is having (and hiding) the scratch to pay for multiple hours, that's far easier said than done in this economy.

textodd11 · 01-20-2011, 09:01 AM

Doesn't this define the actual idea most associate with "escort"? I feel like those ladies who enjoy this sort of encounter truly are the "escorts" in this hobby.

Tara Foxx · 01-20-2011, 12:58 PM

To be completely honest, I would love this very much. I am going to start offering clock free myself...

Recently, I've noticed that more clients want to have extended sessions but they want it with the hour rate! AND no tip! AND a discount!

LOL, I understand WHY but time is all we have....it's too valuable to just GIVE away!

I would like to hear what is reasonable in time and rate. I KNOW times are tough but what is FAIR for all?

Mature Companion · 01-20-2011, 01:24 PM

While that may be true for some. And quite understandable.

Enjoying someone for a short measly 1 hour after having enjoyed a few hours out on the town enjoying the sites, dinner etc. Is not something that I personally find appealing. 1 hour to me is simply a wham bam type of date of which I'm not too fond of. It's Not my ideal type of date with a gentleman.

I'd rather enjoy a few hours out on the town, dinner, sporting event etc, with my date. And return BCD to continue enjoying him for another couple more hours or longer. There's more to a man that I enjoy than his pocketbook and his dick.

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Originally Posted by obanrocks

Biggest problem is having (and hiding) the scratch to pay for multiple hours, that's far easier said than done in this economy.

Guest071411-2 · 01-20-2011, 01:46 PM

Now that's what I'm talking about !!

flinde · 01-20-2011, 02:14 PM

Many many years ago (maybe 14, 15), just as the Delphi stuff started to take off, this was a lot more common.

Everyone back then was pretty much UTR of course. Pics were much rarer. I often met my new providers first time for lunch, at a place next to a motel of course

obanrocks · 01-20-2011, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Tara Foxx

To be completely honest, I would love this very much. I am going to start offering clock free myself...

Recently, I've noticed that more clients want to have extended sessions but they want it with the hour rate! AND no tip! AND a discount!

LOL, I understand WHY but time is all we have....it's too valuable to just GIVE away!

I would like to hear what is reasonable in time and rate. I KNOW times are tough but what is FAIR for all?

How does one answer that? Seriously, it must be reasonable for both of us. I'm not interested in low-balling providers. Who wants to hang out with someone that's pissed about the rate they are getting paid?

What I'm interested in is some companionship in a strange city without the hassle of going out to "hunt" for it. I just can't see myself paying a full hourly rate for multiple hours of non-BCD time. I like to save that money for longer encounters BCD.

Let me throw this out there: 1/3 of one's normal hourly rate for non-BCD activities (including dinner, beverages & other entertainment costs). I say this knowing full-well that the first one to mention price always loses.

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Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

While that may be true for some. And quite understandable.

Enjoying someone for a short measly 1 hour after having enjoyed a few hours out on the town enjoying the sites, dinner etc. Is not something that I personally find appealing. 1 hour to me is simply a wham bam type of date of which I'm not too fond of. It's Not my ideal type of date with a gentleman.

I'd rather enjoy a few hours out on the town, dinner, sporting event etc, with my date. And return BCD to continue enjoying him for another couple more hours or longer. There's more to a man that I enjoy than his pocketbook and his dick.

I've never cared for the short encounters either....