While I agree that BP is not the safest option, everything Ari said could be attributed to engaging in illegal activity
in general.
We have a plethora of posts that some providers in Wichita who are VERIFIED on Eccie and were reputable have jacked folks. Some of them had great reviews and the people here were suckered into seeing them, some still try it, even though the experiences are posted. Not everyone gets to read them.
Also, sometimes the drama gets so bad that people don't trust certain posters, think that people are manipulating the market for their own gain and tanking other girls' business.
Also, even good girls get turned. It happens.
If you want to be totally safe, don't be a monger. You risk everything every time. It's about probability.
It's about minimizing, not about eliminating risk. These decisions are not calculated in terms of, "gee, I want to get myself busted." They are made in the heat of the moment, sometimes intoxicated, sometimes in a lonely emotional state, and sometimes by folks who should know better - there are many many posts to that effect. They are calculated risks, which is what happens why anyone engages in activity that may be illegal. While I note that money is only exchanged for time... you get the point.
If you want to be safer, follow Ari's advice certainly. But understand that just because someone is rated well on ECCIE DOES NOT mean they are always 100% reliable, secure or safe.
ALWAYS be cautious, whether seeing someone here or not. And... always pass along bad experiences to the rest of us. That is the point here. Knowledge is power.
Happy Friday Ari, et al.
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