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ElNacho · 07-21-2015, 05:10 PM

I don't hobby often and I have had tremendous stress and needed and wanted to see a provider. She has 100% Yes reviews and I don't want to put her on blast but this sucks!! Called twice and 2 txt messages were not returned.

SA Angel · 07-21-2015, 05:21 PM

I'm sorry that happened to you. Try giving her 24 hours to apologize to you and try to make amends before posting her name. Things do happen in the hobby world and it is possible that she is dealing with something serious.

Either you wait or you try to salvage your day with someone else. Either way best of luck to you.

ElNacho · 07-21-2015, 05:23 PM

Thank you SA Angel

Txsunman · 07-21-2015, 05:24 PM

Stop whining and out the person. She is no longer "reputable". Don't forget, sometimes this becomes a bidding war and Money is not always the medium of exchange. 99% of the time the "excuse" will be a lie anyway.

Once my ATF NCNS, said her GMa's house was on fire. Another time I go to the place and her car was there but she NCNS. I was heart broken bc I just TALKED to her 20 minutes before and she said "sure come on over". Some other SOB had outbid me in 20 fuckin' minutes....FML

MORAL: Don't leave the house without plans A, B, C, D and your smart phone or tablet.

Txsunman · 07-21-2015, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by SA Angel

I'm sorry that happened to you. Try giving her 24 hours to apologize to you and try to make amends before posting her name. Things do happen in the hobby world and it is possible that she is dealing with something serious.

Either you wait or you try to salvage your day with someone else. Either way best of luck to you.

No matter what the "excuse" there is nothing that could keep her from slipping away for 30 seconds to send a text and cancel.

ck1942 · 07-21-2015, 05:34 PM

My rule of thumb is patience. Give the lady 48 hours.

Stuff happens and a reasonable span after the appointment is missed should be adequate prior to consideration of further action.

My above presumes that the appointment was set in concrete and not tentative or dependent on either party awaiting vouches, for example.

SA Angel · 07-21-2015, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Txsunman

No matter what the "excuse" there is nothing that could keep her from slipping away for 30 seconds to send a text and cancel.

If she's one of the girls that only uses a smart phone...what happens when her phone breaks? Or she might actually be in serious trouble...

I agree texting takes no time at all. I'm just playing devil's advocate.

dragula · 07-21-2015, 05:40 PM

Sucks cause you never know if it's on purpose or they totally forget. Wait 48hrs for response, if none then definitely name her.

Txsunman · 07-21-2015, 05:43 PM

Name her NOW so she can respond NOW...... ONLY if you had a DEFINATE Appointment. I'm not sure you did>

ElNacho · 07-21-2015, 05:56 PM

I am not going to out her yet so I guess I'm a whiney biatch! Just irritated cause yes the app was set by her. I rushed to beat rush hour to only have to drive back in it.

CoverMe · 07-21-2015, 07:08 PM

We all live complicated lives, and none more so than a provider. I agree with the 24-48 hour window of forgiveness before naming names. Waiting for an apology will also often lead to a better deal on the session, too.

canyonman · 07-21-2015, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Txsunman

Stop whining and out the person. She is no longer "reputable". Don't forget, sometimes this becomes a bidding war and Money is not always the medium of exchange. 99% of the time the "excuse" will be a lie anyway.

Once my ATF NCNS, said her GMa's house was on fire. Another time I go to the place and her car was there but she NCNS. I was heart broken bc I just TALKED to her 20 minutes before and she said "sure come on over". Some other SOB had outbid me in 20 fuckin' minutes....FML

MORAL: Don't leave the house without plans A, B, C, D and your smart phone or tablet.

Someone out bid you Txsunman, no way! lol

On topic, shit happens...should have never even complained about it...just the way things go sometimes.

phreekntx210 · 07-21-2015, 07:45 PM

So just find another provider, there lives don't revolve around us mongers

Exithere · 07-21-2015, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ElNacho

I don't hobby often and I have had tremendous stress and needed and wanted to see a provider. She has 100% Yes reviews and I don't want to put her on blast but this sucks!! Called twice and 2 txt messages were not returned.

Meh.

Shit happens.

Get over it.

Move on.

Guest010721 · 07-22-2015, 01:31 PM

I dunno...... I've had many "no responses" over the years. I never take it personal. I just figure they did their homework, something they didn't like, and didn't bother responding. No biggie...... Next.