Role play, edging and Sensual Dominance.

[guest030715-233]

I used to be quite dominant bcd. Now, I find I love to switch with the right partner. I'm really getting partial to a little OTK, by a dominant male that will edge me and take over.

It's a nice change from always leading the session. Although, me being the seductress comes more natural to me. All the little things leading up to the big event- the devil in the details. It seems people are a little afraid to let go and are quite content with the sweet gfe lately. I guess stripping had something to do with my desire to seduce. I don't know, but under my other handle, I used to think of myself kind of like a specialist who got the really interesting cases! And I did usually always get the interesting dates!!

Our biggest sex organ is our brain. Why don't more people use it in p4p?

What do you think causes these shifts in DS? Why don't more people act out their submissive desires or Dominant roles in the hobby?

We are here to explore sexuality and all the fun it has to offer rigt? I mean if you can't tell a provider your dark desires, who can you tell?

Maybe I need to advertise in the BDSM section, because I am just not getting the type of insane role play or fetish requests I used to under my other handle. Those are the things that would bring me the most happiness.... Creating masterpieces with hobbyist who knew what they wanted and what I could give. Playing on a whole other level. It's a team effort to create those masterpieces, but I digress.

Granted, my pix make me look like this sweet gfe, but they don't really reflect my dynamic personality as a courtesan. Again, I digress.

I find human sexuality so interesting. How we evolve, our tastes, prejudices, level of comfort in our own skin. It's interesting to reflect on the time I started escorting to where I am now in regard to attitude and outlook on sex and the hobby.

[RandB fan]

Open your mouth, i'll make love to your brain....

Honestly, I think that is a RL thing most people might have missed.

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

I used to be quite dominant bcd. Now, I find I love to switch with the right partner. I'm really getting partial to a little OTK, by a dominant male that will edge me and take over.

It's a nice change from always leading the session. Although, me being the seductress comes more natural to me. All the little things leading up to the big event- the devil in the details. It seems people are a little afraid to let go and are quite content with the sweet gfe lately. I guess stripping had something to do with my desire to seduce. I don't know, but under my other handle, I used to think of myself kind of like a specialist who got the really interesting cases! And I did usually always get the interesting dates!!

Our biggest sex organ is our brain. Why don't more people use it in p4p?

What do you think causes these shifts in DS? Why don't more people act out their submissive desires or Dominant roles in the hobby?

We are here to explore sexuality and all the fun it has to offer rigt? I mean if you can't tell a provider your dark desires, who can you tell?

Maybe I need to advertise in the BDSM section, because I am just not getting the type of insane role play or fetish requests I used to under my other handle. Those are the things that would bring me the most happiness.... Creating masterpieces with hobbyist who knew what they wanted and what I could give. Playing on a whole other level. It's a team effort to create those masterpieces, but I digress.

Granted, my pix make me look like this sweet gfe, but they don't really reflect my dynamic personality as a courtesan. Again, I digress.

I find human sexuality so interesting. How we evolve, our tastes, prejudices, level of comfort in our own skin. It's interesting to reflect on the time I started escorting to where I am now in regard to attitude and outlook on sex and the hobby.

[DallasRain]

Eros is great for advertising fetish type sessions

[sue_nami]

ohhhhh I love this sort of session too. I bet the fellas will beat a path to your door once they know how hot and sexy you are! Girl, you need to come to fetish night with me Friday Jan 30th. they have St andrews crosses and spanking benches and it is super hot and fun.

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

Our biggest sex organ is our brain. Why don't more people use it in p4p?

What do you think causes these shifts in DS? Why don't more people act out their submissive desires or Dominant roles in the hobby?

We are here to explore sexuality and all the fun it has to offer rigt? I mean if you can't tell a provider your dark desires, who can you tell?

Because we know you talk to each other and we might not want every provider to see us in the same light. That and one catty remark in CoED can lead to the Spanish inquisition...

[Jaxhardcore]

I don't know why everything is so tame. Vanilla is a complete snore for me. I've searched for freaky girls but mostly everyone is content with some "convo", "mish" and "doggie". I just napped while writing that. I love perversion and depravity - I think that's why I get along so well with Eryn.

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by Jaxhardcore

I don't know why everything is so tame. Vanilla is a complete snore for me.

You have discovered Another Realm, right?

z

[guest030715-233]

Originally Posted by junkweed

Because we know you talk to each other and we might not want every provider to see us in the same light. That and one catty remark in CoED can lead to the Spanish inquisition...

Usually If a gentleman gets talked about, it's because of severe bad behavior.

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

Usually If a gentleman gets talked about, it's because of severe bad behavior.

I want believe you, but my particular experience with one provider (adored by all, according to her - now retired) was definitely not the case. The whole thing left me somewhat gun-shy of hobbying in the aftermath.

[hardcorewebsites]

The short answer to your questions is time and or money. How long do you think it will take for your hobbyist who may or may not be meeting you for the first time to meet you, get to know you, get a feeling for what you like and what you don't, get comfortable with you and you with him, establish Limits and set up the scene and tie you up or cuff or setup whatever instruments they were going to use, if any. And how long do you think it will take to edge you? I mean really edge you not just for the remaining 30 or 15 minutes or whatever time is left? Do you think it's very effective if it only happens over the course of one hour? Or maybe even two? Can you really let someone own you, I mean really own you without taking some time to establish some level of trust between the both of you? Other wise it's just a cheesy show of make belief and probably fake orgasms. No? Can you really just trust the next moron who wants to re enact a scene from the whores of warcraft to restrain you for the first time? Maybe, for the right price I guess. If you are really tired of your average "vanilla" Joe, give a multiple hour DS special only, see how it goes. DS session or GTFO

[FoulRon]

Originally Posted by junkweed

Because we know you talk to each other and we might not want every provider to see us in the same light. That and one catty remark in CoED can lead to the Spanish inquisition...

[TemptationTammie]

Originally Posted by Jaxhardcore

I don't know why everything is so tame. Vanilla is a complete snore for me. I've searched for freaky girls but mostly everyone is content with some "convo", "mish" and "doggie". I just napped while writing that. I love perversion and depravity - I think that's why I get along so well with Eryn.

Guess you need to add some toys to enhance the experience at times. LOL

[mrhappysf]

This is very helpful to know for the future - I wish more providers would also let us know what they are into so we can make the best session for both parties. It is funny but good communication is probably the most difficult part of good sex for most people.

[guest030715-233]

Originally Posted by hardcorewebsites

The short answer to your questions is time and or money. How long do you think it will take for your hobbyist who may or may not be meeting you for the first time to meet you, get to know you, get a feeling for what you like and what you don't, get comfortable with you and you with him, establish Limits and set up the scene and tie you up or cuff or setup whatever instruments they were going to use, if any. And how long do you think it will take to edge you? I mean really edge you not just for the remaining 30 or 15 minutes or whatever time is left? Do you think it's very effective if it only happens over the course of one hour? Or maybe even two? Can you really let someone own you, I mean really own you without taking some time to establish some level of trust between the both of you? Other wise it's just a cheesy show of make belief and probably fake orgasms. No? Can you really just trust the next moron who wants to re enact a scene from the whores of warcraft to restrain you for the first time? Maybe, for the right price I guess. If you are really tired of your average "vanilla" Joe, give a multiple hour DS special only, see how it goes. DS session or GTFO

You make some good points. I take very few sessions where I sub, because of the level of trust and chemistry. I feel more comfortable taking the lead or just letting things happen in an organic matter most of the time.

My tastes in p4p vary greatly. Sometimes I feel like getting kinky. Sometimes I want the sweet gfe. Sometimes I feel like a nut....

[guest030715-233]

Originally Posted by mrhappysf

This is very helpful to know for the future - I wish more providers would also let us know what they are into so we can make the best session for both parties. It is funny but good communication is probably the most difficult part of good sex for most people.

+ 1,000!!!!