Ladies, there is a website that you can run your photos through to see if they are being used elsewhere. That's how women often find out such things. Conversely, if the men think a woman is using stock photos..he can do the same and it will tell him where the photos are from. It's a reverse image searching site.The site is:
www.tineye.com
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In terms of the blog, there is another one out there that does something similar.
Self serving assholes.
This is another reason why men and women should keep EVERYTHING in this arena seperate from the rest of their lives. Photos, email address, website domains...EVERYTHING.