Most reputable providers will give you a reference knowing you probably won't see them again. Now, ifall your encounters were with BP girls, they are probably clueless as to the bigger world of the hobby. They wouldn't know what a reference is in the first place. BTW, Dixie will probably see you w/out a reference. She has alternative methods. As for Date Check, it is but one of several verification sites, you have to pay to join and use. There are other similiar sites-- P411 and Room Service 2000k. They are all pay sites. The problem is even if you are a member, that dowsn't guarantee the girl will accept it and see you. She may still require a reference or some orher method of screening. Gaining trust in the hobby is the hardest thing for a newbie-- both guys and girls. Once you have established trust, things are great.
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