Men- If you were a provider, what would you do?

[honeydavis]

A lot of hobbyists seem to have some really good thoughts or ideas of what a lady could do to better her business. I'd like to hear how they might run their business if they were a provider or what would they might suggest other providers do?

What kind of steps would you take to avoid an arrest? And what might you do differently when it comes to advertising? How would you handle getting your donation without mentioning it? What would you do if you got the impression that the guy in your incall was an undercover? What kind of girl would you do doubles with? A girl that looks like you, or that looks totally opposite than you? What types of guys would you not see, if any?

Anything and everything is up for discussion and ladies are welcome to chime in. Would also like to see other providers asking the guys questions I haven't thought of as well.

[Hercules]

I'd starve.

[txcwby6]

I'd offer complimentary DATY.

[Guest110416]

My answers to your questions:

Originally Posted by honeydavis

A lot of hobbyists seem to have some really good thoughts or ideas of what a lady could do to better her business. I'd like to hear how they might run their business if they were a provider or what would they might suggest other providers do?

What kind of steps would you take to avoid an arrest? see only p411 members with 5+ oks and from providers who have lots of history And what might you do differently when it comes to advertising? let guys know exactly what I offer as opposed to maybe/maybe not depending on my mood How would you handle getting your donation without mentioning it? tell them to leave the donation on the counter/nightstand in plain view before we start What would you do if you got the impression that the guy in your incall was an undercover? Do a body rub with no touching of the private parts for the entire hour What kind of girl would you do doubles with? One the actually likes it instead of professing to it and just sits to the side A girl that looks like you, or that looks totally opposite than you? does not matter What types of guys would you not see, if any?..... Any with the remote hint of bad hygiene, extremely overweight or a guy who is not respectful IMO

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Other things are instead of picking and choosing who I want to give a fantastic session to while others I will just play the YMMV card on, I would treat everyone the same, without the dreaded cookie cutter approach. In other words, making him feel like he is my only client and glad he came to see me as apposed to the 700+ other providers out there he could have seen. Even though some guys do not see the same provider twice, I would still strive to be his ATF, within my comfortable limits of course, not just another notch on his bedpost, so I would definitely need and ask for his guidance (likes/dislikes as opposed to trying to read his mind) before the session and during the session (most of the time, that is given by his words and physical/emotional reactions) as well as his feedback after the session. Assuming all goes well, I would send him an email or PM, thanking him for seeing me and looking forward to next time.

Most importantly, be ready (Mentally, emotionally, hygienically and dressed appropriately), be on time and bring my "A" game being the best provider I can be in every session I do, and more so especially with the guy I am with at the time!

[DarkeyKong]

Originally Posted by davidfree986

My answers to your questions:



Other things I would do is treat everyone the same, without the dreaded cookie cutter approach. In other words, making him feel like he is my only client and glad he came to see me as apposed to the 700+ other providers out there he could have seen. I would strive to be his ATF, within my comfortable limits of course, not just another notch on the bedpost, so I would definitely need his guidance (likes/dislikes as opposed to trying to read his mind) before the session and during the session (most of the time, that is given by his words and physical/emotional reactions) as well as his feedback after the session. Assuming all goes well, I would send him an email or PM, thanking him for seeing me and looking forward to next time.

Awesome advice!!!

[Grace Preston]

Well, I'd probably limit my ThreADs to one per day

As to one of your questions-- in regards to doubles, it is often important to stay close to similar style when it comes to body type. It isn't often you'll find a guy as enthralled with a spinner as a bigger girl. Beyond that, it seems to work best when you have two different types of girls facially (a blonde and a brunette, etc).

My steps to avoid arrest have always involved careful screening and just going with my gut.

[WalkerTx]

[QUOTE=GracePreston;1055621096]Well, I'd probably limit my ThreADs to one per day QUOTE]


And, I probably wouldn't bump somewhat old alerts.....js

[digitalbananna351]

offer a freebie once a month to some random hobbyest....

[pyramider]

I would post taint photos.

[dmcleod]

Guys get screwed at work all day long in most jobs. There are entire bookstores worth of advice on how to manage your career so you get screwed less and take home more. Many fail at moving up the ladder and end up suffering from stress related illnesses or self medicating with alcohol or similar substances. The lucky and smart ones acquire sought after skills and gain some leverage over their careers. Taking the jobs they want, turning away the ones they don't. Always being willing to walk if a job demands too much of them or turns sour. Trying to work out unfair/illegal treatment through the company channels when possible, but willing to call the authorities when a boss or client pushes them too far.

In short, a lot like how the best providers run their businesses.

Things I would do if I took up a job in sexwork? First stop would be the private investigator certificate program hosted by the University of Dallas, in Irving near the former site of Texas stadium.

http://certificate.pdi.org/private_investigation.html

Why would I become a PI? Three reasons. First, it's s self employed career with flexible hours and locations. Second, the certificate allows you access to semi public databases of criminal records, license plates, arrest records and police reports. This allows for better screening. Thirdly, the training teaches you police investigative methods, which you can use to keep off le radar. If you know what they watch for, you know what not to do.

That would inform the rest of my decisions, as well as give me solid money making skills outside this realm. Getting caught would cause the license to be revoked, so gotta be careful.

[addicted2U]

Contests for established clientele. Dinner date prizes etc.
Seen many variations of this on that My Free Cams site.

[gladius82]

Davidfree986 pretty much covered it.....

TCB can't be overstated......It shouldn't take a month of calls and pms to finally get an appointment. I generally repeat with providers that have:
1. good TCB and communication
2. at least appear to have some IOP or bringing her A game....that always gets a tip from me.
3. Are on time and appropriately dressed especially taking time to comb her hair.
4. Already have condoms, cigarettes, etc and don't ask me to stop and bring some.

[guest012815-1]

$250 per session only 4 slots per day
6am
9am
1pm
4pm
Times can vary to accommodate
Low volume. Still = 1,000 per day 6 times a week
All sessions 2 hrs
Coffee, possible drinks. Ect.
Snuggle tv. Whatever. I would be the epitome of Gfe

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Extreme

$250 per session only 4 slots per day
6am
9am
1pm
4pm
Times can vary to accommodate
Low volume. Still = 1,000 per day 6 times a week
All sessions 2 hrs
Coffee, possible drinks. Ect.
Snuggle tv. Whatever. I would be the epitome of Gfe

Ahhh if only it worked that way. You'd be amazed at how rare the "true GFE" girls get that many appointments in a day. Hell, there are occasionally weeks that I don't see but 4 people.

[Randall Creed]

Man, being a provider is tough. Admittedly, it'd be hard for me to do. That's why I hate reading and hearing about piece of shit guys that hurt or take advantage of providers. Makes me want to put on a ski mask, hunt his punk ass down and beat the brakes off him But that's just me.

Ummm, if I were to provide, I guess I'd do as much as I could to make my body look good. I know working out sucks at times, and a strict diet is a pain in the ass and whatnot, but if I wanted guys to ogle me and lust after me, I'd try to put myself in the best position for that. Guys are shallow, most of us. We like pretty faces, perky tits, and round asses. Girls that look 'regular' (not sure how to word that, exactly), not so much as homely or not pretty, but hotter girls tend to win out in the 'get boys to mess with me' department. We throw away money on hotter chicks, let them get away with more, etc, etc.

Guys cum quicker with hotter chicks. At least I do. I go to see a lady, and if she's looking and smelling good, shit, I already have a hard-on...or maybe semi-hard.

Mc'Ds diets and couch potato workout plans do more to make us click on the next profile than grab our attention.

Of course, there are different definitions of 'hot', but the general consensus of the meaning is a good hip-to-waist ratio. The better this is, the more attractive a woman is to guys, regardless of size.

A close second, or to some, the first, is bcd skills. I put looks first because a hot chick can get away with average skills more so than the next level lady. Now, if the next level of hotness' skill level is high, she will be popular and will beat out many hotter chicks.

Attitude. You gotta be a fun chick to hang around. You can be fine as hell, but being stuck up, snobby, AND have average bcd skills? Pfft. One and done. Next.

Be fun, a little flirty. I came to see you because of that body. Put it to use. Skimpy outfit. Being close or light brushing up against me, or letting me cop little feels before we start just makes your work easier later on. Some girls don't even do this stuff. They just jump naked and wonder why it take so long for the guy to get wood.

IOP. I'd venture to say that MOST, not all, but most guys like intimate sex. It feels better. It makes us (me) cum quicker. The whole experience is more enjoyable.

I don't want to get too long-winded, so let me wrap this up.

Be hot (or close to it)
Be fun (attitude) and a little flirty
Be intimate

The better one is as this stuff, the more repeat business she's going to get. I know these things are hard to do with every guy, especially if he's a d-bag or have bad hygiene, etc, but if you're hitting it off with most, you should be fine.

I know I'm forgetting some things. If I think of them, I'll add them later.