With so many girls to choose from, why get hung up on one provider?

[Alexa_Allure]

My first month as a provider, I was contacted by a potential client who did not pass screening. (I found several alerts on his information and heard some pretty concerning details regarding bad experiences from a few different providers). Since I previously had a bad experience after telling a potential client that they had not passed screening, I took the advice of several providers and opted to not communicate with this person at all.

Now, every week since then, sometimes several times per week, this guy contacts me through my website or via email trying to book an appointment (I have since blocked his number, so contacting me via telephone is no longer an option; he previously left me hundreds of voicemails, and I wish that was an exaggeration).

So what’s the deal? Is this guy a psycho, is his pride getting in the way of realizing the truth, or does he think that he will eventually wear me down? I have to reiterate that, not only has telling a potential client they did not pass screening previously resulted in the person getting very pissed off, but choosing not to respond as opposed to saying “no” seems to be the consensus of other providers as well. I realize also that he may be sending appointment requests to many girls simultaneously in hopes that one will actually say yes, but this has been going on for 6 months! Isn't he over it by now??

I am open to any suggestions, because it seems ridiculous at this point why this guy can’t just move on. If I am a client and a provider ignores me or flat turns me down, I’d be on to the next one. So what gives?

[Wakeup]

Because most hobbyists are fucking morons...

Just keep deleting his shit...

[RALPHEY BOY]

he is nutz!, or he has NOTHING else to do.. could be a Trust Fund Loser??

[Alexa_Allure]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

he is nutz!, or he has NOTHING else to do.. could be a Trust Fund Loser??

My question exactly! Seems awful time consuming to be contacting what could be multiple girls at once...no way he has a job.

Originally Posted by Wakeup

Because most hobbyists are fucking morons...

Just keep deleting his shit...

True, but deleting his shit is a full time job....I'm sending him an invoice.

[gtl413]

I'd like to think that I wouldn't be upset if a provider turned me down, but my ego may feel differently! It's probably best to do what others have suggested and just keep ignoring him. He may be too dense to get the message, but it's a better alternative to telling him NO and causing a psycho to go ape shit.

[Still Looking]

How about a simple... No Thank You.

[awl4knot]

The guy is obviously mentally ill, so why are you trying to understand him? He doesn't think logically, doesn't respond to stimuli in a normal manner; he's just nuts.

But here is the good news. There are two options: (1) he will eventually leave you alone, or (2) he won't. Unfortunately, no one can tell you when "eventually" will occur.

Just make sure that you keep your guard up since the last thing you want is an encounter with this guy.

[john_deere]

can't agree with encouraging girls to simply never respond. it's one of the most unprofessional and disrespectful things anybody...or any business...can do.

[pyramider]

Maybe Alexa's photogenic backside is talking to the fucktard and saying all kinds of things to him.

[Worldtravler]

Cyberstalking

[rogerdodger]

I thought when reading the title of this thread that you might be wondering why someone would see the same provider multiple times, not ATTEMPT to see a provider who said no multiple times... he's nuts.

a local provider I know has a NBA policy and several of the darker johns have been trying to force their way in through constant messaging, and even made some disparaging remarks and made a fake review to try to get her to agree to see them ... what part of 'no means no' don't people get. it's not like she's {fill in the blank} awesome porn star or something LOL

[Blkglasses]

Might be the whole 'damn I cant even pay her to do me, I must be a POS." I would just jerk it and forget about it though, so cant agree with the stalking thing.

[gimme_that]

The time for her to respond "no thank you" was after he sent his screening info and that he didn't pass.

She should just ignore him. He stuck on stupid.

[Audrey Astor]

I don't know Alexa. I had one like that too. He would go an sign up on every site I am on creating new handles. He crossed over into my personal life as well.

If someone did not want to see me, I would not want to see them either. Jeeeeeeeze. I'm sorry love, I hope he gets tired and leaves you alone.

Just a note to the guys, we do ignore, delete, block etc, but when it persists, it is very scary. We just don't know how far one is willing to go, and there really is nowhere to go and say some cyber loony will not leave Holly Love alone.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Alexa_Allure

My first month as a provider, I was contacted by a potential client who did not pass screening. (I found several alerts on his information and heard some pretty concerning details regarding bad experiences from a few different providers). Since I previously had a bad experience after telling a potential client that they had not passed screening, I took the advice of several providers and opted to not communicate with this person at all.

Now, every week since then, sometimes several times per week, this guy contacts me through my website or via email trying to book an appointment (I have since blocked his number, so contacting me via telephone is no longer an option; he previously left me hundreds of voicemails, and I wish that was an exaggeration).

So what’s the deal? Is this guy a psycho, is his pride getting in the way of realizing the truth, or does he think that he will eventually wear me down? I have to reiterate that, not only has telling a potential client they did not pass screening previously resulted in the person getting very pissed off, but choosing not to respond as opposed to saying “no” seems to be the consensus of other providers as well. I realize also that he may be sending appointment requests to many girls simultaneously in hopes that one will actually say yes, but this has been going on for 6 months! Isn't he over it by now??

I am open to any suggestions, because it seems ridiculous at this point why this guy can’t just move on. If I am a client and a provider ignores me or flat turns me down, I’d be on to the next one. So what gives?

Originally Posted by rogerdodger

I thought when reading the title of this thread that you might be wondering why someone would see the same provider multiple times, not ATTEMPT to see a provider who said no multiple times... he's nuts.

a local provider I know has a NBA policy and several of the darker johns have been trying to force their way in through constant messaging, and even made some disparaging remarks and made a fake review to try to get her to agree to see them ... what part of 'no means no' don't people get. it's not like she's {fill in the blank} awesome porn star or something LOL

That's just it... she hasn't said no! She just doesn't respond.