Providers, do you prefer that clients finish faster or slower?

[hops]

Tons of intriguing issues in this story posted by NDcent (thanks, bro). But one of the things this story had me wondering was do providers prefer a guy that cums faster or slower? Please elaborate on your reasons

Originally Posted by NDcent

I am a prostitute and a good one. I was a sophomore in college sleeping 4 hours a night, vomiting, getting good grades, working long hours in a cafe, and still deep in debt. I never drank or did drugs. I was at Mills. It's amazingly expensive. My consensual, free sex was not all that wonderful. I didn't want to marry until my 30s, still don't, and am 27 now. I will wait till it's time to have kids. I had been with guys who refused to go down, knew I needed sex, but then lasted 1 minute and fell asleep, and wanted tons of head. I slept with predatory lesbians who bragged about it to friends. I was called a slut yet somehow the men and predatory lesbians weren't sluts, they were just wonderful and perfect according to them. I was farted on, sat on, nearly choked to death by one lesbian who was a graduate student, forced to swallow cum, slapped, argued with, and many men had sex with me without even taking me on a date. I was in fact not once asked out on a date in high school or my first year of college, more like you lezz hang out girl you wanna suck this. With the tremendous stress I was under I did but was generally disappointed and used.

So I decided to take charge of my life. One day an older guy, 39, came into the cafe and could see the stress I was under. There weren't many people in the cafe and he asked me about my life and actually listened and cared. He then told me about arrangements. He was married but his wife rarely had sex with him and tried to use it to control him. He was a good father and husband as I still know him, his kids are smart even though his wife is a lazy parent.

He offered me $500, which was 50 hours of work where I was. Now it's funny, if he'd have walked by and rudely uttered suck my dick at a party, I'd have said no even though I said yes to the guys I hoped would ask me on dates, figuring I wasn't good enough to get a date but if that's all I could get with a guy the girls all wanted, well fine, but the sex was horrible.

This guy wasn't good looking, but he was by far the best lover I'd ever had. I would have said no and realized after what an idiot I was. He went down on me for over 30 minutes and took the time to ask me what felt good. I orgasmed twice before we had sex. I'd received oral before, but never where they actually asked how I cared for it. We had protected sex and he lasted over 20 minutes, and I enjoyed every second of it, he asked how I felt, made it enjoyable, then went down on me again, massaged me. I was like, wow, so that's what it's all about. When he dropped me off and kissed me he handed me $500 in cash. It was such an amazing experience, I'd forgotten he was supposed to pay me, I have an attitude now about that but at the time I was just in a state of awe. If he'd have forgotten to pay I'd have still called him.

I started spending the time working in a grungy cafe grooming, shaving perfectly, running an hour each morning, and sleeping. I bought new clothes, makeup. I got a Redbook account. The men on there were better lovers by far than the ones I had for free. Sure, some are duds, and no I don' t get 500 anymore but I get 200 minimum and usually 3-400. I see 10 guys a week. I make an average of 150k a year. I am now just graduated and instead of 90k in debt as I would have been, I'm well rested and have $210,000 in the bank. I did take 5 years to graduate but I am going to do this part time until I have $1 million, I can work in a nonprofit by day and build a good career, take night classes for an MBA, and I'll buy a house outright before I have children. I'm more well rested, have good grades, time to study, time to enjoy the arts and culture, take a yoga and dance class, play soccer, and sleep 7-8 hours every night. So I'm a slut, I'd rather be that than what I was. Plus I really enjoy most of the sex I have. I have a couple losers who cum fast but I charge them more. I have mostly good sex and always am respected and paid. I'd never go back. I'm an object of desire now, treated as beautiful, and before I was an object of ridicule and abuse and yes, even by lesbian women. This should be legal. Redbook helped me. I have regulars now so will be fine but Redbook was a good thing.

[MsPrittiKitti]

Nvm.
My humor may be misunderstood :/

[hops]

It's a free country

[MoneyManMatt]

I can't speak as a provider but I would think that the girl could care less if the client is a minute man or a stud in the bedroom. As long as he is clean, safe and has cash, he's ok. If these women didn't like minute men, there's no way I would have lasted as a hobbyist. I would have been turned down by everyone once word got out about me.

There have been times I walked away deeply ashamed at my performance (just ask Brittanyy, Kinlee, brookebeautybaby, etc) but I'm willing to bet that each of them would be willing to see me again.

[bigjimt52]

well at my age Im not a minute man so they get what I got....that is all

[luv2daty]

hops

Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life.
Confucius

- With that being said... if you could choose between working an 8 hour shift, or working 1/8 of your shift; and get paid for the full 8 hours. Which would you choose?

just my .02

[Mickeyloeb]

I believe this is a trap for any provider that answers either way.

Here's why -

1. If she prefers quick she will be a clock watcher, high turn over , lick it and get it. Not good for business.

2. If she prefers 'love you long time' then she gets the guys who overstay their agreed upon time, so she is forced to escort them out and becomes known as a clock watcher. Bad for business.

There is zero good return for the honest provider in answering this thread, unless the middle ground is - if you can come once, you can come again, as in MSOG.

MPK - you took the high road. A very good choice.

[NikkiWhite]

I don't stop the whole time either way....

Energizer Nikki.

[sms918]

LOL Nikki, well bunnies are white.

I like that "energizer Nikki".


How about "timex Nikki", takes a lickin and keeps on tickin..




Nay, energizer is better,, just picturing you with bunny ears. LMAO



*As to the question, from a Hobbyist perspective, depends on the day, how the mood is, the provider your with. You could be with the same provider and have vastly different results on different occasions.

Myself, also glad providers haven't held some of my performances against me as far as I know.

[mayorcastro]

Who cares what they prefer. She's being paid to preform a service. You gonna ask Discount Tire if they prefer to rotate your tires fast or slow?

[Novatx]

Originally Posted by mayorcastro

Who cares what they prefer. She's being paid to preform a service. You gonna ask Discount Tire if they prefer to rotate your tires fast or slow?

Lol!! Exactly

[Novatx]

All I have to say is that women choose this line of WORK for different reasons. I think this girl is lost. How does someone fuck their way to one million dollars and call themselves "rested"? She got "used and abused" cause she allowed it.

Anyway, to answer the question , do I prefer you to "cum" quick
Well, what do you think?? Let's not ignore the elephant in the room. You guys just STOP IT. Stop this ridiculousness !!

[Bush Pilot]

Originally Posted by mayorcastro

Who cares what they prefer. She's being paid to preform a service. You gonna ask Discount Tire if they prefer to rotate your tires fast or slow?

You're onto something here, mayor -- a great title for a future review:

" (Handle of Provider) 'Rotated My Tires' in Record Time!"

[Guest032117]

As fast as possible so I can get the next one in the door...

Is ^^^^that^^^^ the response you were hoping for??? Sorry, I'm kidding...each client is different, sometimes I root for them to go faster, and sometimes I hope for them to go slower.

One day, I work with men who have trouble getting a nut, and it frustrates them, so they come to me. Other days, I spend time with men to help them practice holding their loads for maximum pleasure.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Novatx

All I have to say is that women choose this line of WORK for different reasons. I think this girl is lost. How does someone fuck their way to one million dollars and call themselves "rested"? She got "used and abused" cause she allowed it.

Anyway, to answer the question , do I prefer you to "cum" quick
Well, what do you think?? Let's not ignore the elephant in the room. You guys just STOP IT. Stop this ridiculousness !!

sometimes I cum quick, other times takes a long time.
I got into a habit of no matter how long I whisper in her ear right after "too soon".
One time when even I was thinking come on and cum already. She 'ed at me "don't you even think of saying to soon you fucking spoiled brat" just as I came.
I just said thanks for being one of the gals that made me a spoiled brat.
And yet she stills see's me