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Originally Posted by Jagermonster
How big was this strap on that he used?
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It was a significant size but that's not what hurt .. and he hurt me fairly badly after we tried a few times to make what he had in mind, work. I had to stop the appointment when it happened. Readjust. In the end, it worked out alright.
It was the dildo itself. It wasn't on him correctly. I've seen this when I've done strap on.
You need to have the harness on you securely or otherwise, just trying to insert a dildo while it's bending in the middle and not staying straight is painful.
I'm having a difficult time trying to write an explanation. Sorry about that.
If the dildo isn't hard, and especially if it's made of that gross jelly material, then it bends and moves everywhere. If you have a tight well ... pussy ... then it doesn't go in easily. A male cock, and his attached pelvis, is just made to penetrate if a woman is tight. If a man has an erection, he will always well, be able to "fuck". I guess so is a dildo, in theory.
But if it's one of those soft ones that everyone sells online, etc., then it's just not always workable. Plus, I put condoms on sex toys and then, lube is really needed because of the materials being used.
Again, I don't think that I'm making much sense. Probably should have left your topic alone, even though it's a good topic.