Dating a provider

[sucrunchman]

Recently I have spoken to a few providers and men alike about the subject. Personally I have never "dated" or tried to date a woman I have met in this industry. Granted, I have had an ex gf do this while we were together, but didn't meet her like this. I'd like opinions. Personally I know one girl who has had over ten "relationships" with clients. Not one has worked...but then again none of her normal relatjonships worked either. But guys this isn't Christian mingle. You shouldn't allow yourselves to be hurt by these girls. And girls you shouldn't be appalled when the guy seems to want nothing but sex. Lets be logical with ourselves and remember how the "first date" happened!! Backpage is not match . Com. But anyway, just a general statement I'd like some feedback on. Good day

[Howdy Do Me]

Crunch, you sweet on somebody? Drop her a pm and ask.
I don't see why it couldn't work. I think some on both sides have their favorites that they just click with.LTR may be tough, but that too depends on the individuals involved.
To surmise, a definite maybe!

[J.J. Walker]

I'd like to 1099 a VP, cuz it's more than jus another lay to me

[AmishGangster]

To those who get emotionally attached to hookers please read this carefully:

1. This is not eHarmony.
2. They are nice to you because you pay them.
3. The ones who are nice to you and you haven't paid them are being nice to you in the hopes that you will pay them someday.
4. They are not emotionally invested in you, just your bank account.
5. You pay them to make you feel however it is they make you feel.
6. Reread the above over and over until the emotions you feel disappear.

Pay them, fuck them, part company when time has expired, repeat.

If you still feel emotions and this treatment does not work for you, contact BSer and ask him about his "relationship" with shittypants.

[Saige]

Originally Posted by amishgangster

To those who get emotionally attached to hookers please read this carefully:

1. This is not eHarmony.

~ Thank you!

2. They are nice to you because you pay them.

~ actually I'm just a nice girl anyways!

3. The ones who are nice to you and you haven't paid them are being nice to you in the hopes that you will pay them someday.

~ sometimes I just wanna hump certain people.... NSA!!! And I do so often! And repeatedly. Damn.... sounds like this past week!

4. They are not emotionally invested in you, just your bank account.

~Don't care about the bank account. Discretion is my friend.

5. You pay them to make you feel however it is they make you feel.

~Good....real good!

6. Reread the above over and over until the emotions you feel disappear.

Pay them, fuck them, part company when time has expired, repeat.

If you still feel emotions and this treatment does not work for you, contact BSer and ask him about his "relationship" with shittypants.

LMFAO TO THE REST!!!!

[Layedback]

Good question and even better answers.I've only asked myself that question because on at least 4 occasions I've seen providers with profiles on dating sites including one currently in ISO.Pretty open minded and not jealous but IMO would eventually be a deal breaker anyway so no need to start.FYI if they don't want potential suitors to become aware they may want to avoid using duplicate photos

[AmishGangster]

"~ sometimes I just wanna hump certain people.... NSA!!! And I do so often! And repeatedly. Damn.... sounds like this past week!"

Saige, when you get the urge to fuck me for free, my preferred method of contact is PM. No worries, I check them often.

Dammit, where is that emoticon for holding my breath???

[AmishGangster]

Originally Posted by Layedback

On at least 4 occasions I've seen providers with profiles on dating sites including one currently in ISO.

And there is your proof they aren't looking for those relationships here. If they were, they could easily find them. Every provider here has numerous guys who are emotionally attached to them.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Layedback

Good question and even better answers.I've only asked myself that question because on at least 4 occasions I've seen providers with profiles on dating sites including one currently in ISO.Pretty open minded and not jealous but IMO would eventually be a deal breaker anyway so no need to start.FYI if they don't want potential suitors to become aware they may want to avoid using duplicate photos

They are advertising for business and probably not looking for a date.

[sucrunchman]

Haha no I'm not sweet on anyone. I just know of a few situations quite recently where a guy truly felt he was in love with a girl. He's literally been giving every pay check to her and keeping only enough for gas in the car and some food for himself. Other than that every penny goes to her. In fact, sometimes he can't even go to see her because he has no gas money! It's just sad when people start thinking that this is Christian mingle. To a certain point I think it's kinda funny. But then there's the point where they have to borrow from friends and family just to support this other person who has no real feelings for them. Then it just becomes pathetic. Was trying to get other views is all.

[tounge ring]

I've been their. This may turn providers off from me butt oh well, I see a girl and sometimes if we hit it off good I only see her. This one I felt so comfortable with like we just clicked. I seen her a couple of times than told her how I felt and what shocked me was she said she felt the same. I paid a couple more times but that was it. After awhile I would leave work at lunch or early to go see her she would come to me on lunch and we would hang out. I felt like things were going good. I was ready to leave my wife until I asked if she would do the same with her SO she said no! Down hill from their, I was hurt, I stated acting like an asshole to her and being a jerk. Now she wants nothing to do with me which sucks. We would text all day just about stupid things! We told each other that we loved the other. I would do anything to see her again. It sucks falling for a girl that you can't have! I never did a review on her. Sorry for the novel but it seemed like a good topic to post it in. So now everyone can say how stupid I was!

[Howdy Do Me]

TR, I wouldn't beat yourself up. If PM was around, he would.
Hey, we're human first and foremost. The sex part can play games with emotions.
For most its strictly a business, for some, that emotional line gets crossed and feelings get hurt.
That will be $100.00. Carry on!

[sucrunchman]

Wow TR lets just be thankful you didn't leave your wife! I knew a guy who left his wife for an escort. His business and money declined a bit, then she bolted. I guess what this post was really meant to do was send a message...guys STOP!! Pay them and leave!!! They're not ALL bad but they ALL have ONE thing in mind. And that's your money. And that's not a bad thing..it's their job. I'm quite certain none of you gents would go to work for free even if you enjoyed the company. Am I right? So remember this...paying her $300 a week is a lot cheaper than your whole pay check for the next year, and losing friends and family over it also. Good luck to you all.

[Guest042416]

Originally Posted by amishgangster

To those who get emotionally attached to hookers please read this carefully:

1. This is not eHarmony.
2. They are nice to you because you pay them.
3. The ones who are nice to you and you haven't paid them are being nice to you in the hopes that you will pay them someday.
4. They are not emotionally invested in you, just your bank account.
5. You pay them to make you feel however it is they make you feel.
6. Reread the above over and over until the emotions you feel disappear.

Pay them, fuck them, part company when time has expired, repeat.

If you still feel emotions and this treatment does not work for you, contact BSer and ask him about his "relationship" with shittypants.

damn couldn't of said it better myself, fuck and leave boys

[Guest042416]

tr don't do that again u learned,