What do you call a man who enjoys....

[sipapi]

This is a spinoff of the Freaky things thread. One of the kinky things posted was to have a 3-some with girl, boy, & tranny with the boy sucking cock, getting fucked in the ass etc..How would you categorize a man who enjoyed sucking a cock, getting fucked by a cock or fucking an asshole with a cock in such close proxmity? lol.

I have had this conversation with a provider and we disagreed. What do you call a man who enjoys sucking another cock? Having a cock shoved in his ass? Or fucking someone with a cock? When women like to have sex with men and women they are Bi. Webster's definition of homosexualality is to direct sexual activity toward member of same sex. IMHO that person would have homosexual tendacies.

I have teased the provider who pronounes herself bi, that she is also gay. Just as a bi man is also gay in my opionion.

To quote Seinfeld, "not that there is anything wrong with that". This is not about judgement, but how to characterize someone who enjoys those activities.

Would like the community's opinions on what you would call a man who likes sexual activties with cocks and cunts. Furthermore, why is there seemingly a double standard between it is "hot" for a woman to be bi, but at least in my circle, it is not nearly as "hot" for a man to be bi or gay

Hopefully homophobia won't take over this thread, but instead enlightenment on what everyone considers "gay" or "straight".

[Miss_Mya]

Ok it seems like I may be the first take on this one. I like to see two guys doing each other but without the kissing. I know that sound weird but something about two guys kissing doesn't do anything for me but seeing one guy doing another guy up the ass is hot for me to watch.

Now as for being Bi or Gay I really don't know. I consider myself Bi because I like to have my fun time with the ladies but I could never be in a serious relationship or even live with one (too much drama...lol). So after saying that I would say the difference IMO between the two is that if you just like fooling around with the same sex but want a real relationship or marriage with the opposite sex then you are Bi. Now if you like the same sex and can see yourself in a relationship with the same sex and be happy then to me you are gay. That's just my 2 cents and I don't even know if it makes any sense...lol.

Now with all that I always like telling people that I am bi-sexual...buy me something and I'll get sexual.

[swarmyone]

Originally Posted by Miss_Mya

Ok it seems like I may be the first take on this one. I like to see two guys doing each other but without the kissing. I know that sound weird but something about two guys kissing doesn't do anything for me but seeing one guy doing another guy up the ass is hot for me to watch.

Now as for being Bi or Gay I really don't know. I consider myself Bi because I like to have my fun time with the ladies but I could never be in a serious relationship or even live with one (too much drama...lol). So after saying that I would say the difference IMO between the two is that if you just like fooling around with the same sex but want a real relationship or marriage with the opposite sex then you are Bi. Now if you like the same sex and can see yourself in a relationship with the same sex and be happy then to me you are gay. That's just my 2 cents and I don't even know if it makes any sense...lol.

Now with all that I always like telling people that I am bi-sexual...buy me something and I'll get sexual.

+1
except for the whole "guy doing another guy up the ass is hot" thing...everything else I agree with

[swarmyone]

Originally Posted by Miss_Mya

Now with all that I always like telling people that I am bi-sexual...buy me something and I'll get sexual.

LMFAO

[topnotchmassage]

To me, labels belong on clothes
Sexuality is fluid...

[topnotchmassage]

Originally Posted by Miss_Mya

Now with all that I always like telling people that I am bi-sexual...buy me something and I'll get sexual.

LOL

[Cheaper2buyit]

mya lol. sip we call them queers we I am from.

[Sens55]

Well, I don't really call them anything. I don't care what other people do, I'm just not into it. Years ago Andrew Dice Clay did show and he said a few things that I have always remembered and thought relevant. He said "I've never looked at another man's hairy ass and said, 'oh yeah, I gotta' get a piece of that'"

He also said there's no such thing as a Bi-Sexual. You either suck dick, or you do not suck dick.

[perpetualdesign]

Sens, that makes sense. I concur.

[growler]

An interesting question. This is going about the way I thought it would LOL. Who will be the first to post a T-girl review, will we view it as any other? Would we ridicule?...just wondering. Christine has it right. Sexuality is an fluid thing. My take....A man or woman for that matter, who is gay desires sex only with someone of their own gender. Wear as someone who's Bi enjoys both genders sexually. Or a tranny in this case..... And to bottomless's post, could you be secure enough in your masculinity, opened minded enough sexually, so into your relationship. That you could indulge each other's fantasies. Food for thought

[Allie_Kat]

Don't forget the bar-sexuals. The ones who only like their own gender when drunk! LOL.

[topnotchmassage]

Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

Don't forget the bar-sexuals. The ones who only like their own gender when drunk! LOL.

lol Right, right!
Those girls can be fun, till you run into them again when they're sober...
That can be a little AW-KWARD
hehe

[KCQuestor]

As Dan Savage says, gay guys don't hire transsexual escorts, straight guys do. Some straight guys want to play with a cock that isn't theirs. It doesn't mean they want to have it in their ass (although they may... some straight guys like ass play too). It certainly doesn't mean they are gay.

I disagree with Mr. Clay on his dichotomy between dick-suckers and non-dick-suckers. Sexuality is a continuum.

I agree with him on the hairy ass thing.

As far as labels go, there's always the Kinsey Scale. But I'm not sure that a desire to have sex with transsexuals would count as homosexual tendencies. The urge is to have sex with a woman who also has a penis, not a man.

[topnotchmassage]

Originally Posted by KCQuestor

As Dan Savage says, gay guys don't hire transsexual escorts, straight guys do. Some straight guys want to play with a cock that isn't theirs. It doesn't mean they want to have it in their ass (although they may... some straight guys like ass play too). It certainly doesn't mean they are gay.

I disagree with Mr. Clay on his dichotomy between dick-suckers and non-dick-suckers. Sexuality is a continuum.

I agree with him on the hairy ass thing.

As far as labels go, there's always the Kinsey Scale. But I'm not sure that a desire to have sex with transsexuals would count as homosexual tendencies. The urge is to have sex with a woman who also has a penis, not a man.

Similar to what you're saying...
I used to consider myself 'full-blown lesbian'. I came to that conclusion because my first relationship partner(as well as sexual partner) was a woman...
Thanks to an unsaid pressure to choose a 'team'...for several years after I met her; I put myself into a box, and alienated myself from guys till I decided I was over fitting the mold which many people would have me in.
Somewhere between dating strictly women, and broadening my potential mate horizon; I casually dated a trans woman.
She had implants, and one of the(above the underwear) hottest bodies!
I never had sex with her...but if I had, it would not have been because I was wanting to have sex with a man.(though, yes, she had a dick)..In my eyes, she was pure woman...
It would've been because I was into HER.
People who put too much focus on gender, sexual preference, opinions of others; and so on, and so on...put themselves in a position to possibly really miss out.
IMO.

[Cheaper2buyit]

if your a guy & you do things with another guys dick your gay even if your a half ass gay your gay. if your a woman & you like other ladies pussy then your just plain sexy.