NCNS - Appt with Baby Dallass

[hogmanjones]

Date: Apr 16
Provider: Baby Dallass
Phone: She will provide
Email Address: baby.dallas@rocketmail.com
URL / Website: http://www.babydallas.escort-site.com/
City: Springdale
State: Arkansas
Address: Somewhere in NWA
Appointment Type: Incall
Did the Appointment take place at the agreed-upon time?: No
Activities: None
Session Length: 0 mins
Fee: $0
Hair Length and Color: Blonde
Age: mid-20s
Smoking Status: I Couldn't Tell
Ethnic Background: White/Caucasian
Physical Description: Look at her showcase
Recommendation: No

[BabyDallass]

How am I a no call no show when YOU have NO phone?!?!?

[hogmanjones]

It's email. This is 2014 not 1994, you have an iPhone, you can read and write, communication is easy. Whether I have a phone with which you could verbally speak is irrelevant. Call it NTNS (No Text, No Show) if you like. The point is we had an appointment, you could have fulfilled your side of the agreement, but deliberately chose not to.

[Ginger Doll]

I don't know what specifically happened in y'all's situation, so I won't even try to speculate or assign blame.

However, I will say that I personally just would not feel comfortable having a date with someone that I couldn't chat with beforehand. I like to get a feel for someone by the way they articulate, & have a convo with them. It's mainly to see if they set off any red flags. It's my last phase of screening.

Hobby phones are what? Around $20? If you're going to be in the hobby, investing in one is a good idea, IMO.

[Thibodaux]

Sounds like the whole story is quite a shame. I can see both sides' reasoning. I have reached a point where hobby phoning (ahead of time) is not as easy anymore. But like BD, I too prefer to "speak" with the girl before playtime, glad to hear it's not just me. But then again, I have a new-found understanding of the "no phone-no text" / "email preferred" method of communication. It's a damned shame that two legit players couldn't link-up, only due to their own security preferences. Then again, again, again, it sounds like BD did another bad "no-no", by not not honoring prior agreements, and seemingly taking a better (perhaps more secure) option without respectfully following through with communicating her change of heart (or gut instinct).

I suppose each side in a situation like this simply has to respect each others' preferences and move on if they cannot agree on terms fully , 'Cest La Vie.

I fully realize that my new "email only preference" will probably limit my chances at meeting and enjoying new girls for the first time. I don't really like the "no speak" aspect either, it's a bitch, but it is what it is. I can only hope my references go to bat for me.

Hogman appears to be a pretty good guy, and Baby Dallass has returned to the area with a damned nice new persona. It's a damned shame they couldn't hook-up
But, it's all part of both sides feeling comfortable, and most of us should be able to understand differences of opinion when it comes to personal security preferences.
:sigh:

[pyramider]

Someone is sure butt hurt ... I wonder if that was part of the scheduled session....

[Guest040816]

Round 2 hog

[Danielle Reid]

Wow...

[Guest061415-1]

Hogman, have you considered using Google Voice? I do, it works fine with my cell phone.

[scooter]

I would just do Veronica again and again and forget about it...scoot

[hogmanjones]

Thanks for the constructive comments.

It has nothing to do with cost, Ginger, it's just keeping up with another phone. I had to this hat a few years back for work (work BBerry and personal phone) and it was just a pain for me. I may take Slinger ' recommendation and use Google Voice. I wasn't aware hearing someone was a version of screening.

However, that wasn't the case here. Otherwise when I asked that question two hours before the appointment, we could have avoided this. Plus, if that was what was bothering her, I don't think she would have tried to reschedule for later in the day (when I still wouldn't have a phone). So this isn't really a phone or no phone thing.

Like Scoot said, thus is NWA and there are lots of wonderful ladies I've seen and others I just hhaven't seen yet to spend time with, so this situation is done and in the books.

[JustaguyLR]

Originally Posted by scooter

I would just do Veronica again and again and forget about it...scoot

[BabyDallass]

Keeping up with another phone?? Throw it away when your done using it then! They are that cheap and easy to get! No excuse for it hog, also I told you why I cancelled and didn't want to see you after you told me that you could only email me. That turned me 100% off, you could be a woman, hell I wouldn't know I never heard your voice! I run MY shit so if I want to cancel last minute which was not, actually I cancelled an hour before, then I can! I had plenty of other ECCIE guys with plenty of credibility to see me and guess what!? We actually got to talk on the phone before we seen each other!! How cool huh!? And it's 2014 get with the era, everyone has a phone to talk on! So go suck your own cock, you will never have to worry about me doing it Boo hoo hoo aw baby Dallass wouldn't see me because I had no phone to talk to her on... Aww she did me so bad, I think I will try and make her look bad! Lol good luck! So for future references to all guys...if you can not call me before the date, then there is NO date!? Kapish!?!?

[BabyDallass]

You might be a black guy, judging by your avatar and I don't see black guys...I didn't feel comfortable seeing you without talking on the phone. If you we're any kind of real man or had real common sense then you should see where that would turn someone away!! What do you guys think? Would you see a provider who would only email and text!? And not talk on the phone!?!

[pyramider]

I sound like Pee Wee Herman's younger brother, if that helps.