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Miss envy · 04-04-2014, 12:36 AM

I ask myself why do I feel the need to be newbie friendly?
my answer to myself"well they gotta start somewhere someone has to be there
reference
right but then this bs starts with the complains about price and then the constant ncns
and the lies, the fake reviews it's getting to be annoying and I'm starting to wonder are they here for the hobby or just here to try and sweet talk there way into a free session.I don't care if your good looking or if your young.I think there should be an age limit to becoming a hobbyist.not sure if I wanna stay be newbie friendly.thanks for listening to my rant lol

davetheone · 04-04-2014, 09:17 AM

So you had a bad week also.. Me to except sunday was fun with you.

Guest101314 · 04-04-2014, 09:22 AM

I'm newbie friendly but they have to send me a copy of their ID. This has allowed me to screen really well and feel comfortable enough to allow a newbie to see me. So far, I haven't had any issues with anyone and actually have some great repeat customers from newbies.

Guest070316-1 · 04-04-2014, 09:38 AM

Age has nothing to do with it. Started at 19 myself due to a busy RL schedule. Some people just get it, or most don't til later. Even older folks don't get it sometimes. It's just a matter on what intentions people have being here. In a perfect world, I'm sure they'd be good, but in reality, there is an underlying truth to the real reason they are here. Hope u turn it around and make some newbies weekend a better one!

robexar · 04-04-2014, 12:48 PM

I have been busy hobbying for over 6 years and my steady girl for the last 6 years, twice a week has been on vacation for awhile. If you think Newbies are hard, I can't tell you how hard it is when you don't have a cell phone. Seriously, girls do not believe me when I tell them I have no cell phone and they hang up. I do not post much so that always is a hassle too. The girls that know me are totally okay with me but when I try to reach out to try something new, it is worst than pulling teeth. Don't tell me to get a phone!!!
All I want to say is that not all Newbies are bad, give them a chance.

Hottassamelia · 04-04-2014, 01:47 PM

I am not newbie friendly, but I try my best to forthcoming with both useful information
and a welcoming attitude.
It can get frustrating, I understand.. but Today's newbies are tomorrows veterans.
Seriously..I saw pdid when he had maybe 3 reviews and had been on the site for a month.
Not a year later he has 97.And he is an AWESOME guy!

I will say this though...it may or may not be the case here...
For some reason, when your newer... some of the gentlemen tend to...well,( for lack of a better word ) try you. lol..
I don't know why but in the past several years I have seen/heard it happen to new girls often..and then they stop...just like that...
I dont know the science behind it... but I've seen and experienced it.

keep the faith girl

TitsMcGee · 04-04-2014, 01:55 PM

If i remember right Erica, you were always newbie when you were on Moco, yeah that's right, I said it.

mayorcastro · 04-04-2014, 06:14 PM

Want some cheese to go with your whine?

Guest082318 · 04-05-2014, 05:16 PM

When you list your phone number on your profile along with "newbie friendly, short notice available" you are going to get a lot of calls / texts from time wasters. If you required first contact by PM it would eliminate all this BS.

Your prices are VERY fair and anyone trying to negotiate is not worth your time. Just tell anyone that asks that you do not discuss money and all the info they need is on your showcase.

Guest061815-1 · 04-05-2014, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Hottassamelia

I saw pdid when he had maybe 3 reviews and had been on the site for a month.
Not a year later he has 97.And he is an AWESOME guy!

And I love telling people the story that you hesitated to respond to me at first because I had "PD" in my handle and my avatar was shaped like a badge.

It's funny, yes, but it was also an early lesson for me on how the smart ladies approach their screening. And it also taught me (and as you continue to show every day, dear Amelia) that you are an AWESOME lady!

dbbogey · 04-06-2014, 10:46 AM

I am Utr I have no desire to be any other way. To much to lose. Some gorgeous women have seen me and other refuse because no posting. I understand and respect the gals that don't wont to see me. Period. It is business again period. If you take anything personal from these women your an idiot it is supposed to be fun. If not watch porn and jerk off. Sincerely Dbbogey

Miss envy · 04-06-2014, 10:49 AM

I'm not whining about it just venting out, come on its not that hard to call or even text that you can't come that's all I'm trying to say

dbbogey · 04-06-2014, 11:16 AM

Dear Erica, agree if guy ncns then put him on list never see don't return calls next time. I would never do that rude and disrespectful to you. I have canceled appointments in past, family comes first felt terrible. You gals deserve respect. It is a business meeting. Could cost job in another a another setting. Sincerely Dbbogy

Guest101314 · 04-07-2014, 09:59 AM

For me, no posting doesn't mean they would be a bad client.

I ask for references from other providers. If they don't have any posts, that doesn't necessarily hurt them. If they do have posts and are rude and tactless, then that does hurt them and I wouldn't see them.

There are other ways to screen. I also have two numbers Erica, my hobby phone number is for screened gents that I have given my number to. I also have a GV number for any time that I might post to BP so I can differentiate the two. BP is more likely to have fucktards playing with my time, but I've also had many good repeat clients from BP too. You just have to have some patience and don't sweat the small stuff love.