Overnight session

[Guest032424]

Thinking about doing either a multi-hour or overnight session. The most I've done before is 2 hours. Would be an outcall. Open to spending for quality.

Anyone have any great words of advice and who would you point me to?

My type is petite, spinner, totally GFE, attractive. Faves of the past include Alyssa and her Japanese roommate, Sophie.

[AfterDarkIFeel]

I have not seen her, but I noticed kitty_girl offers great overnight rates and sounds like your type.

[savak]

I don't see the allure myself in overnight sessions.

I remember I was with a provider for a two hour session, after the first 1 hour and 15 or so minutes, I looked at her and said "damn, I don't know what to do with you right now". And this was a provider who I had seen many times before and saw a couple more times after that session.

I have hanged around with a provider for several hours once when she was VERY gracious enough to invite me to stick around and I enjoyed myself for sure.

I just feel like I would get annoyed by alot of other providers after maybe an hour of fucking, maybe go out to eat somewhere after that and just chill and talk. But thats maybe 2 or 3 hours at most, what are y'all gonna do after that, sleep in bed together?

Ladies, what if while y'all are in bed the client farts and it smells really bad? Guys, what if the chick drops an H-bomb and stinks up the place real bad?



Fuck that.

[Claire She Blows]

Overnight sessions are for guys who want to have sex, go out to dinner, have sex again, fall asleep cuddling, and then wake up to more great sex. IMHO.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Overnight sessions are for guys who want to have sex, go out to dinner, have sex again, fall asleep cuddling, and then wake up to more great sex. IMHO.

That's EXACTLY what my true ATF and I did. Wine, talk, dinner, fun, lots of intimacy, and cuddling. Was a basic real world relationship... for that night.

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by Toyz

That's EXACTLY what my true ATF and I did. Wine, talk, dinner, fun, lots of intimacy, and cuddling. Was a basic real world relationship... for that night.

And the next morning, I hope! I like being woken up with a gentle prodding, pushed over onto my stomach, my hips pulled up into doggie, and we're off! No f2f morning breath that way (lol) and we start the day off right!

[Guest031715-1]

Overnights FTW!

[g1102]

Originally Posted by Electricfeelnow

Overnights FTW!

FTW? I assume this is not Fort Worth...help a fella out. Please.

[Pitfall]

FTW = For The Win

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by CatPee

FTW = For The Win

FTW = Fuck the World

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by Toyz

FTW = Fuck the World

That's what I was thinking.

I've done overnights on 3 seperate occasions and while 2 of them were really fun, one of them ended with a horrible hangover and the distinct feeling I just wasted a lot of cash.

Unless you are going to be tying someone up and experimenting with various devices I don't know that you will get more out of it than you would a 2 hour session.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by junkweed

That's what I was thinking.

I've done overnights on 3 seperate occasions and while 2 of them were really fun, one of them ended with a horrible hangover and the distinct feeling I just wasted a lot of cash.

Unless you are going to be tying someone up and experimenting with various devices I don't know that you will get more out of it than you would a 2 hour session.

[Guest032424]

Thanks everyone for the sage advice.

[Listener]

Originally Posted by vincent78730

Thanks everyone for the sage advice.

Well if you wanted sage advice why didn't you just say so?

I prefer purple sage to white and usually in a smudge stick for cleansing away dark energy plus I like the scent.

OK back to the topic on hand.

I would think it much wiser to simply book two sessions. A 2 hr (sex+dinner in bed+more sex+snuggle) session and then another separate early morning session if you want someone to get you up in the morn.

a) You're not paying for 6-8 hours of sleeping.

b) You get a fresh new face in the morn with teeth already brushed

c) You can still offer the early morning session to the same provider possibly at a discount since it's back to back sessions.

She'll return fresh as a daisy but she's more likely to ask if she can just sleep over in order to save her the gas, time and major hassle of a return trip. You'll be doing her a favor rather than paying for her to sleep.

Personally I'm not so sure how well I'd sleep with a complete stranger in my bed anyway.

If she prefers to leave and return to get you up early morn then fine? No skin off your nose and you'll possibly sleep more securely knowing that no one is snooping around your place in the wee hours.

Pay for 3 hours or pay for an over-night for the same service. Hmm decisions decisions.

[SofaKingFun]

Vincentzipcode, I would *strongly* suggest that if you're seriously considering scheduling an overnight with someone, that it be with someone you've already seen before. The reason(s) being, an overnight is an awfully long time to spend with a person, and if that person doesn't exactly knock your socks off, or if there's something about them that just puts you off, or they don't live up to the mental image you've created in the time leading up to the encounter, or any number of things that you just don't like/prefer, then you're really going to be disappointed/bummed over the deal....and, let's not forget that in spite of your disappointment, you're still on the hook for the entire bill, which makes the disappointment pill all the more bitter and harder to swallow.

I've had many overnight visits and even weekend visits with several provider-friends and have had some incredible experiences and a whole helluvalotta fun, *but* (and this is the important part), they were all with someone I've not only visited with before, they were also ones with whom I've "clicked". We just hit-it-off, and "clicked", and as a result, we had a really great time and we both wanted to visit again and for a more extended length of time. IMNSHO, this makes all the difference in the world as far as extended-visits are concerned. The better the "click" the better the experience....at least that's been my experience. The time leading up to the encounter is typically more exciting and energized because it's spent ping-ponging flirtatious messages filled with BCD options/possibilities/suggestions/etc. as well as setting the stage so you both can be better prepared for the freakery which you're about to experience, or introduce to the other ..and on and on...It's just a better, more fulfilling experience all around when you're somewhat familiar with another, and even better if you two actually like, enjoy, and actually look forward to visiting with one another.

I couldn't imagine booking an overnight with someone I've never spent any sort of time with...although this isn't to say that a few initial encounters didn't turn into an overnight visit, just that it would be an extremely unlikely happening.

Anyway, that's my take on the matter....and we all know that my opinion is worth exactly what it cost you. Heh!

Good luck and happy trails.

Regards,
SofaKingFun

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