Old Man Rant #2

[peabody]

I know one mans kink in another mans vanilla but it seams women under thirty both pro and civilian have lost their f'ing minds. I think with porn becoming ubiquitous it has caused these trends. These are just a few of the things I have encountered lately. Choking, Is this really a thing. I think ill pass I dont want to go to prison for accidentally killing you. Slapping your face, pass. Slapping you t*ts like a speed bag, pass. Slapping your clit, I thought it was very sensitive pass. No I do not want you to spit in my mouth or to spit in your mouth. no, I dont want you to hawk up a luggie to use as lube. No, I dont want you to gag on my c*ck to the point of vomiting. And the most common "Where do you want to cum?". How about the hole Im in. I dont see why I want to finish my self off when Im with a woman. I'm all about satisfying a woman but I find most of this is for the mans visual benefit. End of rant

[ZantannaParella]

I agree so I guess I'm old too. Haha

[allaboutthebbbj]

I definitely prefer to cum on her face. The rest I agree on

[Lena Duvall]

Kinky sexual interests may be informed by contemporary porn to some extent. But they would exist regardless and have existed prior to the current explosion of readily available porn. If one is a student of vintage BDSM and erotica, that fact is clear.

Personally, I love being chocked. Yes breath play is risky. There is information out there about how to engage in asphyxiation in safer ways.. where and how to place one's fingers.. how much pressure to apply or not.. I'm still alive and I'll do it again.

Tit slapping or even punching is lots of fun with breasts of all shapes and sizes. My soft natural tits are perfect for being slapped.

I could go on and on about clit torture and being forced to cum over and over. For those who are interested, in addition to using your hands or fingers to torture your partner's clit, there are also pumps and clamps designed for that purpose. Also, high-powered vibrators!

Spit play can be enjoyable but I'm not always into it.

Emetophilia is a hard limit for me. I have absolutely no interest whatsoever in personally participating. But I've had friends tell me very interesting stories about their experiences giving Roman showers. Again it's possible to respect the fact that other people are sexually aroused by acts that might turn you off.

Lastly, I agree: spit is not lube. I almost exclusively use FC2s and I love putting one in, then inserting as much lube as possible and being fucked silly until my date finishes inside the female condom that's in my pussy. It's faint but I can feel the warmth of cum through the polyurethane.

[boardman]

When done properly, pain can intensify the pleasure that follows it.
For others it's the psychological control of BDSM that attracts them to it. S & M being the key words.

Breath play causes the body to release a ton of adrenaline to help the body survive the lack of oxygen and keep the heart beating. That adrenaline rush is what makes it appealing and addictive.
I agree with Lena. These kinks all existed before the explosion of porn. Porn may have brought it more into the mainstream and excited the curiosities of younger people. I think that may be dangerous because they feel the need to dive deeper and deeper looking for the next fix rather than learning to appreciate sex for what it is and allow it to evolve as they mature sexually and emotionally.
The thing to keep in mind is WALDT.

[Guest072624]

Originally Posted by boardman

When done properly, pain can intensify the pleasure that follows it.
For others it's the psychological control of BDSM that attracts them to it. S & M being the key words.

Breath play causes the body to release a ton of adrenaline to help the body survive the lack of oxygen and keep the heart beating. That adrenaline rush is what makes it appealing and addictive.
I agree with Lena. These kinks all existed before the explosion of porn. Porn may have brought it more into the mainstream and excited the curiosities of younger people. I think that may be dangerous because they feel the need to dive deeper and deeper looking for the next fix rather than learning to appreciate sex for what it is and allow it to evolve as they mature sexually and emotionally.
The thing to keep in mind is WALDT.

Although me and Boardman dont see eye to eye much on pretty much anything he is 100% correct on this. I have clients who love soft S&M play...i personally dont partake in it but hey whatever rocks the clients boat!

[Ms. Athena]

If it makes you go Ummm...then why not try it? How do you know if you like it or not....We ONLY live once and life is too short to be vanilla

[cabletex7]

OP, 50 years ago, your granddaddy wrote a similar message to Penthouse, complaining about the new sexual positions the high-falutin' young woman of the day were wanting to try. You know, like cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and, Lawd have mercy, doggie.

[ICU 812]

PEEBODY:

Umm . . .yeah.. . . Re the OP: I'm with you on most of that.

I only became active in the hobby world in my mid fifties, around 2006, and "back then"v . . . .

Used to be everyone was looking for the elusive "Girl-Friend Experience"; something more intimate and personal than a bent-over quickie behind a dumpster from a SW provider.

Used to be what much of what you describe might have been activities from a "PSE" session or BDSM (well the SM part anyway).

[tbone77494]

I also think “hey, do what you want” although I am not slapping anyone. That said, I agree with cum in the place I am. I occasionally like a COF, but almost always it’s round 1 in the mouth and round 2 in the condom.

[idiot savant]

And GET OFF MY LAWN, you damn kids.

I actually don't care what other people's kink is. There are people that like to be pissed/shit on. There was the guy a few months ago that was bragging about "sounding".

I don't care what you like. I know what I like.

[CurvyKatie]

Originally Posted by idiot savant

And GET OFF MY LAWN, you damn kids.

I actually don't care what other people's kink is. There are people that like to be pissed/shit on. There was the guy a few months ago that was bragging about "sounding".

I don't care what you like. I know what I like.

I remember that guy with the whole sounding thing. I don't even have a penis and that really weirds me out.

[Russ38]

One of the upsides of necrophilia.....they don’t give a fuck what you do to them and never complain.....ik,ik....

[nascobar21]

Choking while Black, is A NO NO!! Definitely don’t want to see prison gates. Don’t want to get Me tooed. Lmao

[BatteriesNotIncluded]

Darn. I’m old, and most of those seem rather mild?