Ladies: Have You Ever Been Paid To NOT See Someone Of A Certain Ethnicity or A Specific Hobbyist?

[Alli]

Originally Posted by YummyMarie

What about sugar daddies who ask women to stop providing? I don't have any sugar daddies

[Fancyinheels]

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[Valerie]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

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You can have my old one...I fired him two months ago, he will do your head in but on the plus side he has a black Amex card and will let you go mad with it

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Okay, I'll be the surprise out of the rabbit hole: A few years ago a client had me on "retainer," so to speak, for a couple of grand a month, and he just assumed, wrongly and for no reason I could determine, that I was not seeing black clients. One day he found out that I DID NOT have an NBA policy. He offered me another $1,000 a month to stop seeing ANY man of color, black, Indian, and even Hispanic. (Didn't seem to have a problem with Asians. strangely.) Since I was still pretty new in the Hobby, it was tempting for about 2 seconds, but I was so appalled that instead we parted ways. (It was not a pretty "break-up.") Left me a little rattled to realize he was probably wearing the sheets we had been sleeping on at a KKK rally later.

Since then I have lost a couple of clients who outright asked me if I've seen black men, and I won't lie. One even jumped out of bed and called me a name. I have no idea why fellows would think I wouldn't be willing to entertain any kind, clean, generous gentleman who had green in his wallet. Evidently some guys think they'll get "coodies." How racist and immature.

Thank you Fancy! I'm glad that you tell it like it is. It's nice to hear your perspective on things! That had to be the easiest $1,000 ever!

Which reminds me, I've seen a skinhead before in the hobby and I will never forget. I can remember the tattoos on his body as if It were yesterday. He was a cute white guy with "White supremacy" tattooed across his Chest. He also had a nazi swatsika next to his belly button. He was a very nice guy and such, but the tattoos really bothered me...ecspecially during missionary.

He apparently, "Had a thing for Black Girls".

Personally, I don't like to associate myself with individuals who are in racial groups. I wouldn't even see a black man that claimed to be a black panther for that matter. I just wouldn't be "comfortable".

I respect NBA providers as well as anyone else, but I wonder how many providers here have a "preference" instead of a pimp-implied NBA "Policy".

[coolaid]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Okay, I'll be the surprise out of the rabbit hole: A few years ago a client had me on "retainer," so to speak, for a couple of grand a month, and he just assumed, wrongly and for no reason I could determine, that I was not seeing black clients. One day he found out that I DID NOT have an NBA policy. He offered me another $1,000 a month to stop seeing ANY man of color, black, Indian, and even Hispanic. (Didn't seem to have a problem with Asians. strangely.) Since I was still pretty new in the Hobby, it was tempting for about 2 seconds, but I was so appalled that instead we parted ways. (It was not a pretty "break-up.") Left me a little rattled to realize he was probably wearing the sheets we had been sleeping on at a KKK rally later.

Since then I have lost a couple of clients who outright asked me if I've seen black men, and I won't lie. One even jumped out of bed and called me a name. I have no idea why fellows would think I wouldn't be willing to entertain any kind, clean, generous gentleman who had green in his wallet. Evidently some guys think they'll get "coodies." How racist and immature.

Unless by "a few years ago" you mean 20 or 30 years ago I'm not buying this story.

All of the hot, tight, young, tender white girls and latinas we have on here and YOU are the one that's being offered thousands of dollars to not see the brothers. That's just a little hard to believe.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by coolaid

Unless by "a few years ago" you mean 20 or 30 years ago I'm not buying this story.

All of the hot, tight, young, tender white girls and latinas we have on here and YOU are the one that's being offered thousands of dollars to not see the brothers. That's just a little hard to believe.

I don't give a ratdog's fart if YOU believe me or not, Shallow Hal.

I've never had a reason to lie, and I have a more-than-respectable reputation for honesty. Not everybody, amazingly, is looking for the "hot, tight, young, tender" perfect body. (Wonder how many of these girls are total conceited bitches outside of the bedroom? They may have every right to be, but a lot of fellows won't put up with that behavior long just for the sake of sex with a fantasy facade.) You, like so many, have the stereotype of the "hooker" in your mind. I'm an escort, a companion, an educated courtesan, whether 2 hours or 2 weeks at a time. Somehow, some way, I've managed to make it to my 6th anniversary as Fancy, a tall, tart, and sassy redhead, and yes, a "mature" BBW with 96 "yes" reviews on a NUMBER of sites and NOT ONE negative report. I think that accomplishment speaks for itself. I'm supporting the Irish Chihuahua Reserve out in the deep, dark, spooky woods PLUS an apartment for incall in Houston, so I must be doing something right for somebody.

Racism has no age, class, or physical boundaries, therefore what I may have looked like 5 and 1/2 years ago (when this occurred) is immaterial. (Admittedly, I was a wee bit thinner and gravity had less of a hold.....dammit.) The gentleman in reference was Old School Southern Money and in his late sixties, so it really wasn't out of character for him to be appalled at the thought of "racial mixing."

Oh, to be clear, I DIDN'T take the money. NOBODY controls this Irish lassie or makes her decisions for her, and that is what he was trying to do.

[jbravo_123]

Originally Posted by coolaid

Unless by "a few years ago" you mean 20 or 30 years ago I'm not buying this story.

All of the hot, tight, young, tender white girls and latinas we have on here and YOU are the one that's being offered thousands of dollars to not see the brothers. That's just a little hard to believe.

I don't have a problem believing this.

1) People want to control whatever they perceive as theirs regardless of age/race/gender, etc.

2) Fancy is a well established provider who has plenty of fans and plenty of positive reviews. Many hobbyists are willing to pay a premium on the experience, intellect, and no drama (not to mention she's a pretty lady!). Why would you be surprised then that someone would offer her that?

I also notice that you didn't mention Asian or AA girls - I guess you don't believe they could be offered money to not see AA guys?

[coolaid]

Originally Posted by jbravo_123

I also notice that you didn't mention Asian or AA girls - I guess you don't believe they could be offered money to not see AA guys?

I don't believe it happens period, to any providers of any race.

Now do guys let it be known to a provider that they only see nba providers? I'm sure that happens all the time. Most white/latino/asian guys won't date a civilian chick that dates black guys, so it makes sense that they don't want to share their hookers with tyrone either.

[jbravo_123]

Originally Posted by coolaid

I don't believe it happens period, to any providers of any race.

Now do guys let it be known to a provider that they only see nba providers? I'm sure that happens all the time. Most white/latino/asian guys won't date a civilian chick that dates black guys, so it makes sense that they don't want to share their hookers with tyrone either.

I think for younger guys it may be harder to believe that since while we're progressing slowly as a society, race relations are still improved from say 50 years ago.

That being said, remember that the average hobbyist is probably an older guy, combine that with us being in the South... again, it doesn't surprise me.

[cujoninja]

I've done them all, it is really not the color of their skin to me but rather their attitude. They can be mediocre in bed but if they have the right attitude and not conceited at all, then I will be their regular.

[ftime]

I have had one woman tell me " if you do black - you don't ever get any of this vanilla" . Not a problem - Just didn't tell her about my black UTR - very cute. Had another provider offer up "I don't do black guys". Worked really well until she gave birth (with her white BF in attendance) to a half black baby - opps - hate when that shit happens. However I'm a data driven sort: http://www.cdc.gov/std/stats07/minorities.htm .

I'm not suggesting anything here. The way however I read these numbers is that it's a socio/economic thing. My guess is if you segregated the data by economic class, rather than racially, you would see similar results regardless of race. Circumcision is also a factor in STD infection.

[Randall Creed]

Interesting.

Sometimes hobbying is harder than barhopping.

I really loathe barhopping, which is partially why I hobby, but it's starting to feel like the better option.

[JRCash]

Originally Posted by ftime

I'm not suggesting anything here. The way however I read these numbers is that it's a socio/economic thing. My guess is if you segregated the data by economic class, rather than racially, you would see similar results regardless of race.

A lot of what is widely thought of as racial in the US is really disguised intergenerational classism enforced by society. As much as the PR is "US, land of opportunity", the reality is that individual merit takes a backseat to whose loins you happened to come from. Far more-so than most contemporary industrialized democracies.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by JRCash

A lot of what is widely thought of as racial in the US is really disguised intergenerational classism enforced by society. As much as the PR is "US, land of opportunity", the reality is that individual merit takes a backseat to whose loins you happened to come from. Far more-so than most contemporary industrialized democracies.

Horse Shit, I came from a back alley union. I got more colors in me than Rambro. My mother was a queen in heat and who the fuck knows who my daddy was. Look at me now. I'm one of the most lovable fucktards on this SHMB.

[Randall Creed]

You may be one of the lucky ones, Boardman. Things may work great for you, but for others it could be the opposite.