Blow N Go aka BNG ... Why Isn't It More Popular? A Question Descended From Curiousity And Surprise ...

[Camille Fox]

I miss DG

[TheAntichrist666]

Originally Posted by Camille Fox

I miss DG

Me too

[Anna Nikkole]

I decide when I want to. #1 it's fast (15 minutes from walking in and out leaves little less for a blow), #2 no wear and tear on the body, #3 $80-$100 will pay for SOMETHING and I like my bills covered on time.

Right now minimum $125 for hh for my own reasons.

Kammye said it, you don't have to be broke to run a special, I run them sometimes and I have never missed a bill!

There no set rules in the industry, read an ad, pay, or look for another.

Do I think I'm worth more, yes, all women are! But everyone lives differently and has different bills. We set it at what we are comfortable with.

I'm a little active and some can't handle me for the entire hour lol.

[BFCjosh]

Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

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Most providers make more money with greek. With BNG they make less. There are lots of ladies that offer BNG. Just book with one of them. Or, since you're so short on time, stop posting and reading on this thread and use that extra time to have a half hour appointment.

[TheAntichrist666]

Originally Posted by BFCjosh

Most providers make more money with greek. With BNG they make less. There are lots of ladies that offer BNG. Just book with one of them. Or, since you're so short on time, stop posting and reading on this thread and use that extra time to have a half hour appointment.

Greek involves a lot of wear and tear ... ijs

BNG not as much ...

[BFCjosh]

Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

Greek involves a lot of wear and tear ... ijs

BNG not as much ...

Not with most of you guys.

[Anna Nikkole]

Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

Greek involves a lot of wear and tear ... ijs

BNG not as much ...

Amen, it hurts, it's not happening, hell no. My pussy is damn tight, no need for ass!

[Fancyinheels]

This has been an enjoyable and illuminating thread. I am surprised at the honest answers coming from the ladies, and some very discerning responses from the gents. BRAVO for discussing a difficult subject intelligently!

A summary:

PRO BNG
1. Short and sweet for the time-crushed client.
2. Manageable dollar value for the budget-minded client.
3. Some clients are not interested in full service and prefer oral exclusively.
4. Quick turnover for the provider.
5. Increases client volume.
6. A provider can make some money now while waiting on big bucks later.
7. Wider range of options for a provider to market.

CON BNG
1. Rushed for both parties.
2. More low-cost appointments may lead to less income overall for the provider.
3. Many clients, whether they mean to or not, run short sessions long.
4. Repeated oral-only sessions over the course of a day can be tiring for provider.
5. Takes just as much time for a provider to get ready for 15 minutes as 2 hours.
6. Clients who will ONLY engage in cheaper sessions frequently haggle more.
7. Provider who advertises BNG regularly gets stereotyped in "streetwalker" category.

Going on about the last point, perception is crucial in any venture which entails the public marketing of one's services, and like it or not, providers who openly offer blow-n-go sessions ARE thought of as somehow "less worthy," less classy, than those who do not. For some, BNG just screams "hooker!" (Not a bad thing, depending upon the image a lady wants to project and/or protect.) Many gentlemen just care about a jolly good time and don't form prejudices based on price point or increments of time, but a large number DO. They may not be as "vocal" on the board, but certainly express this attitude in private.

Honestly, it can be compared to why some ladies don't see AA men because they are afraid that current or future clientele won't see them afterward. Advertise a BNG, and you may alter your client base, right or wrong.

Perhaps even worse, however, is that many PROVIDERS share the same "distaste" for BNG-friendly gals as many gentlemen. We ladies have to work together, but I know high-dollar companions who won't even answer reference requests from BNG providers because they see those ladies as "beneath them," or the more expensive lady won't see the gent again after he has been with "that girl." Some of this is concern over volume and exposure, which doesn't necessarily correlate if safe practices are always followed.

Popularity aside and perception and stigma being what it is, there really isn't much wonder as to why more providers don't openly offer BNG. I think ANY provider would accommodate a reasonable request by a regular (I certainly try my best), and she might consider working with a gent she has been intimate with only once or twice before since she screened him and has the in-person read on his personality and "feel" for his body and style of lust-making.

So, if you have visited someone recently but now circumstances are such that you just want a BNG/quickie from the same provider and she doesn't advertise it, ask. However, be ready for a shocked denial if she charges more than $250 an hour. May want to word your inquiry carefully and give her the polite option of saying "no" with no consequences.

DO NOT ask a lady who doesn't advertise BNG/quickies and who you are contacting out of the blue for the very first time if she would do one "just for you" because you only have $80-$100. That will annoy her to no end.

[Anna Nikkole]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

This has been an enjoyable and illuminating thread. I am surprised at the honest answers coming from the ladies, and some very discerning responses from the gents. BRAVO for discussing a difficult subject intelligently!

A summary:

PRO BNG
1. Short and sweet for the time-crushed client.
2. Manageable dollar value for the budget-minded client.
3. Some clients are not interested in full service and prefer oral exclusively.
4. Quick turnover for the provider.
5. Increases client volume.
6. A provider can make some money now while waiting on big bucks later.
7. Wider range of options for a provider to market.

CON BNG
1. Rushed for both parties.
2. More low-cost appointments may lead to less income overall for the provider.
3. Many clients, whether they mean to or not, run short sessions long.
4. Repeated oral-only sessions over the course of a day can be tiring for provider.
5. Takes just as much time for a provider to get ready for 15 minutes as 2 hours.
6. Clients who will ONLY engage in cheaper sessions frequently haggle more.
7. Provider who advertises BNG regularly gets stereotyped in "streetwalker" category.

Going on about the last point, perception is crucial in any venture which entails the public marketing of one's services, and like it or not, providers who openly offer blow-n-go sessions ARE thought of as somehow "less worthy," less classy, than those who do not. For some, BNG just screams "hooker!" (Not a bad thing, depending upon the image a lady wants to project and/or protect.) Many gentlemen just care about a jolly good time and don't form prejudices based on price point or increments of time, but a large number DO. They may not be as "vocal" on the board, but certainly express this attitude in private.

Honestly, it can be compared to why some ladies don't see AA men because they are afraid that current or future clientele won't see them afterward. Advertise a BNG, and you may alter your client base, right or wrong.

Perhaps even worse, however, is that many PROVIDERS share the same "distaste" for BNG-friendly gals as many gentlemen. We ladies have to work together, but I know high-dollar companions who won't even answer reference requests from BNG providers because they see those ladies as "beneath them," or the more expensive lady won't see the gent again after he has been with "that girl." Some of this is concern over volume and exposure, which doesn't necessarily correlate if safe practices are always followed.

Popularity aside and perception and stigma being what it is, there really isn't much wonder as to why more providers don't openly offer BNG. I think ANY provider would accommodate a reasonable request by a regular (I certainly try my best), and she might consider working with a gent she has been intimate with only once or twice before since she screened him and has the in-person read on his personality and "feel" for his body and style of lust-making.

So, if you have visited someone recently but now circumstances are such that you just want a BNG/quickie from the same provider and she doesn't advertise it, ask. However, be ready for a shocked denial if she charges more than $250 an hour. May want to word your inquiry carefully and give her the polite option of saying "no" with no consequences.

DO NOT ask a lady who doesn't advertise BNG/quickies and who you are contacting out of the blue for the very first time if she would do one "just for you" because you only have $80-$100. That will annoy her to no end.

You are correct when you say some are looked down on. Honestly I get more request for 90 minutes than anything, but because I'm not such high dollar other providers don't give refs, funny thing is I give references to ANYONE! And I'm one to care about tcb more than what someone thinks.

I have been with clients who have been with HDH and they show me text of the girl begging for a handout! Oh, if the truth were only known. I have never done that, but maybe I'M doing something wrong lol. And with my rates where they are now, I still don't have to be high volume. Average person makes 30-50k a year. So if I pull in only $500 this week and $1000 next week I'm cool.

With higher rates you almost have to jump on every single inquiry because of less business. While rates reasonable you get to pick and choose and client doesn't have a long list of activities for you to do! Only time I take more than 2 a day (and usually only 1) is when I travel. That's when I need to make my trip count.

End of the day it's a double edge sword because you just don't know!

Assume make a ass u me, DG would say! I'm not beneath anyone. And I always practice safety first. Many girls can actually be bought, while poor lil me can't!

You just never know someone's situation!

[Johanna]

Originally Posted by josmith12328

I wish more classy providers offered half hour sessions at a rate that correlated a little better with the hourly rate.

It is getting challenging for me to pop twice in an hour. With an hour I am rushing to pop once so I can recovery for the next round. With a half hour I find it plenty of time to relax and do everything I want.

Why do you feel like you necessarily have to pop twice? thats too much pressure to put on yourself.

[Anna Nikkole]

Originally Posted by Johanna

Why do you feel like you necessarily have to pop twice? thats too much pressure to put on yourself.

I agree, when the body don't want to anymore don't push it. Half hour is plenty. Especially if you will see the provider on a regular basis.

[citizen44]

Originally Posted by Johanna

Why do you feel like you necessarily have to pop twice? thats too much pressure to put on yourself.

Name something you do twice a week that comes even close to 150-300/hr? If I asked you to pay even 300 for an object you could keep, you would make sure you got every bit of use out of that service or object as you could.

[TheAntichrist666]

Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

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BNG is the way to go!!! = )

This is how I party after BNG = )

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

BNG is the way to go!!! = )

This is how I party after BNG = )

Haha! ! Too funny!

I wonder how you party after a 3-hour sexathon!

[Grace Preston]

For me.. BnG is somewhat of a more risky proposition. I prefer to keep the foot-traffic to my incall lower since I have a permanent location. Back when I was more mobile and utilizing hotels for incall, I didn't mind it.