Are Providers okay with hobbyist leaving after you open the door

[Guest062217]

That's ironic.. Because I think I am probably one of the very very few hobbyists who has pictures of myself on my P411 profile. This way, any provider I contact for an appointment will know ahead of time that I am NOT some disgusting fat slob. In fact quite the contrary (andy any provider who has met me will vouch).

There has only been 1 instance where I was not attracted to the provider at all and did not go forward with the session. However, I conduct myself with class and I gracefully took a 'fake' business call and apologized for not being able to stay due to work and I left $60 for her time. She said thank you very much and appreciated the gesture gave me a hug and I left.

I believe in truth in advertising and since we (as hobbyists) are the ones paying we ultimately have the say in what, how much and more importantly "who" we will pay for time with.

Providers also have the choice to set their rate(s), minimum/maximum age, ethnicity of men they see as well. After all it is your body and you can chose who you have a session with as well...BUT you must understand that the more limitations you set of the men you see then the less business/appointments you will ultimately have - again your choice.

Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

Now THAT would be PRICELESS, especially for the biggest sh*t talkers. A full body shot so that we may judge height/weight ratio (for those who aren't aware yet) and be reminded of the visual every time they bully someone

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Wow Amy, GREAT avatar!

Ditto. These new photos are pretty great, and need to be on her Showcase! Amy has recreated herself, and I applaud her.

http://www.myproviderguide.com/escor...-pse-baby.html

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

The hobby wisdom of a millennium condensed into a handful of words. Beautiful.

(Have you considered starting a hobby blog?)

LOL

[willdooit]

Amelia you are the complete package smart,beautiful and such incredible body I need repeat visit....

Originally Posted by Amelia Sterling

This is precisely why truth in advertising is vital in any industry. When expectations do not match reality, disappointment can have an over all negative effect on any encounter.

I have not had this happen to me, HOWEVER - if someone were to find themselves unattracted to me for ANY reason, I would hope that they be honest and upfront about it, and do us both the favor of leaving prior to any hanky-panky.
I would hope that they would offer me the same opportunity, as well.

Chemistry is terribly important in forging a passionate connection. Attraction can be influenced by any number of things; it is my belief that the best experiences are imbued with both. Anything less, and the parties involved are just going through the motions.

There is, of course, a right and a wrong way to extricate yourself from a less than desirable encounter; I prefer the honeyed approach (rather than vinegar). A simple, "I'm sorry, I hate to waste your time, but this will not work for me," should do, without flinging insults or vitriol. Alternatively, you could check your cell phone, feign concern, and say, "It looks like there's an emergency back at the office I have to take care of. I've got to go back right now; I'm sorry to have wasted your time."

It is up to the lady in question whether she may require a cancellation fee, and you may potentially have an issue on your hands negotiating your way out the door, but I truly feel that if you don't want to be there, then you shouldn't stay.

[citizen44]

Originally Posted by abeautifulsite

I have had 2 men lie to me last week about age and nationality just to get me over there.

This is an interesting comment. Do you not see Canadians, or Mexicans or French?

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by citizen44

This is an interesting comment. Do you not see Canadians, or Mexicans or French?

Did you bust them when you checked their passports? Lol

[Guest030617]

Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Wow Amy, GREAT avatar!

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Ditto. These new photos are pretty great, and need to be on her Showcase! Amy has recreated herself, and I applaud her.

http://www.myproviderguide.com/escor...-pse-baby.html

She truly looks nothing like her showcase...the new pictures really do show off them curves and how pretty she is! Go on girl, it was a pleasure working with ya!

[SweetCaliCox]

[QUOTE=Fancyinheels;1055095666]Really? Do you actually think any provider with a "photo shopped body pic" is going to respond to this at all, much less truthfully, or are you just complaining to the clouds?

yes I do think so my photos are photoshopped but minor adjustments... red eye contrast and brightness maybe a frame or two some vinagette filters nothing drastic to change the shape and size of my body!!!

AS far as hobbyists coming and leaving!!~! THAT IS A RISK WE GIRLS HAVE TO TAKE WHEN ENTERING INTO A SET TIME TO MEET SOMEONE..

Can you imagine how scary it Is on bp!?! they come from allllllllll walks of life on there!!! me I have had to tell many to turn around and leave my entry way because no matter what they could NOT STAY!!!

[Guest062114-5]

I'm curious as to what makes a provider turn away a gent after screening?

[AbigailFox]

I've turned away a few gents for being obviously highly intoxicated (one on something other than alcohol) . They were both screened and had references. I think that has been it, I haven't had to turn anyone else away after screening.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by AbigailFox

I've turned away a few gents for being obviously highly intoxicated (one on something other than alcohol) . They were both screened and had references. I think that has been it, I haven't had to turn anyone else away after screening.

Yes, I can totally understand that! I was wondering if it was usually because they suspected LE or a safety issue. Or if it was due to appearance/ size/ etc. that would seem so hard to explain.

But saying, "I'm sorry, it's seems like you've already had enough partying today, let's reschedule." That I get.

[BFCjosh]

Originally Posted by abeautifulsite

I have to agree FancyinHeels - However guys please understand... That goes both ways. I have had 2 men lie to me last week about age and nationality just to get me over there. So if you want women to be truthful with you then you got to be truthful with us. And I do believe there definitely is a better way of getting that point across without bashing people like you did. Just saying

And you were able to spot their nationality? "You're not American, you're fucking Canadian!" "You're not from the United Emirates, you're from Bahrain!"

[Guest071514-1]

Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Wow Amy, GREAT avatar!

why thank you

[Guest071514-1]

Originally Posted by BDS

She truly looks nothing like her showcase...the new pictures really do show off them curves and how pretty she is! Go on girl, it was a pleasure working with ya!

thank you ladies, I like the pretty avatars, but I love the look of ahh on a guys face when he sees me. If I show crappy phone pix, then they have nothing to bitch about when they see me! And yes I love the pictures and will use them for sure, but eccie guys would complain even if you look like Jennifer Lopez. btw, R.M. just sent me more

And thank both of you beautiful ladies, it was fun

[R.M.]

thanks again Amy for being such a great model with those beautiful curves. I admire you so much for your turn around and determination. Such a pleasure to meet you and work together, you gave 110 percent.