Dorothy Monroe

[8254F]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Too late. ROS was publicly readable. Correcting it after the fact doesn't excuse you from posting it to begin with, or so I've been told, but evidently you got lucky and no mods noticed the unedited "oops."

For gosh sake, when will some of you learn to STOP asking about ANY member who has departed ECCIE? Those who are gone (but not banned) have their reasons, so highly advisable to respect their privacy before curiosity causes trouble.

That's a very ridiculous and over the top response to someone asking an innocent question. What are you the site bully?

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by 8254F

That's a very ridiculous and over the top response to someone asking an innocent question. What are you the site bully?

Fancy is a jewel on this site, that does what she can to aid the members of these forums. Fancy has been on these hobby forums going back at least 10 years, through both ASPD and here.

This thread should not have been started. Once a person has been guested, then we should assume that there is a reason for it, and the reason is none of our business. She tells a mod she want's to be guested, then the mod will follow through and guest them.

I think what may have happened is that Fancy has seen stuff like this for years and years, and she replied. It reminds me of the 'nba' policy some lady may have, every few months someone comes along and starts another thread. For some of us older members, here comes another thread, and basically when you've read many threads with the some old story line you wonder if and when it's going to stop. Fancy and everybody else knows showing ROS is one of the biggest no-no's there is on this site, and some guy posted ROS. Fancy is right, once ROS data is posted in open forums, someone may copy and paste the data, and it's there forever.

My opinion is this.......instead of calling Fancy names, how about looking how long she's been here, versus some guy who registered in 2016, realizing how much knowledge she has in the hobby............and show a little fucking respect.

[dearhunter]

Fancy is a site bully......heh

[TryWeakly]

Originally Posted by 8254F

That's a very ridiculous and over the top response to someone asking an innocent question. What are you the site bully?

Nope. That is rr and wtfart... joint chairpersons

[chicagoboy]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

With respect, Fancy is a site bully......heh

FIFY.

[TryWeakly]

Yeah, ahe always writes incompletw sentences, kant spel und does'nt uze propur grammer... realee uritating.. jk F.

[WTF]

Originally Posted by 00 gauge

So I guess it's safe to go ahead and take Dorthy off my ignore list then? .....

Lol...now that was pretty funny.



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[8254F]

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Fancy is a jewel on this site, that does what she can to aid the members of these forums. Fancy has been on these hobby forums going back at least 10 years, through both ASPD and here.

This thread should not have been started. Once a person has been guested, then we should assume that there is a reason for it, and the reason is none of our business. She tells a mod she want's to be guested, then the mod will follow through and guest them.

I think what may have happened is that Fancy has seen stuff like this for years and years, and she replied. It reminds me of the 'nba' policy some lady may have, every few months someone comes along and starts another thread. For some of us older members, here comes another thread, and basically when you've read many threads with the some old story line you wonder if and when it's going to stop. Fancy and everybody else knows showing ROS is one of the biggest no-no's there is on this site, and some guy posted ROS. Fancy is right, once ROS data is posted in open forums, someone may copy and paste the data, and it's there forever.

My opinion is this.......instead of calling Fancy names, how about looking how long she's been here, versus some guy who registered in 2016, realizing how much knowledge she has in the hobby............and show a little fucking respect.

You're equally ignorant. Having longevity on this site automatically gives someone the right to be a jerk? Do you get a coupon for a free piece for jumping in and coming to her defense or are you freelancing as a suckup?

[8254F]

Originally Posted by 00 gauge

So I guess it's safe to go ahead and take Dorthy off my ignore list then? .....

DITTO!!!...

[8254F]

Originally Posted by tapple

What happened to Dorothy?

If you haven't figured it out yet do a little bit more investigation on your own. Look up an old thread where you posted and you know she posted. You should be able to put the pieces together from that.
The ease at which people went from 0-rude instead of simply helping you obtain an answer to your question speaks for itself.

[Fancyinheels]

No, having longevity on this site, and experience in the Hobby, doesn't give anyone the right to be a jerk, and I apologize if I came off as abrupt and rude, but I WAS highly exasperated, both by the revelation of ROS and the continued probing into why a member in good standing left with no explanation. Society as a whole, and ECCIE as a representative segment, doesn't seem to have much respect for an individual's private decisions anymore. We are NOT entitled to delve into every motivation simply because we want to know!

Citizens who secede ECCIE can pretty much be divided into 3 categories:

1. Those who are banned.

2. Those who indicate their departures with threads like, "I'm retiring, " or, "Please delete my account," or, "It's been fun, but I'm moving along."

3. Those who suddenly blink out of existence.

It's the 3rd tier that concerns me, and anyone who has been in the Hobby for a while realizes that group may have valid reasons of safety behind an abrupt exit, so when others continue to fish, information may be revealed that could hurt the departed in some way, and too much open chatter can lead to bancations when current members start making links they shouldn't.

Of course, someone who decides to vanish unannounced may just not want the rigmarole that ensues from leaving, dramatic threads like THIS one, for instance, contentious bets on how soon they will be back, idle gossip for sheer entertainment that, again, can lead to the inadvertent release of forbidden data. Speculation without facts, I have found, is a dangerous weapon that can easily set many fires.

Perhaps ECCIE should consider some sort of guideline giving reputable members (without cloud of suspicion for scamming shenanigans) who have disappeared without public notice a 6-month "no fly zone" barring discussion to help them on their way?

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by 8254F

You're equally ignorant. Having longevity on this site automatically gives someone the right to be a jerk? Do you get a coupon for a free piece for jumping in and coming to her defense or are you freelancing as a suckup?

Who asked you, and do you think I give a shit what you think.

Yep, Fancy and I were at it all night long........... I guess I came around 5 times in 6 hours.,......free of charge. I'm was on baby deer legs walking on the way out of her incall. [sarcasm]

Instead of calling Fancy and I names, perhaps you should take your head out of your ass and study up on different members of this site. I'm still on hiatus, and some people know this (all the mods do for sure) , therefore I don't have any reviews on this site. I noticed you don't have any reviews, however you're not worth the 5 minutes or so to study up on. ( I did do a quick study and you're either a banned member returned, or you have multiple user names.)

Fact is that I've never seen Fancy BCD, however I've met her at a couple of socials. She is one of the most decent and down to earth ladies on this site. In this link provided below, she's given far more to this site than you can ever do.

#20 - The men and women of our board each have their respective private areas in which secure content is posted and a greater freedom of expression allowed. Each member is responsible for keeping the information in any of the private secure areas (Men's Lounge, Provider Powder Room, The Rest of the Story, posts which have been tagged as private) 100% restricted to the members who are intended to have access to that material. Revealing ANY content which was posted in one of the men's or women's private sections of the board will result in penalty, up to and including loss of your access to these areas. Full cooperation may result in a less severe penalty, and each violation will be handled on a case-by-case basis. Repeated infractions will impact the severity of punishment.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1366691

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

No, having longevity on this site, and experience in the Hobby, doesn't give anyone the right to be a jerk, and I apologize if I came off as abrupt and rude, but I WAS highly exasperated, both by the revelation of ROS and the continued probing into why a member in good standing left with no explanation. Society as a whole, and ECCIE as a representative segment, doesn't seem to have much respect for an individual's private decisions anymore. We are NOT entitled to delve into every motivation simply because we want to know!

Thanks for the freebies last night, you were incredible!

For the record, IMHO, you don't owe this guy an apology. He's just trolling.

[Kickrocks]

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Who asked you, and do you think I give a shit what you think.

Yep, Fancy and I were at it all night long........... I guess I came around 5 times in 6 hours.,......free of charge. I'm was on baby deer legs walking on the way out of her incall. [sarcasm]

Instead of calling Fancy and I names, perhaps you should take your head out of your ass and study up on different members of this site. I'm still on hiatus, and some people know this (all the mods do for sure) , therefore I don't have any reviews on this site. I noticed you don't have any reviews, however you're not worth the 5 minutes or so to study up on. ( I did do a quick study and you're either a banned member returned, or you have multiple user names.)

Fact is that I've never seen Fancy BCD, however I've met her at a couple of socials. She is one of the most decent and down to earth ladies on this site. In this link provided below, she's given far more to this site than you can ever do.



https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1366691

Cause we know one more thread, with her name in it, is going to ruin her. Lmao, Give me a fucking break. These threads just give people an excuse to be ass holes to the people asking.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Thanks for the freebies last night, you were incredible!

For the record, IMHO, you don't owe this guy an apology. He's just trolling.

Haha, you silly fellow. Was an awesome Time Tunnel dilation with a Star Trek transporter! (I actually only had 10 minutes to duck out from the event I was attending out of town yesterday eve.)

Oh, heck, sometimes I do come off as overly stern. (I need to work that into a disciplinary role play!) I was apologizing to tapple, not 8254F, as evidently he has issues with me for other reasons.

You're right, DJ, in that I have seen WAY too much since the days of ASPD, and the direction the Hobby is taking worries me. It's not an attractive evolution.