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MrClark · 11-25-2013, 05:07 PM

I'm not much on getting or givin , but it's your money NG73 to do what you want. I.m sure they would like it. All ladies like gifts.

4karlos · 11-25-2013, 06:01 PM

On a regular basis, I enjoy giving small details to the girls I consider special. That is in and out of the hobby. Small details means flowers, wine, perfume, chocolates... small things that most of them appreciate.

When it comes to Christmas, in the business world it is the provider's job to send a gift to the clients. I would think that a girl getting repeat business from a guy should know what to do in appreciation for the yearly several hundreds if not thousands in SOW (share of wallet) from the guy. Most don't, most will probably fry me for suggesting this, but I know a couple of classy girls who have done it...

Bottom line and as Mr Clark suggested it is exclusively your call...it's your money, it's your decision.

Guest102114 · 11-25-2013, 06:48 PM

Wow! At least it's good to know that some guys actually know how to treat a lady. Example is LP.

Wakeup · 11-25-2013, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by rafo77

who said about sleeping during an overnight dude... if you do that, you are the loser...

You think you're going to fuck a provider for twelve hours during an overnight? Let me know how that works out for you. Don't think we've forgotten your previous escapades...

MamboKing · 11-25-2013, 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by 4karlos

On a regular basis, I enjoy giving small details to the girls I consider special. That is in and out of the hobby. Small details means flowers, wine, perfume, chocolates... small things that most of them appreciate.

When it comes to Christmas, in the business world it is the provider's job to send a gift to the clients. I would think that a girl getting repeat business from a guy should know what to do in appreciation for the yearly several hundreds if not thousands in SOW (share of wallet) from the guy. Most don't, most will probably fry me for suggesting this, but I know a couple of classy girls who have done it...

Bottom line and as Mr Clark suggested it is exclusively your call...it's your money, it's your decision.

I agree...Providers who want repeat business (the most economically stable) need to show a little extra love to the client...keeps us coming back and their lives less chaotic...

Guest070818-1 · 11-25-2013, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by nightengale1973

It's about time for Christmas shopping and I was curious if the providers had a wish list of items that they wanted that hobbyists could get them that might win special favor in their hearts? I'm not saying get special favors necessarily, but just really makes them say to themselves, "Hey, this guy is awesome, I'm really gonna treat Him right!"?

How sweet of you to consider giving a gift to a lady. I absolutely enjoy gifts - no matter how big or small there are - I am very appreciative. But since Christmas is coming up, and I have no children to call my own, I am really interested in giving to others who are not so fortunate. I can go the Christmas holidays without gifts. I've been fortunate to receive gifts year round from some amazing gentlemen.

This year, I really want to pick out a gift on the Angel Tree and/or donate toys to children. Christmas is a child's holiday after all, and I think every child deserves a memorable Christmas. I would love to buy a brand new bike, game set, doll house, or something that would put a smile on someone's face for Christmas Day.

To give is a gift. Everyone should be able to give for a charitable cause if they are fortunate enough to do so.

BFCjosh · 11-25-2013, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by nightengale1973

It's about time for Christmas shopping and I was curious if the providers had a wish list of items that they wanted that hobbyists could get them that might win special favor in their hearts? I'm not saying get special favors necessarily, but just really makes them say to themselves, "Hey, this guy is awesome, I'm really gonna treat Him right!"?

There is nothing wrong with wanting to do something nice for someone at Christmas. But, thinking that you need to get a provider a Christmas present to get treated right is fucked up. There a plenty of ladies who will treat you right without a Christmas gift.

spear88 · 11-25-2013, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by peabody

Christmas is the time of giving. I give a gift to my house keeper, lawn guy and my mail man so why not give a bottle of wine to the provider that treats you right.

I dont give none of those fuckers anything. Now to a provider who treats me right, I can be generous.

Sonya · 11-25-2013, 10:33 PM

Idk about most providers and I know I'm a little green. I'm getting my favorites gifts. If they get me something, great. But not why I'm doing it. I just like Christmas. And I'd rather someone get me something they know I like. Cost isn't everything ya know. And yes, we are paid well for our services. Thank you gentlemen.

Hot to Trot Daphne · 11-26-2013, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by RGB93

Providers thoughts "Stupid Fool" when you pay them $250 an hour and then give them a Christmas gift. Usually a good customer gets the Christmas gift in the real world.

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Originally Posted by spear88

I dont give none of those fuckers anything. Now to a provider who treats me right, I can be generous.

While it's true that in the real world the good customer gets the Christmas gift, but given the intimate nature of our relationship and the fact that we are women, it is natural for a hobbyist to want to buy his girls something.

On the other hand, I also think that it would be sweet if we bought our atfs something too. What about those guys who are married/attached so they cannot or will not want to take your gift home?

MamboKing · 11-26-2013, 04:37 AM

Bit of reverse misogyny there, LD...But you play both sides of the field so well..

tbone77494 · 11-26-2013, 07:33 AM

First, I would only give something to a atf, and if so only $$. Maybe give her an hour worth of her time as a tip/gift.

Majichands · 11-26-2013, 08:01 AM

nightingale just won a lot of brownie points LOL

I am a giver and love it also when I am given to.

Since I am moving and it was the holidays I was just thinking of adding a wish list to my web site but was concerned it would be construed as being NEEDY..
This thread reminds me their are still givers and care takers in this world of just take take take

Fancyinheels · 11-26-2013, 12:58 PM

My wish list this holiday season is to make sure little critters are fed. The 5th Annual Sweet Pea Memorial Pet Food Drive (my private charity in honor of one of my departed chihuahuas) is going on through New Year's. Yes, I'll give a discount to gentlemen who bring kibble while visiting my bits, but if anyone wants to make a contribution not associated with Fancy entertainment, I'll make arrangements to get it. (PetCo gift cards gratefully accepted.) I'm helping out a couple of needy shelters this year. Wee furry homeless creatures have it tough during the holidays; contributions go down but the need doesn't. I can provide receipts from the 501 non-profit organizations.

I have very much appreciated the toys, lingerie, flowers, chocolate, jewelry, and booze generous fellows have given me on past holidays, but seriously, I'd much rather have a 20-lb or larger bag of dog or cat chow this Christmas to make some tails wag other than my own.

Guest123018 · 11-26-2013, 03:22 PM

Terrific gift Fancy. I'm in the know now. Believe i'll get in on helping out
my furry friends again just here in Texas this year.
"I Love Animals."