Blacklisting??

[bigtexdan]

I saw "reality or dream",too, in my reviews and she is verified on ECCIE. Sometime, trying to see a lady on here is like going to the dentist office for teeth extractions. You ladies need to make it more easy for us guys to hook up.

[darksouls]

Originally Posted by bigtexdan

I saw "reality or dream",too, in my reviews and she is verified on ECCIE. Sometime, trying to see a lady on here is like going to the dentist office for teeth extractions. You ladies need to make it more easy for us guys to hook up.

you need to get p411 and/or stop whining
screening is a basic necessity of this hobby

[sexy.princess]

Originally Posted by cr76

Well there are guys hat do shady shit and that's what gets them blacklisted. Pull off condoms, run without paying, beat girls, do things girls say no to. Etc - that's what will earn you a spot on a blacklist

Exactly.

[DEAR_JOHN]

I was on some sort of black list one time. Reason, I pissed off micki fine by my postings here. There were a lot of guys she put on the list that did nothing 'wrong'. Me, I just laughed when I saw it because I knew enough ladies here that knew I was an OK guy and I only saw agency girls or girls vouched for on ASPD. I didn't care then, now, of in the future what some girl on backpage thinks.

The 'wrong' reasons are posted above, pulling off condoms, rape, etc.

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by darksouls

Blacklists = Karma.

You get what you deserve.

BAMM..........it looks like you need another card! Nice job!

[bigtexdan]

Well, bigjohn, I've NEVER done anything like that--pulling the condom off during sex, taking anyone's money, etc. since I've been hobbying...

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by bigtexdan

I was wondering why would a paying customer client ever get blacklisted? Who controls and makes the decisions for this so called "blacklist"? How can we challenge it or get our names removed from that list? A man should be free to see or visit with whoever he wishes to (on backpage or here) as long as he has the right amount of cash. I've never ever mistreated any of the ladies that I've been with.

Seriously dude just stick to your hand obviously they don't answer the phone for a reason... Just because you have money doesn't mean she has to see you..

I said something about a blacklist & you started a whole new thread smfh let it go jesus obviously they don't want to see you stop being crazy...

Your problem is you feel like just because you have money a bp whore has to see you & that's where you are absolutely wrong...


The way you're acting on here I can only imagine how you act when calling bp whores if you can't figure it out then stick to your hand... Or better yet


MOVE THE FUCK ON

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by bigtexdan

I saw "reality or dream",too, in my reviews and she is verified on ECCIE. Sometime, trying to see a lady on here is like going to the dentist office for teeth extractions. You ladies need to make it more easy for us guys to hook up.

Pffft please it's easy you're obviously a FUCKTARD

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by bigtexdan

Well, bigjohn, I've NEVER done anything like that--pulling the condom off during sex, taking anyone's money, etc. since I've been hobbying...

But you're whining & bitching & im sure there are other things you do but im not saying anything because if you were a real danger I would give you to many ideas of how to get in and around to continue your fuckery... Im not stupid

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by bigtexdan

Well, I've never done any of those things with the ladies that I've been with before on here or backpage.

Originally Posted by bigtexdan

Well, bigjohn, I've NEVER done anything like that--pulling the condom off during sex, taking anyone's money, etc. since I've been hobbying...

I didn't say or imply that you should be black listed. I just posted that a lady can black list you for no reason at all.

OK, let's look at this quote.

Originally Posted by bigtexdan

I was wondering why would a paying customer client ever get blacklisted? Who controls and makes the decisions for this so called "blacklist"? How can we challenge it or get our names removed from that list? A man should be free to see or visit with whoever he wishes to (on backpage or here) as long as he has the right amount of cash. I've never ever mistreated any of the ladies that I've been with.

I would say that it is what it is. For example if I post a negative review of XXXXX, she can't reply in the review thread. She can only challenge it by posting in the general discussion area, then it turns into a fiasco, a 'he said' 'she said' that really gets nowhere. Also guys are too quick to take all reviews at face value, like a review is gospel. If you take a lady with 25 great reviews, the one review by a person who's not well known means absolutely zero.

Like the real world, both men and women can be conniving assholes. Guys want 100% accuracy in every review and I would guess that 90% of the reviews are on the up and up. It's the other 10% of the reviews or review of a session that didn't happen that cause all the problems. Then again, there's a context of what a good session actually is, which is up to the individual guy and lady. Maybe he heard from a buddy that she gave him a BBFS session and he went in and expected one also, but didn't get it. There's just a multitude of things that could happen.

In this modern world too many people want absolutes, however each session is an individual and custom session fitted to how the provider perceives a client and/or the client perceives the provider.

[Guest021217]

Please stop pming me explicit shit & then asking about how to fix your BL issue I don't care & I can't fix your issue I don't know why a whore would not want to see you maybe because your a fucktard

[bigtexdan]

DM, so what's your definition of a "fucktard"? Should I start another message thread?

[bigtexdan]

I'd like to get to the bottom of this matter once and for all. Hopefully, and get it resolved asap.

[Guest021217]

Facepalm

[Fancyinheels]

Has someone come right out and TOLD you that you are on some mysterious blacklist, OP? If not, why are you concerned? Just don't do anything that would put you on one, as mentioned above. Money does not buy you a safe reputation if you mistreat ladies, nor 100+ reviews if they are mostly of unknown BP girls.

Most established providers take everything into account with a grain of salt when researching a fellow - warnings, where such warnings were posted, by who, for what, when it was posted, is there more than one warning, etc. Same for references, who, what, how old, what site, how many.... One of my favorite gentlemen had an old alert put out on him by the first escort he ever visited for very little reason, but I already knew that provider had a questionable reputation, so I decided to be his second provider, and he's been returning for 8 years now, and has acquired other positive references to boot. Experienced companions can separate the wheat from the chaff, but if you are seeing BP-only providers, well, they probably take things at face value, which could make it easier or harder on you, depending on their methods.

If I were screening you, the OP, through references and not as a newbie, I would only contact ladies who you had reviewed in the last 6 months, and only those with a well-established presence online. Doesn't have to be ECCIE, but has to be somewhere OTHER than just BP. Your current reviews are probably not enough for those ladies who require 2 reputable vouches. Reality is the only ECCIE Verified Provider I noted. Why hasn't Aubre gotten "official" status? She's been a member for nearly a year now. That raises suspicions that reflect back on YOU, hon, as you obviously consider her a favorite. I would spell them out, but I think you can extrapolate.

Your best course of action? See a couple of well-known providers on ECCIE with good reputations, treat them fairly and respectfully, do reviews, be done with this whole issue.