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LadyMoxie · 02-25-2015, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

if she stops taking your money, doesn't ask for gifts, you are not paying her bills--- then it is possible.

BUT as long as your are paying, she just loves your $$$.

+1 that's your answer.

Guest051115 · 02-25-2015, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

It happens, if it does you will know, she will say something to you. If you are thinking it is, and move on it, more than likely you will never hear from her again. Unfortunately with the business and stalker aspect of the hobby, you taking the lead is not really an option.

^ excellent feedback.

Guest051115 · 02-25-2015, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by hockeyman

I know this hobby is supposed to be non-emotional. Your paying for the experience/sexual fun/to leave with no strings attached. But. Could a client and provider fall in love???? I'm just asking..... Any good experiences out there from 2 individuals

The older I get the more I'm starting to realize (maybe it's just me) that all we want as guys (RW or Hobby) is to have all the beautiful women be loyal to and cater to our every whim while we go around screwing more and more beautiful women adding to our personal harem of the faithful apple bottoms. Like territorial wild animals this has nothing to do with real love and all about having our cake and eating it too.

Case in point: Wise King Solomon had 700 wives and another 300 concubines.

Guest030915 · 02-25-2015, 09:58 AM

Anything's possibke in the hobby. I've had a couple that I've had strong like for. But never love. Be careful not to let it cross over into love. You start doing crazy shit.

Fancyinheels · 02-25-2015, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

if she stops taking your money, doesn't ask for gifts, you are not paying her bills--- then it is possible.

BUT as long as your are paying, she just loves your $$$.

Have to agree, although by this definition, most marriages would be the same as prostitution, but we knew that, didn't we?

A few years back I did fall for a client (1st mistake) after an initial overnight session (2nd mistake) and stopped taking his money. (Third mistake, strike-out!) I've always paid my own way and never depended on a partner for financial stability. The only gift I wanted from him was his affection. However, as Latina Moxie pointed out, you have to keep in mind the circumstances under which you met, and the gent has to be really strong of mind and super confident with his own concept of self. The relationship has to go into a box separate from what the lady does for a living. There can be no jealousy, disrespect, or ego-chest-beating. A few months later my lover decided he couldn't "sanction" my continuing as a provider, and since I did have bills to pay and he wasn't offering, and I was happy with my choice of professions, we parted ways. It hurt.

I think back now and believe I just happened to come along at the right time; he was getting over the Divorce from Hell; I was sympathetic, energetic, and fun; and he was using me as the "rebound" with free nookie. Cynical conclusion, perhaps, but at least the experience was a good lesson about not mixing physical business with emotional pleasure as they RARELY go together, although I do enjoy what I do and the rapport I build with my gentleman friends for what time we spend in mutual companionship.

I am aware of some longstanding relationships between providers and significant others, but they have built those with a great deal of flexibility and open-mindedness, bending the traditional concepts of interpersonal liaisons.

boardman · 02-25-2015, 11:04 AM

First time, every time...

Fancyinheels · 02-25-2015, 11:38 AM

Love your pets. Just be friends with everybody else.

JustMeCLTXGG · 02-25-2015, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

(maybe it's just me)

that's my line!

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Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

we go around screwing more and more beautiful women adding to our personal harem of the faithful apple bottoms. Like territorial wild animals this has nothing to do with real love and all about having our cake and eating it too.

I believe some call it survival of the species and one of our uncivilized instincts which isn't being evolved out. :P or some would say lust. 1 of the 7 you know.

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Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

Case in point: Wise King Solomon had 700 wives and another 300 concubines.

different times, different time! how the hell one man could deal with 1000 women tho, beyond me! lol not to mention no blue pills back then? guess they had some good herbs. I mean that's like close to 3 a night for a year before you get back to the first 3. if he had them all at the same time. never bothered to research.

to the OP, good question. also, I'm pleasantly surprised at the responses.

Lauren Mayfair · 02-25-2015, 01:18 PM

Is it possible for you to fall in love with a hooker? Of course it is.
Personally, I consider it a slow week if at least one man doesn't declare his love for me.
I'm just that damn lovable.

I believe, however, that the general consensus is that hookers don't make good wives. Or so I've been told. Mostly by married guys who fuck hookers.

Guest041017-2 · 02-25-2015, 01:45 PM

Thanks for all the good and honest feedback eccie family! I think I'm just a lover boy that loves women. And good sex. And Sexy bodies. And different adventures....

Tetas · 02-25-2015, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by hockeyman

I think I'm just a lover boy that loves women. And good sex. And Sexy bodies. And different adventures....

Ah, finally sobered up huh?

Guest051115 · 02-25-2015, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by riday

Ah, finally sobered up huh?

Tee hee

Guest051115 · 02-25-2015, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

different times, different time! how the hell one man could deal with 1000 women tho, beyond me! lol not to mention no blue pills back then? guess they had some good herbs. I mean that's like close to 3 a night for a year before you get back to the first 3. if he had them all at the same time. never bothered to research.

to the OP, good question. also, I'm pleasantly surprised at the responses.

Well some theorized he had spiritual blessings sprinkeled on his nibbly bits. Basically he stayed with each one for 2 weeks before getting his next wife.

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During his 40-year reign, he married 1000 women, averaging a little over 2 weeks spent on each wife from courtship to marriage to the honeymoon being over to pursuing his next bride

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I used to look at it as a daily meal. For breakfast he'd have 2 wives, for lunch 1 wife, and he'd top off dinner with 3 wives. This would have been a dailey routine of 6 women and is what I would have expected. In my calculation I gave him Sunday's off in honor of the Sabbath.

Edit: I'm guessing being married to this guy was a curse for these chics. He fucked em each for basically 2 weeks and then bounced. I'm sure no one else could touch them afterwards, meaning no more sex for life. What a fucking curse.

junglemonkey · 02-25-2015, 05:27 PM

I love you. Please come over and make sweet love to me. Please put your $400 back in your wallet, this is real, This is real love....SAID NO WHORE EVER.

GlobeSpotter · 02-25-2015, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

The older I get the more I'm starting to realize (maybe it's just me) that all we want as guys (RW or Hobby) is to have all the beautiful women be loyal to and cater to our every whim while we go around screwing more and more beautiful women adding to our personal harem of the faithful apple bottoms. ......

I'd prefer each just pick up her gift and walk out.