Escorting advice - certified sexologists/sexworker activists

[NinaBrooke]

Here are some good sites in my opinion from sexworker activists about "survival in the escort world" - feel free to add your own. These are just the ones that came into my mind , with a lot of great coaching advice on how to shape your escorting skills . In my private life i actually am working to become a therapist (counselor, coach) to cater to needs of people who - - -.have alternative relationships,
.alternative sexualities (gay, bisexual, lesbian, BDSM),
.work in the adult industry (business plans and how to survive in a sex negative enviroment)
.want to extablish /stay in successful polyamorous relationships
.coming out issues , (how to find like minded spirits and deal with issues of backlash and negative reactions).
but i am still a "work in progress".... but actually i do find being an activist rewarding :-).


http://www.geishadiaries.com/

then my personal favourite :

http://veronicamonet.wordpress.com/

if any of you have other ideas feel free to post. I think its good to have skillfull ressources on how to be good at what you do.
besos
Nina Sastri

[discreetgent]

On ASPD Holly put together a list of threads that had some good information in them as well. Might be good to have a sticky thread with such pointers in it. Hey, JB can you start a thread along those lines and put it with the sticky tag. I'll take a look and start adding in information.

[pjorourke]

Wouldn't it make more sense to put such a thread someplace where it would be accessible to ladies that don't follow the D&T forum.

[Guest083011]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

Wouldn't it make more sense to put such a thread someplace where it would be accessible to ladies that don't follow the D&T forum.

Mod envy?

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

Wouldn't it make more sense to put such a thread someplace where it would be accessible to ladies that don't follow the D&T forum.

If you are talking about the Powder Room a lot the ladies don't have access.

[Katy Alexander]

Originally Posted by Ansley

If you are talking about the Powder Room a lot the ladies don't have access.

That is true especially newer ones who can really benefit from the info.I wish that Holly's indexed thread had made the move over to eccie. There was so much great information there.I remember when I first discovered aspd spending hours reading those threads. It was like this whole other world had opened up for me. It is a shame that all that info has been lost.

[pjorourke]

Originally Posted by Ansley

If you are talking about the Powder Room a lot the ladies don't have access.

I was thinking more of the Main Discussion Forum - National

[WTF]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

I was thinking more of the Main Discussion Forum - National

Good idea PJ



Glad to see you back nina

Originally Posted by Becky

.I remember when I first discovered aspd spending hours reading those threads. It was like this whole other world had opened up for me. It is a shame that all that info has been lost.

Where'd you lose that info? Dog Park?A mind is a terrible thing to waste!

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by WTF

Where'd you lose that info? Dog Park?A mind is a terrible thing to waste!

Actually, if you're talking about the dog park, waste is a terrible thing to mind.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

Wouldn't it make more sense to put such a thread someplace where it would be accessible to ladies that don't follow the D&T forum.

Yes right...
i think escorting 1 x 1 should be a separate THEME already. so many can gather their experience and inputs. Its worth it.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by WTF

Good idea PJ



Glad to see you back nina

sorry hun, i had to engage in other activities with my hands. Some clients are so demanding, They actually want ALL my attention, do you understand that? Usually i have sex with them and can put my laptop on the bed while they do me doggystyle and write to you. But this guy wanted a HDH service ;-) not the usual 15 minutes ......and i had to pretend to be really attentive and have some style. Can you imagine?

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

sorry hun, i had to engage in other activities with my hands. Some clients are so demanding, They actually want ALL my attention, do you understand that? Usually i have sex with them and can put my laptop on the bed while they do me doggystyle and write to you. But this guy wanted a HDH service ;-) not the usual 15 minutes ......and i had to pretend to be really attentive and have some style. Can you imagine?

Sounds like the usual provider to me. Only instead of using the laptop, they're on their cell phones.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by discreetgent

On ASPD Holly put together a list of threads that had some good information in them as well. Might be good to have a sticky thread with such pointers in it. Hey, JB can you start a thread along those lines and put it with the sticky tag. I'll take a look and start adding in information.

want that back. I am still in educations and when i am finished we are all old hags i assume. ( i am a little bit slow on the uptake and i have to get my education from europe certified in the USA and most of it DOESN`t match --- arghhh....)
so .- shall i go ahead and ask the mod of this board to open up a special THEME (like diamond and tuxedos) for the assistance on escorting 1x1?

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Sounds like the usual provider to me. Only instead of using the laptop, they're on their cell phones.

hahahahahahahahaha...... yes the cell phone i use when riding cowgirl.... :-)) , laptop when doggy style, .... and reading books when missionary.... oh and shopping groceries and overnight appointments with other gents when i have a slave locked up and gagged in my personal cage....)

[ClairJordan]

Originally Posted by Ansley
If you are talking about the Powder Room a lot the ladies don't have access.
I was thinking more of the Main Discussion Forum - National
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I remember Holly's thread and that's exactly what came to mind when I read Nina's post. Was all of that truly lost? Has anyone emailed Holly about it?