a review on being treated with respect

[Guest011914-1]

..As a GFE provider who does this with the integrity and pride and do what I can to make my dates the most enjoyable for both us..I had a great time with a different of man..He greeted me with yellow roses, and Jovan Musk both are my favorite. Since I had made a long drive just to see him he drew me a jacuzzi bath and allowed me time to freshen up...we than chatted,made out, had dessert first and than went out for a nice quiet dinner and back for a another round of dessert and before I knew it I had to leave due to the long drive...I know some men don't view us with alot of respect..lust yes..but not alot of respect....and in all fairness some providers don't respect the men....but I do things the way I do because I chose to and not saying it is right or wrong but I add respect and a personlized aspect...I also must add that for the most part I have been very lucky with the gentlemen I have encountered but this man really gave new meaning to dinner date and it was a great and refreshing change and I hope every provider has the opportunity to have a date like this....so to the gentleman I say thank you

[LAVixian]

Glad you had a good time

[pjpenner]

Thank you for sharing the way it should be! In the vast majority of cases, showing consideration, respect and manners pays a very high rate of return.

[Laurentius]

I think that, to a certain degree, in a million subtle ways, we attract things into our lives that confirm our existing feelings and beliefs.

I don't think the way you are treated respectfully is at all a coincidence. You point out that you do your work with integrity and pride. These attitudes will tend to attract a certain subset of men while repelling others.

I'm pleased as punch to hear that you had such a great date, and share your wish for other providers to have similar experiences!

[Leah Ireland]

The more you get, the better you get treated.

You set your price.

I think a lot of the girls today would have their minds blown by how generous clients tended to be before escorting was a 'hobby'.

Leah Ireland

[wildwooly1]

It only takes a few minutes of reading a providers showcase or website to find out something about them and what they like and it only takes a few minutes when you go see a provider to take time to get to know her and always treat them with respect.
If you treat them with no respect you deserve to get none back and if you choose not to get to know them then expect them not to give you the time of day back to you.
Always come bearing a gift of somekind and try to make the session like you want it and treat them like the GFE you want it to be and surprisingly you will both enjoy the session.
Like the old saying ..You get back what you put into any relationship ! be it business or pleasure.

[WTF]

Originally Posted by Leah Ireland

The more you get, the better you get treated.

You set your price.

I think a lot of the girls today would have their minds blown by how generous clients tended to be before escorting was a 'hobby'.

Leah Ireland

Leah , I normally agree with ya but I have to say respect/generosity can be shown by any client at any price point as generosity is not always measured in $.

If price were the determning factor, then all high priced ladies would be perfect companions and the folks that paid their rate gents and we all know this not to be the case.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by WTF

If price were the determining factor, then all high priced ladies would be perfect companions and the folks that paid their rate gents and we all know this not to be the case.

I agree with this.

[RALPHEY BOY]

yes goes both ways,if you promise not to treat Me like an ATM Machine, I promise to treat you with respect and dignity

[WTF]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

yes goes both ways,if you promise not to treat Me like an ATM Machine, I promise to treat you with respect and dignity

That is why acting is so damn important is this world! A girl that can act like money don't mean shit can aquire quite a bit of it! ...of course Killer Looks, Big Tits and a TP won't hurt her cause

[Guest053011]

Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

I know some men don't view us with alot of respect..lust yes..but not alot of respect....and in all fairness some providers don't respect the men....but I do things the way I do because I chose to and not saying it is right or wrong but I add respect and a personlized aspect...I also must add that for the most part I have been very lucky with the gentlemen I have encountered but this man really gave new meaning to dinner date and it was a great and refreshing change and I hope every provider has the opportunity to have a date like this....so to the gentleman I say thank you

I agree there are some men that really know how to make a woman feel appreciated, cared for, like an equal, embracing their humanity. It's a wonderful feeling.

Over the years I have worked hard to show my appreciation to such gentlemen in personalized ways. Show caring when they have a bad day, keep in touch just because they're awesome people, not because I'm hoping for another date, open up a little and allow myself to be vulnerable with them. Give them consideration when they need it. It's important they know how much their emotional generosity and kindness means. When they feel appreciated, I find they stick around.

Over time I found enough of those gentlemen, that I can afford to say no to them men who lust, but don't actually give a damn. It took nearly five years to find enough gems, but once I had reached that point, they totally changed how I experienced Companionship and day to day life. I now approach this world from the view that I am carefully looking for that kind of gentlemen companion, so that I can devote a great deal of energy to them, and surround myself with warm hearts, safe arms and beautiful souls.

I hope you find more, I hope your career is one day filled with them.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by WTF

That is why acting is so damn important is this world! A girl that can act like money don't mean shit can aquire quite a bit of it! ...of course Killer Looks, Big Tits and a TP won't hurt her cause

Word!

[Leah Ireland]

Originally Posted by wildwooly1

It only takes a few minutes of reading a providers showcase or website to find out something about them and what they like and it only takes a few minutes when you go see a provider to take time to get to know her and always treat them with respect.
If you treat them with no respect you deserve to get none back and if you choose not to get to know them then expect them not to give you the time of day back to you.
Always come bearing a gift of somekind and try to make the session like you want it and treat them like the GFE you want it to be and surprisingly you will both enjoy the session.
Like the old saying ..You get back what you put into any relationship ! be it business or pleasure.

You are so right.

[Leah Ireland]

WTF I totally agree. When I started Leah Ireland I didn't charge the highest rates but I found the clients at that price point tended to be really sweet guys.

Still, when your rates are higher the man who chooses to see you tends to have more available income to lavish on the date, and we both enjoy that. Fabulous hotels, fabulous champagne, days in the spa, wonderful gifts - you know what I mean?

[WTF]

Originally Posted by Leah Ireland

Still, when your rates are higher the man who chooses to see you tends to have more available income to lavish on the date, and we both enjoy that. Fabulous hotels, fabulous champagne, days in the spa, wonderful gifts - you know what I mean?

I hear ya....

....but the OP was talking about respect. A nice drawn bath had her singing his praise! That was what I was addressing. Beyond the money.

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Word!

Did you get permission from PJ?

Yes acting is the key, why look at Summerhill, she has so many suitors, taking such good care of her yet she is touring the world auditioning more and more. If that ain't acting , I don't know WTF is!

Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

Over time I found enough of those gentlemen, that I can afford to say no to them men who lust, but don't actually give a damn. .

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