In Call Vs Out Call

[mrniceguy]

Hobbyists and providers what do you prefer Incall or Outcall ?Why and Why not?

[mrniceguy]

I prefer OutCalls as I feel safe . sometimes Incalls are cheaper though

[perpetualdesign]

Originally Posted by mrniceguy

I prefer OutCalls as I feel safe . sometimes Incalls are cheaper though

I prefer outcalls myself. And it makes no sense that an outcall costs more. With incall the provider has to pay for a room in most cases, so incall should be more. With outcall there is the issue of gas and wear and tear on the car, but it's not even close as far as costs.

[FireSerpent]

I understand the merits of both. There are some ladies who ONLY do outcall because they don't want to get into the situation where they're paying for a room and no one shows up that day or week (which has happend a bit this month I'm sure).

I like incalls because, right now, I have a room mate with a little kid and their schedule is somewhat erratic on when they're going to be here and when they're not. Often it is easier for me to find someone in my neck of the woods who is well reviewed and offering incall service.

I have only had 2 outcalls so far and have greatly appreciated them... not having to drive all over town looking for someone's incall location and calling back and forth trying to get the right location. Some ladies have an extra $50 charge for doing outcalls... in some cases this pays for their driver's time... other times it is because there is also an added risk to the provider unless she is visiting a regular.

One provider who came out to me did say that she doesnt upcharge if the gentleman is a regular or is close to her base of operations. Another provider I know lives pretty far from the city... so if she did outcalls she charges the extra because she spends so much in fuel cost driving to and from her home base and there is the greater possibility of missed bookings because she's out on the road instead of at a centralized location where she can meet someone... freshen up... and meet someone else.

[Omahan]

Originally Posted by perpetualdesign

I prefer outcalls myself. And it makes no sense that an outcall costs more. With incall the provider has to pay for a room in most cases, so incall should be more. With outcall there is the issue of gas and wear and tear on the car, but it's not even close as far as costs.

Actually it can make sense for outcalls to cost more than incalls. Time is money. With incall the lady has to devote up to an hour for a one hour appointment. For incall she devotes up to an hour PLUS travel both ways. Sure the room costs something but it can be used more than once a day. Also, she can have a dedicated incall that is in her home, paid by the month and/or shared with one or more girls - thus keeping the cost down. You never know how much value she puts on her travel time.

[MsElena]

I prefer incalls because its a safety issue for me. I know there's no camera's and no one else at my location and I'm more in control of the situation.

[mrniceguy]

hmmm good going , thanks to @Omahan, @ perpetualdesign @ Fireserpent . No providers yet...

[mrniceguy]

@MsElena you brought good point. What are the odds of providers having cameras in Incall location ..

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by mrniceguy

@MsElena you brought good point. What are the odds of providers having cameras in Incall location ..

Well, the only two reasons that a provider would have camera's at her incall location is that A) she's going to use it against her clients in the future and B) she's working with LE and will give the tapes over to them.

By your wink, do you know something I don't?

[FireSerpent]

possible 3rd & 4th options would include that she has a camera for personal/professional use (gotta take advert pics with something) and for her own protection... lets if you've been doing this long enough you'll come across at least one person who has had something negative happen to them and they have basically no options.

[oktome]

To me it is a safety issue, and being selfish for my own life and reputation (remember Elliot Spitzer) I am going to choose for the girl to come to me, or outcall. Why, because I know that the room I am get is going to be upscale IE Wynn in Vegas or equivalent. I know that it is not a sting or bust, I control all the unknowns that make going to an incall nerve racking for me.

For a lady I am sure they feel the same way in most cases for some of the same reasons.

The part that is difficult for a hobbiest that does not partake often, is that you never really get to know someone well; thus you always have the fear of the unknown when you do an incall, even when you research the hell out of someone.

Frankly because variety is the spice of life, I really don't want to see the same provider unless there was some specials chemistry anyway.

I would always prefer outcall.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

I prefer incall over outcall for the same reasons MsElena mentioned. Its my space, and I therefore feel far more comfortable in it. I absolutely do not do outcalls to a private residence, no matter how well a gentleman checks out. Never, EVER will I forget the day I had to sneak out of someone's backyard, double back through the neighbor's back yard, to get to my car, all the while praying I wasn't *spotted*, if you get my drift. I still laugh about that day, and hoping that a nosey neighbor didn't call the cops about a prowler lurking in their neighbor's back yard. Good times

[FireSerpent]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

I prefer incall over outcall for the same reasons MsElena mentioned. Its my space, and I therefore feel far more comfortable in it. I absolutely do not do outcalls to a private residence, no matter how well a gentleman checks out. Never, EVER will I forget the day I had to sneak out of someone's backyard, double back through the neighbor's back yard, to get to my car, all the while praying I wasn't *spotted*, if you get my drift. I still laugh about that day, and hoping that a nosey neighbor didn't call the cops about a prowler lurking in their neighbor's back yard. Good times

OMG!! That's just crazy!! I'd never invite a lady to my place if that was ever going to be an issue. Wow... don't blame you for wanting to avoid that situation.

[BottomFeederKC]

Originally Posted by oktome

To me it is a safety issue, and being selfish for my own life and reputation (remember Elliot Spitzer)...

Yes, he got his own prime time national TV show and a book deal.

:0)

[BigMikeinKC]

I prefer incall, simply because I don't like my neighboors in my business.