Hidden Review Forum to Benefit the Providers?

[NormalBob]

Would it help for the providers to have their own hidden review area where they could review the guys? Of course their questions would be different then the questions the guys want to know from each other.

Here's a first draft to get some more discussion going:

Review:
Date: -
Hobbyist eccie handle: -
Recommendation: - [radio button] Yes, No, Unable to say
Reliable: - [radio button] Yes, No, Not sure
Donations: - [radio button] As agreed, tips, undercounts, don't know
Hygiene: - [radio button] Best, Above Average, Average, Below Average, Worst
Grooming: - [radio button] Best, Above Average, Average, Below Average, Worst
Session Length: - [radio button] Respects time, Leaves early, Lingers too long
Age: - [open field]
Smoking and/or Breath Status : - [radio button] Fresh, Smelled, Other
Drinking or Drug Status : -[radio button] Sober, Affected, Dangerous, Other
Ethnic Background: - [Same as male review radio buttons]
Physical Description: - [Open text]
Comments or Rest of the Story: - [Open text]

[Dittychaser]

Maybe they already have this. Providers have their own forum not accessible by hobbyists. I have no idea what is in there.

[NormalBob]

I've been told by a provider that they do NOT have a formal review template in their hidden section of the board.

[guest042712-2]

I have actually talked to a couple of friends about this. I believe we need something like this and was in the process of looking into a format that would be easy and quick to use. Having something like that here would be awesome. Even though each experience is different because of chemistry it would be helpful for all the providers to be able to share information about the guys so we know somewhat to be prepared for.

Turn about is fair play IMHO....

[NormalBob]

Originally Posted by Lilith

1. I have actually talked to a couple of friends about this.

2. I believe we need something like this and was in the process of looking into a format that would be easy and quick to use. Having something like that here would be awesome. Even though each experience is different because of chemistry it would be helpful for all the providers to be able to share information about the guys so we know somewhat to be prepared for.

3. Turn about is fair play IMHO....

Hi Lilith,

I reformatted your quote a little to make my response more clear:

1. Please encourage your friends to comment in this thread.

2. What do you think about the draft template above? Is it asking for the right data or would you change the data in any way?

3. I would say this a little differently. The purpose of the board seems to be to facilitate information exchange to take a great deal of uncertainty out of the hobby experience. It certainly provides that service to the men. If it also did that for the women too, then that would simply be a good evolution to better accomplish the board's purpose.

[guest042712-2]

The data outlined above would be great for starters. Would this be totally hidden to all...just open to us ladies? If not would we have an area for the rest of the story as the guys do?

the turn about is fair play comment was only to express that the ladies should be able to share comments to haves and have nots do's and do NOT with each other as the men do, hopfully making the information sharing a part of allowing the hobby to grow safely. The validation process is a neccesity whether the men are "reviewed" or not...but if the men do not review we can not contact any of our girlfriends about them.... it leaves a lot of questions unanswered until they show up at the door.

[jaxar]

It is my understanding they (providers) do have their own private room. Called the 'Ladies' Powder Room', I think. If your not logged in as a registered provider then you won't even see the link for that room, just like a guest doesn't see the link for the 'Men's Lounge'.

[NormalBob]

Originally Posted by jaxar

It is my understanding they (providers) do have their own private room.

They do have a private room.

They do NOT have a 'review' template and therefore do not have a private review forum.

[NormalBob]

Originally Posted by Lilith

The data outlined above would be great for starters. Would this be totally hidden to all...just open to us ladies? If not would we have an area for the rest of the story as the guys do?

I didn't think the providers would want a "rest of story" so I just left it at 'Comments'. I added the term to make it "Comments or Rest of the Story"

I think it would have to be a provider private area to have value but that should be up to the providers to say.

[charlestudor2005]

I suspect the ladies would generally not be bothered with doing extensive reviews, except on the most simplistic basis. I would suggest the following:
****************************** ******
Date:
Hobbyist Handle (ID which board):
OK/NotOK:
Comment:
****************************** *******
It's a quick form to fill out. And any elaboration the provider wants to make (short, extensive, derogatory, etc.) can be made in the "Comment" section.

Although I've never seen the P411 OK area, I suspect this might be similar.

[TBONE]

Yes the ladies have their own private forum.No they don't have a review template.

BUT I'd be willing to bet that even without the "template" the information they share about us is way more detailed than what we share about them..WITH a review template!!

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by TBONE

Yes the ladies have their own private forum.No they don't have a review template.

BUT I'd be willing to bet that even without the "template" the information they share about us is way more detailed than what we share about them..WITH a review template!!

Probly down to the inch! Or, in my case, the mm. lol

[Devynn von Tease]

NB-I'm all for this and here's why. If we had the same kind of review forum it would educate ladies and most importantly KEEP THEM SAFE! If you see a review of a guy by an established lady-then it is a tool that will let ladies know that the gent is safe/not safe to see. Think of the ease of screening which is good for everybody! The details you metioned to be included in the review is good, relevant info I can't see how everyone wouldn't win.

[ElisabethWhispers]

I have NEVER liked the idea of reviewing men on any board. We have back channels and different websites that feature trouble makers and dangerous fellows. Personally, those websites haven't helped me one whit but I'm sure that it's helped others but that's not my point.

An escort would be a fool to post a negative review on a client. Everything in this sphere is subjective. For example, I found out several months ago of a well-known lady who had seen a client of mine who just couldn't stand him. I wrote her about it because there wasn't any reason to NOT believe her.

I believed every word that she told me. When I thought about it and what she told me, her information was completely plausible. But this client that she was referring to was my lover for a time. So be it. Men are perceived differently by different women, different times, etc., etc.

It would be business suicide for a woman to post a nasty review and it be circulated and found out. A warning is just that. A warning and that's being done already with varying degrees of success.

Let's keep this simple. It's a review board for men to review escorts. Not a board to review the men who throw the envelope on the table.

Sorry.
Elisabeth

[Guest030911]

One of the things I pay for is discretion. Unless I am advertising and getting paid, I have a no review policy.

If you are a bad boy and fuck girls over, then you are fair game for the ladies to warn each other. Other than that, I don't think a guys info should be published. It should be shared only as a reference check.