How do you screen a new provider??

[cutiebuffny]

The bottom line is LE will do whatever they want, whenever they want if they want to do it bad enough. Then it is your word against theirs.

[heatherelite]

Exactly!

[Guest091813]

Well I think the bottom line here would be..check out the ladies reviews and ask about the lady in the lockerroom if you don't want it public knowledge your interested in her...
However I think if your just gonna drive up and wait for her to open the door and then you drive off if she isn't what you were interested in is just "bad manors"...
I have had gents come to my door and no I wasnt what they wanted..they told me so in a very polite manor and of course I handled it very well..He paid my small cancelation fee and left..no problems at all...then I went upstairs and cried! lol ( j/kidding!!)
I think there is a decent way of handling the situation..just be a gentleman about it...
nita:-)

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by anita germane

Well I think the bottom line here would be..check out the ladies reviews and ask about the lady in the lockerroom if you don't want it public knowledge your interested in her...
However I think if your just gonna drive up and wait for her to open the door and then you drive off if she isn't what you were interested in is just "bad manors"...
I have had gents come to my door and no I wasnt what they wanted..they told me so in a very polite manor and of course I handled it very well..He paid my small cancelation fee and left..no problems at all...then I went upstairs and cried! lol ( j/kidding!!)
I think there is a decent way of handling the situation..just be a gentleman about it...
nita:-)

MMMM If I was to see you, then did that. If you cried before I left. I would would have to change my mind again and stay for the whole deal. But then in a way you have been a board buddy. So I would say nothing, if I was thinking that. And just let it play out. That would be the problem with meeting some one you have begain to like without ever meeting.

mmm not worded well, Ohwell. Maybe a good topic in another thread. You like or dislike from posting for years. You finely meet, and the opposite comes into play. What would you do?

But then this is why I like playing in bars and this board, over some place like BP. You get to meet and and chat, and have a good idea of what is in store before you go to far. Where BP is more like the street of the web.

[BrookeButtons]

agreed with Nita... if your looking to find a new lady to bond with, ask the gents that have seen her. Check her reviews and even strike up a conversation with her via email.

The only time I have ever met a guy at his car was when I was with a service and some gents felt uneasy being seen alone at a hotel/motel. But none of them had the intentions of driving off. It that case that is just plain rude! Plus if your worried about her pictures not being legit.... don't shop on BP ... you get what you pay for/ or don't get what you don't want to pay for in that manor!

[Stud Daddy]

Originally Posted by m2244

cutiebuffny no offense to anyones ideas and thoughts but I think it is rude to just drive away maybe you thought the pics looked different ect ect.....at least have the courtesy to say i am sorry but your not what im looking for.....we have feelings to. Also my advice reviews do one good thing if the description is the same on all of them....chances are thats what you will get.....good luck

TY Mary for your opinion. Yes it was rude of me to do & to suggest. however if what I am seeking/expecting is a 5'1" 110lbs, white female & the lady the shows up is 5' 9" about 190lbs Black woman, I see this gross misrepresentation as just as rude and costly in time, effort & resources. So I have no apologies when confronted in this manner.

At the location in question & with what I heard in the background on the phone etc. I did the correct thing.
In this case, I was Not dealing with a high-end provider such as yourself.

In General I am a very kind, decent & polite gentleman. One that would treat you and most of our class ladies with the utmost respect. I just don't bode liars and frauds well Nor would I expect any of you fine ladies to either. Regards & be safe.

[Stud Daddy]

Originally Posted by heatherelite

I have to disagree on both points. First: I've known several providers (none in this area) who got arrested even though the donation had already been discussed and agreed upon before the actual meeting. It was simply when the pre-arranged amount of money touched their hand that the actual arrest took place.

Second: entrapment would almost never apply here. The basic definition of entrapment is when the government persuaded you to commit a crime when under normal circumstances you wouldn't. It's kinda hard to make up an excuse as to why you were at the hotel/home of an escort-or at least someone you thought to be an escort-with the exact amount of money in your pocket that her ad states she is requesting for her services. Entrapment would be more along the lines of LE saying something like: "we'll forgot all about this solicition charge if you go rob a bank and then buy us some [staff edit by jymie: prohibited topic]." You wouldn't under normal circumstances go rob a bank and buy drugs (at least I would hope not); you're being persuaded by the government to do so in order to get a charge dropped.

From the providers pov you are correct. from the hobbyist's pov It is different. Alsol I believe in keeping my wallet, License, & CCards safe esp. on a 1st date.

Safety is just as important for the gentlemen as for the ladies. there are many folks that seek to take advantage of us hobbyists & my commentary was about these types of folks. I thought I had made that clear but if not let me do so now.

Our Upstate regular ladies have done nothing to draw any criticism from me & their fine reviews speak volumes about their skills demeanor class & character than I ever could, sorry for any confusion.

[cutiebuffny]

Great thread alot of info. I was asking about BP and girls that are in and out of town. Not the local girls that have reviews. Girls that you cannot find reviews on and girls that come in from out of town. Those are the girls I am more cautious of and leery(sp) of seeing. I actually told a girl yesterday she wasnt what I was looking for and she was very nice didnt ask for a cancelation fee.

[nytefyter]

Originally Posted by anita germane

I have had gents come to my door and no I wasnt what they wanted..they told me so in a very polite manor and of course I handled it very well..He paid my small cancelation fee and left..no problems at all...then I went upstairs and cried!

Beats the hell out of what normally happens to me: I show up at the door and am not what the lady wants, so she lets me in and starts crying....

[mps0813]

I just show up with a brown paper bag... just in case!

[m2244]

mps0813 LMAO and stud daddy understandable lol.....well im pretty sure i am what you see so im safe

[Guest091813]

Originally Posted by nytefyter

Beats the hell out of what normally happens to me: I show up at the door and am not what the lady wants, so she lets me in and starts crying....

Hahahahahhahahah you had me laughing sooo hard at this!!!!!!you r sooo silly!!!

[LAVixian]

+1 ! Alot of people don't really understand entrapment. Well very said.

Another point.. if it's a setup, there is NOTHING you can say that will get you out of trouble... shut up, and call a lawyer, period. "Anything you say, can and will be held AGAINST you..."

Originally Posted by heatherelite

I have to disagree on both points. First: I've known several providers (none in this area) who got arrested even though the donation had already been discussed and agreed upon before the actual meeting. It was simply when the pre-arranged amount of money touched their hand that the actual arrest took place.

Second: entrapment would almost never apply here. The basic definition of entrapment is when the government persuaded you to commit a crime when under normal circumstances you wouldn't. It's kinda hard to make up an excuse as to why you were at the hotel/home of an escort-or at least someone you thought to be an escort-with the exact amount of money in your pocket that her ad states she is requesting for her services. Entrapment would be more along the lines of LE saying something like: "we'll forgot all about this solicition charge if you go rob a bank and then buy us some [staff edit by jymie: prohibited topic]." You wouldn't under normal circumstances go rob a bank and buy drugs (at least I would hope not); you're being persuaded by the government to do so in order to get a charge dropped.