avoiding reviews on e.com

[Guest011914-1]

I just signed in and checked the lastest review section and while I am not big on reviews I have asked the gentlemen I have seen since everything happen Please no reviews on e.com...and yet i see new reviews i think that is just a way to draw more attention to yourself...what do you all think?

[geck]

Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

I just signed in and checked the lastest review section and while I am not big on reviews I have asked the gentlemen I have seen since everything happen Please no reviews on e.com...and yet i see new reviews i think that is just a way to draw more attention to yourself...what do you all think?

TER as well: http://www.montgomerycountymd.gov/Ap....asp?NaID=5695

[pjpenner]

In my opinion, you need to post a warning in the "Ladies Only" sections on hobby websites warning other ladies that Mr. XXXXXX committed a breach of confidence after you specifically discussed the issue with the offending client(s).

Additionally, any client posting a review when asked not to (for reasons other than the provider's poor performance) is a deliberate and willful act of disrespect. Any disrespectful act needs to be shared with other providers with the intent to "weed out" those in the hobby who are disrespectful and cannot be trusted.

Like it or not, practicing the hobby comes with responsibility and accountability.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

and while I am not big on reviews......and yet i see new reviews i think that is just a way to draw more attention to yourself...what do you all think?

Do you have a no review policy on this site too. I understand the trepidation with e.com reviews based on the recent news. But if a client wrote a review of you here, without wanting or needing to ask you 1st, would you not see them again and take issue with that?

The only times I have seen ladies have trepidation about reviews were if they felt or knew something was wrong.....or the reviewers honesty was in stark contrast to her current reviews. Most of them would concede and just choose to let sleeping dogs lie, since a requirement to post ads had to allow gents the option to write reviews. Not sure of the rules here on this.

Is this something you highly suggest to your future suitors in order to stay in your good graces. That might make your reviews a lil biased no?

[JoesphFriday]

Anyone that can not see the hand writing on the wall as far as using the internet and internet based escort sites are just blind or in denial.The Montgomery news paper post mentions backpage as well as EROS being monitored as well.I would assume ECCIE is being watched as well. The LE situation is just getting a little more than I can chance right now. In todays New Orleans news paper, I am not good at drag and cick, there was a story of a early Sunday morning raid where a pimp was shot and killed. The story also mentioned that LE had been working all week using internet sites to lure customers posing as providers, as well as setting up dates with providers. There were several named people arrested over the week some pimps, providers, and dawgs. Its getting really scary out here right now for the hobby.

[pjpenner]

Originally Posted by JoesphFriday

Anyone that can not see the hand writing on the wall as far as using the internet and internet based escort sites are just blind or in denial....

Unfortunately, some people think -- and are truly convinced -- that:

• They are so careful that they'll never get caught
• Only other people get caught
• Only those who are careless get caught

Additionally, there are those who care less if they get caught and the resulting damage to those also affected by their arrest.

[Guest031213-03]

I actually contaced ter last week because I found out that 4 out of the 7 reviews that I had which 2 were bad and 2 were good, were actually fake. I never saw the guys. I know they are fake because they stated that I did outcalls to them and before I found this site I didn't do outcalls unless I knew the person. They (ter) removed every single review that I had and told me to start over brand new basically. It sucks cuz at least I had a few that were real. Whats a girl to do to stir up some business with no reviews?

[heatherelite]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Is this something you highly suggest to your future suitors in order to stay in your good graces. That might make your reviews a lil biased no?

I think the whole point of her post was what she didn't want ANY reviews and if there are no reviews then they can't possibly be biased. And as a side note, there are other ways a review could be biased: a provider giving the writer a "discount" for a good review or a provider offering a reference for the hobbyist to see another provider.

[Guest111911-2]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Do you have a no review policy on this site too. I understand the trepidation with e.com reviews based on the recent news. But if a client wrote a review of you here, without wanting or needing to ask you 1st, would you not see them again and take issue with that?

The only times I have seen ladies have trepidation about reviews were if they felt or knew something was wrong.....or the reviewers honesty was in stark contrast to her current reviews. Most of them would concede and just choose to let sleeping dogs lie, since a requirement to post ads had to allow gents the option to write reviews. Not sure of the rules here on this.

Is this something you highly suggest to your future suitors in order to stay in your good graces. That might make your reviews a lil biased no?

I can't speak for her but I took it as she asked not to be reviewed on a site that has been in the news and the talk of every escort board for weeks and still has not issued any statement to it's members (not even it's paying members). Not only did the IRS raid the offices another story just came out about a sting involving the site over the weekend.

While I do agree that the guy should have respected her wishes (and should be noted) I also agree with gimme_that in that if it's that big of an issue for you to receive reviews there you should hide/delete your account. It's up to you to decide if the business you are getting from there is worth the possible reviews you may receive.

What I don't understand is how asking a guy not to review her on a certain site would cause a bias.

[Maggie McNeill]

Originally Posted by geck

TER as well: http://www.montgomerycountymd.gov/Ap....asp?NaID=5695

Sounds to me like somebody in Montgomery has bought into the "Nordic Model", which is based on the misogynistic premise that women are not responsible for our own actions.

[Guest011914-1]

let me clarify..i am not against reveiws and understand they are needed to veryify us as well as the hobbyist and when I first started out reviews were important but not as much so now..i do what id because i enjoy it and if when our time ends and you leave feeling happy,relaxed, and with a smile on your face thats the only review i need and than when you email me to set up another playdate that is better to me than a printed review..I also like to keep a low profile and esp now with everything happing on e.com in my opinion a review will draw more attention to yourself and since no one really knows how much access or energy that LE are really putting into the site..i would rather be safe than sorry and thats is how I find this site a gentlemen ( I have no clients I have gentlemen) wrote a review on both sites than emailed me about this site..and so far I have not had a bad review written nor a false review written....it's not a requirement no reviews I mean I have no control over what anyone else does or doesn't do...i just ask them for right now not to on e.com and if they do that is up to them....I think I addressed everything you asked about..

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Do you have a no review policy on this site too. I understand the trepidation with e.com reviews based on the recent news. But if a client wrote a review of you here, without wanting or needing to ask you 1st, would you not see them again and take issue with that?

The only times I have seen ladies have trepidation about reviews were if they felt or knew something was wrong.....or the reviewers honesty was in stark contrast to her current reviews. Most of them would concede and just choose to let sleeping dogs lie, since a requirement to post ads had to allow gents the option to write reviews. Not sure of the rules here on this.

Is this something you highly suggest to your future suitors in order to stay in your good graces. That might make your reviews a lil biased no?