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Humpty Dumpty · 10-08-2010, 10:32 AM

If you have not already noticed, I like to do the Humpty Dance rather than the lame-ass Safety Dance. This has resulted in quite a bit of negative backlash against me, even in threads that have nothing to do with sex(read "what do yall do for a living" in the Diamonds and Tuxedos forum).

I do not allow myself to be baited into arguments and insult exchanges. I am here to exchange info, not to cause problems. It seems many people are brainwashed by the hypochondriac media, and are quick to tell me bullshit about STDs they learned in their freshman biology class, or even worse, the lies they learned in 6th grade sex education.

I am HIV negative. I have been vaccinated for Hepatitis B. Yeah, I caught chlamydia once. So what. So many people here do not seem to understand that its curable. I get tested all the time, its part of my job. I am not putting myself or anyone else in danger. I am respectful to the ladies I meet even though I am cheap.

I believe others should be respectful to me and not make bigoted remarks about my sexual preferences and not derail threads to insult me. If it wasn't for bareback fucking, I don't think any of us would be here right now. Many men here have sent private messages supporting me and saying they do the same, but are afraid to admit what they do for fear of being bullied and put on alert like me. I say barebackers should not be afraid and to come out of the closet. I will not "out" these people, nor the providers who I recognized from their showcases, its their decision. But we should not cower or be ashamed because we enjoy sex the way God intended.

lauralucks · 10-08-2010, 10:38 AM

What is your job that you get tested for STDs? Crazy!

Humpty Dumpty · 10-08-2010, 10:51 AM

I won't state where I work or what I do for a living, but I am routinely tested for bloodborne pathogens(HIV, Hep B and C) and a urinalysis would show if I had chlamydia or gonorrhea. I had a blood test for syphillis once(negative of course). To get an STD would endanger my income. It just goes to show you that the media scare tactics are working.

I have been doing this for years, I have banged hundred of ladies raw. How come I am not dying? Where are all these barebackers dying right and left, if what the media says is true?

Check out what Kevin DeCock of the World Health Organization has to say:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-st...ts-842478.html

anova444 · 10-08-2010, 11:31 AM

I feel that pro-bareback threads and signature lines should not be allowed. It is dangerous activity and adds stress to providers. If a man can't maintain an erection with a condom that's his problem not mine. Just let me know in advance and I will BBBJ until the sun comes up.

Sexy Roxanne · 10-08-2010, 12:21 PM

anyone got any cheese to go with that whine? I'm just sayin...
Go start your own website so you and all your bareback followers can go with you and yall can have a great big bare backin hay day. I swear..

TamsenCrown · 10-08-2010, 12:43 PM

The more you push the odds the more at risk you are. All it takes is that 1 time. And herpes doesnt seem like much fun either. 1 in 4 have it I believe? And things can lie dormant in you, HIV has been known not to show up. Is that 10 secs od exstacy really worth puss oozing scabs on your junk or you body falling apart to the point where when you stand one day your brittle bones just break in half and poke through your skin? No DUDE!!! Its NOT!!!

Youre gonna end up too sick to do any dance at all!

Humpty Dumpty · 10-08-2010, 12:47 PM

If 1 in 4 have herpes, how many providers have it? Do you? If you never have a lesion or an outbreak, does it matter?

The window period for HIV is 2 to 3 months after infection. How come I wasn't infected years ago?

Mokoa · 10-08-2010, 12:48 PM

Unfortunately for you...

You chose to promote a very unpopular topic here. Surely when you started your bare back crusade you knew that the backlash you received would be a probable result? To not know that would be quite naive.

How you choose to conduct yourself in your sex life is ultimately up to you but do not try to push your ways on others. If they disagree with you then just leave it at that.

I suggest that you either thicken your skin or learn how to use a feature of this site known as the Ignore List.

guest031012 · 10-08-2010, 12:49 PM

Just because YOU claim to be clean, doesn't mean the girl you're fucking is clean, or the guy she fucked before you is, or the girl he fucked before he fucked the girl you just fucked.....
get it?

Unless you and the provider you were seeing were getting checked after every single session, there is no way to ensure that you can't get an std.

My best friend in high school caught chlamyida and didn't realize it because in females it can be asymptomatic. Within weeks she was hospitalized for PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) which can occur if chlamydia is untreated. Her fallopian tubes and ovaries were so infected that she couldn't move her body. Upon being admitted to the hospital, she passed away. It was unbelievably tragic and heartbreaking.

Yeah chlamydia is easily curable. IF you know you have it.

BBFS is a HUGE safety risk. I wouldn't put my life on the line just because some guy wants to nut. Get a girlfriend or a wife for that.

Danieldiaz · 10-08-2010, 01:02 PM

Got to go with the crowd on this one. HIV was just a statistic to me until I met a couple of people who have it. Not crackheads or high risk takers. Just regular people aged 25 and 40 casually dating and eventually having unprotected sex with their infected partner. I wonder if someone should inform them that they are really dealing with media hype. btw, it's been a few years and they both still look healthy proving you cant' always go by looks.

anita · 10-08-2010, 01:06 PM

Having unprotected full service with multiples partners opens the door to HIV and std's. You know that. If there is no signs of breakout on you or your partner doesn't mean there will be no signs of breakout after your BBfs. Don't tell me during ALL these years you are doing this you only had 'ONE' std? Come on! Ugh... good luck with that!

Danieldiaz · 10-08-2010, 01:06 PM

I also noticed several huge bottles of VALTREX on the pharmacy counter at CVS, and asked the clerk how popular it was. She said they sell "a lot...i mean A LOT." but I figured the clerk was really an actress hired by CNN or FOX to get a ratings boost.

allofamber · 10-08-2010, 01:10 PM

BTW people just cause he "claims" he is clean...doesn't mean he is....

Perfect example of that was the guy in Dallas who infected all those women and is now in prison.....he told all those women he was CLEAN....guess what he wasn't...he LIED......

Humpty Dumpty · 10-08-2010, 01:11 PM

Mokoa- it is unpopular in public; in private it is a totally different matter. A well known TX escort who posts here scolded me about my ways, but on another board, she is well known to have done BBFS with many guys(while telling each guy he was the only client she did that with). Seriously, I think there is a lot of hypocrisy going on here.

Jamie, my condolences for your friend. I encourage everyone here to get tested on a regular basis. This is how I know I am clean as a whistle! I also encourage everyone to get vaccinated for hepatitis B.

Mr. Diaz, are these "regular people" perhaps gay males doing it on the down low?

Humpty Dumpty · 10-08-2010, 01:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by allofamber

BTW people just cause he "claims" he is clean...doesn't mean he is....

Perfect example of that was the guy in Dallas who infected all those women and is now in prison.....he told all those women he was CLEAN....guess what he wasn't...he LIED......

That was because he is..... uhhhhhh..... how do I say this politely..... URBAN? Is that politically correct to say?

Anita- yes its true, hundreds of partners later, one STD back in 2006. Clean now.