Fun Activities With or Without BCD

[Hercules]

Always wanted to take a gal to Hedo....

[Precision45]

I've taken a few gals to Cowboy's games and WoO races off-the-clock. No expectation of BCD, just had extra tickets. Thinking about taking my UTR fav to Costa Rica later this year. So yeah, why not??? Typically, if she asks for $$$ then I don't do it. Hell I'd take a free vacation to Costa Rica if someone asked me...

[Randall Creed]

Skiing, bowling, hang-gliding, and maybe even icefishing all sound like fun things to do with a provider. The only problem I see with it is it seems like too many (not all, but many) have the, 'I'm supposed to be making money 24/7...even while I'm sleeping, and any other time spent with you is a waste' mindset.

How would these proposals get off the ground without having to pay twice???

[Lana Warren]

I love all of the ideas that you gentlemen have come up with and it sounds like fun! Of course you would have to check with that particular lady on what her "fun" rates would be! But I'm sure there are some ladies that would pass on this rate......sometimes it's nice just to have a little fun without all the fuss! I know I would!

[bigdog0311]

I would love to go to a sporting event or concert event with some eye candy by my side, but there is no way I could afford the hourly rate it would take as well as not having any BCD activities, I do not want the blue balls either!

[Lana Warren]

Originally Posted by bigdog0311

I would love to go to a sporting event or concert event with some eye candy by my side, but there is no way I could afford the hourly rate it would take as well as not having any BCD activities, I do not want the blue balls either!

I wouldn't want blue balls either! I would hope that you men would put out!

[Garland_Bone]

Hurricane harbor, six flags, bowling, ballroom dancing, square dancing, line dancing, a picnic, an afternoon laying on a blanket on that grassy field at Turtle creek (I think we were the only heterosexual couple there), an ault theatre, and, I don't know if this counts, but had a date who always wanted to see what the inside of an AMP looked like so I bribed the mama-san into letting me bring a date.

[HoneyRose]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Skiing, bowling, hang-gliding, and maybe even icefishing all sound like fun things to do with a provider. The only problem I see with it is it seems like too many (not all, but many) have the, 'I'm supposed to be making money 24/7...even while I'm sleeping, and any other time spent with you is a waste' mindset.

How would these proposals get off the ground without having to pay twice???

Well, it would have to be something SHE'D enjoy for starters. So if you've chatted with a lady who says she loves icefishing or whatever, then ask if she'd ever like to do so off the clock.

For Father's Day, I offered free off the clock dates of various types, all things that I wanted to do:

***Spend several hours at King Spa
***Have Champagne Jazz Brunch
***See a movie (I don't remember the particular movie, but it was one I wanted to see and I named it.)

Do you know what? Nobody responded. I'd offered thinking some dads might be alone on Father's Day and want to do something more than a quick BCD date. I guess those choices weren't interesting to the divorced dads.

But by the same token, I didn't want to spend hours riding around in a golf cart or sitting a baseball game just to keep a lonely man company because both of those are not pleasant for me.

So, I'd say mutual interest in the activity is the key.

[rachet3375]

Taking my ATF to my deer lease this week, do a little fishing, ATV riding, show her how to fix a deer feeder cookout on the grill and do a little plinking with the .22
We got to talking one night and I mentioned that I was going to have to go out to the ranch and one thing led to another. She said she would love to go out in the woods and so I asked her if she wanted to go, she said hell yeah. I told her I wasn't going to be able to afford her rate and she said no need, just feed her and let her fish and plink. OK! I made it clear that I was not going to take her down there for free pussy and she told me that if she wanted to have sex then we damn well would!
So it looks like I will have a companion for my trip and if she wants to snuggle then so be it. This is why she is my ATF!

[HoneyRose]

Originally Posted by bigdog0311

I would love to go to a sporting event or concert event with some eye candy by my side, but there is no way I could afford the hourly rate it would take as well as not having any BCD activities, I do not want the blue balls either!

Sometimes guys post in ISO when they have an extra ticket for something.


There was one lady who offered some really intriguing dates for things SHE wanted to do. Does anyone remember this idea: There was some rapper she wanted to see and offered company with a little petting and light kissing in exchange for the ticket and transportation. it was going to be a totally public date with just some teasing in public and in the car.


I really thought she had the kernel of a neat idea there. (was it Veronica Moore?)


There are some young, hip hobbyists who could be into the type of music a lot of the young providers want to hear.

(and of course if you ever have tickets to a Beatles Tribute Band, The Stones, Rod Stewart, or Jon Bon Jovi, Aerosmith, Barry Manilow, Bruce Sprinsteen keep some of the mature "classic" ladies in mind )

[piquant2009]

Fishing Fishing and more Fishing

[bigdog0311]

Originally Posted by HoneyRose

Sometimes guys post in ISO when they have an extra ticket for something.

I tried that one time, I had a couple of stars tickets, my wife did not want to go and the tickets were 3rd row from the ice, just to the right of the penalty boxes, $125 a piece! I had providers that told me they wanted $500+ to go and they would meet me up there,so they would go and sit by me then leave immediately afterwards seperately, but first I had to scan the tickets and email it to them. I ended up going by myself. Never did it again as I have had other times I had extra tickets.

[Lana Warren]

I wanna go fishin', dammit!

[Lanny]

This type of arrangement takes a "special" type of relationship...One would think that at a bare minimum the hobyist and providor would almost assuredly need to have a level of mutual trust that comes from multiple visits....and there would need to be some of chemistry and or a mutual attraction either physically/emotionally, etc...and here is the rub...

There have been MANY posts over the years from hobbyists concerning "blurring of the lines" of the "contracted agreement" between Hobbyists and Providors...And to participate in "real world" type activities, IMHO, could lead to a Very Fun time....
while also being condusive to above stated blurring of the lines....

My advice would be to talk about before...make it VERY Clear what the mutually agreed upon parameters are to be....AND stick to said parameters....

ALL this being said, Yours Truly HAS participated in this type of activity before...and it can be rewarding....
There are some INCREDIBLE Ladies on this board...
In MORE ways than one....

Lanny

[italian1]

Lana...let's go fishing...I'll supply the worm!