A little consideration~!

[mgutik99]

I just wanna thank my reffs for taking the time and consideration to vouch for me or else I wouldn't have got to meet her which I'm so glad I did cause she is one of the most beautiful and genuine person I've met on broad. Like my mom n dad always told me sharing is caring.


And holy crap Angelina Adams !! I guess I missed something ...you look fuckin hot !!
ps. Sorry for jumping of topic lol

[Guest111711-3]

Originally Posted by WetVelvetSAT

It's cute that not that many guys are speaking up.....aheheheh...I knew this was coming...oh well!

Maybe the guys that are being affected don't log on often or maybe they don't want to burn their bridge with the Providers for pointing them out.

x

[Guest081710-2]

Angelina, I just got a returned Pm a few min ago saying "I dont remember if I have seen him"..LOL and I also provided his number so she can check her list..It really has nothing to do with time. I am a med student, own a business, do this and have children, If I have time EVERYONE else can make time....This is a Business so should be run like a Business not seeing who the highest bidder is so we can cling to him..I am on top of emailing once a day and letting gentlemen know that they cannot be verified and the list gets bigger and out of 4 references no one has replied (PMd) back...These girls or well known girls group together is the problem, I usually pm for reference but assumed I could call this one time since we had talked before, but i totally understand that yes at anytime security can be compromised and makes sense....Well anyhow, Im open to vouching for you gentlemen(that Ive seen of course LOL) and for the ladies that want to call me I am fine with it..Thanks for the girls who are open minded to this and Was good meeting the people I met yesterday..EZRA, Velvet and Adams....My hat goes off to you all! No hard feeling against anyone...Cheers to all the Sexy men , sexy women and lots of Hobbying..

[Ez5417]

angelina!!! youre sooo naughty!! but im glad youve concurred.....again, though some insist...dont blame the girls too quickly...so we take it back, did our research, took the time...talk to more reliable girls and gents...waited for them to reply here...then waited some more time....and oooh!!! would you look...its still those specific girls.lol....and no my sexy angelina....she wont post here....weve got you TM. well said babe. well said. sorry i missed the gathering...i have got get my butt out there and meet all these new pretty ladies. xoxo

[Likinikki]

Ezra...I wasn't trying to pick a fight. Like I said to TM...what I stated was in "all due respect to her" not just posting pointless words...but, in an effort to make a point.

And, as much as I appreciate that you do give references...there were a couple of times when even YOU didn't get back to me on a timely manner...and on a couple of occassions couldn't remember certain gents either...perhaps it was due to a hobbyist who only saw you once...and maybe it was longer than a few months back.

My point in stating that...is to show that it happens to all of us at some point...and as unfortunate as it is...that's just part of this profession...it happens. That's the reason for a backup plan to have other ways to screen...or ask the gent for other references. We shouldn't just jump to conclusions and make a huge deal out of an age old problem...that will never go away.

Several well-known providers...as in MORE THAN ONE...have a case of CHRONIC AMNESIA or just pick and choose when and when not to give a reference. We could make accusations and slam those providers all day long...but is that really a solution?

My point, which past your pretty little head completely, is...do we really need to post this type of issue in a COED forum? Isn't that what the provider's powder room is for? There are several of us (including myself) that do not get references from many of the SA providers...do you see me or any of them post a complaint on a COED thread about something that is an ongoing problem? There are MANY threads in the powder room about this very issue...which is the appropriate forum to air this type of problem.

AND, yes Ezra...I'll say it again...DON'T blame the girls...why would you? For being ignorant and inconsiderate? Will it change them...and is that a productive way to bring about a solution? I doubt it very much...my points were very simple:

1. Don't post a personal problem in the Coed Forum
2. Engage to be more professional and give some consideration as to why there may be a problem...if at all...instead of making useless passive-aggressive comments
3. Post these types of issues in the Power Room...where they belong
4. Be more proactive in finding a workable solution...than empowering a negative response.

I have no issues with any of you ladies posting here...as I'm also a victim of non-responsive providers myself. Even Angelina can attest that I was one of the first ones to welcome her...and tried to help her with references that she wasn't getting from some of the girls.

What I find offensive is when a provider attempts to slam other providers publicly just to CYA...and/or to get public sympathy. We should be grown women...after all...we're professionals right?

[Guest083013]

and truth be known....
everyone (guys and gals) know exactly who can relied upon to provide requested information in times like these..
in reality its just not a pleasant subject at all for any of us..

[ammonite]

Amen Dennis. May this thread RIP.

[WetVelvetSAT]

Hi,

It's not just a problem here..it's board wide!

Houston Thread that is enlightening

Sincerely,
Wet

[Ez5417]

nikki....ive never left you hanging w a ref vouch period. unless it was years ago and i was apart of an agency where as i wasnt even active on the board yet accept to post for availability. Say what you will (as usual) but if that is your "point" then simply just state that...but look at your previous post thats not how it was written. acting condescending and telling me i missed your point doesnt make you any more right in what you had said previously and what my reply entailed as a disagreement.... first..thank you for telling me im pretty, second....it WAS written here,old or not. its still here weve still replied...and thats that. deal. She voiced how she felt weve all replied w our own opinions and wether you feel its repetative or not...ITS STILL HERE. case closed. lol, "dont blame the girls".... thats funny, whether her objective was to even be productive with these, you said it, ignorant, inconsiderate girls...is her own thing...but bottom line she was still voicing how she felt...which is entitled. We all get nothing will change these particular women...on the contrary, the rightful women are allowed to call their asses out. i dont see that as "SLAMMING"...I view what she has written and what we have written as "a matter of letting people know how she/we feel, deal w, and keeping gents up to date...etc." Youre entitled to feel what you feel as well as the rest of us. Ad as far as the rules entail...we can start threads about it, reply and disagree or agree as we choose wo causing any specific person or persons harm or actual "slander" . no matter how old the issue is...how bored you are with it...or how offended you feel. The thread is clearly several peoples point of interest...proffesional or unprofessional as they are.

[Ez5417]

dennis:::: right on target, and i do appreciate all of you who indeed are reliable. and thats including you beautiful ladies who dont blame the other girls...lol....sorry just had to. xoxo night