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Grizzly · 08-01-2010, 11:19 PM

The most I spent on a provider was $2700 for a one hour party. She was a pornstar and spokesmodel for one of the cathouses in Nevada. I was coming out of a bad situation and it was the best money i spent in my life.

The longest date since than was an 8 hr marathon session and I spent $1200 plus a homecooked meal and it also was very worth the expenditure for all eight hours.

I took a non pro dancer home for an overnighter she was just starting as an escort, I gave her about $500 in cash, $300 for new clothes for work, and paid a couple of her bills. So about $1000 for an overnite.

In a 6 month time span from Spring of 2004 to Winter of 2004 I spent over 10 grand on the hobby.

oden · 08-01-2010, 11:24 PM

All I had at the time and it was worth it at the time. In retrospect, I've spent less for better, but if you live in the moment as a man, you know what I mean.

charlestudor2005 · 08-02-2010, 06:00 AM

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Originally Posted by oenghus

In a 6 month time span from Spring of 2004 to Winter of 2004 I spent over 10 grand on the hobby.

That's not a hobby...that's an obsession.

.. · 08-02-2010, 07:40 AM

... if charlestudor2005 were a jew, he'd tell us: Aroigevofeneh gelt!

charlestudor2005 · 08-02-2010, 08:11 AM

See below.

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Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

What is the most you ever spent on a provider? Was it worth it? Pretty low range as rates go, and no, it wasn't worth it although I gave the lady a stellar review. She was one of the best I had ever been with and I enjoyed her immensely. But asking whether or not "it was worth it" is an entirely different question. In the end it's all just about having an orgasm (and for me I only get one), and whether you pay 80 for a 15 minute blow pop or 400 for one hour, the goal is still the same. And I can save several hundred bucks by taking my business to Rosy Palm. lol. So, if you're asking me, seeing a provider is, for the most part, not worth it. Now, if the cosmos had set it up so that only a woman could make you cum, now, that would be an entirely different story!!!

What makes you want to see a certain provider....is it looks, reviews, price point, intiguing website, a friends recomendation......?

I do a lot of research before I pick. For instance, I may be in Dallas in the next couple of weeks, and have one night available. I've been looking at possibilities for about a month. Here are some of my requirements:

Must do an outcall (preferably for the same price, but you can't always find that. Some ladies do ONLY outcalls.) If you don't say you do outcalls on your ad, I'll assume you don't and give you a pass.
Must be within my price point. I watch the ads, but otherwise believe what the provider says is her donation on her website/P411, and I never, ever bargain the rate down. If she is above my price point, she doesn't even get a second glance. It has been a long time since I've responded to an ad. For the most part, the ads these days are NOT offering specials (which is quite different from the motherboard), nor do they tend to include enough information for me to make an informed choice. If your prices are in the least confusing, I'll give you a pass. They should be the same everywhere and be all-inclusive (except for Greek).
We must fit physically. I'm 5/7, and prefer no one taller than 5/6. I look for spinners with small breasts...it's just a preference. I've been with medium sized and bbw ladies, but much prefer someone that fits my frame.
The menu must include my preferred items. I'm not a hog on this (after all, I cum only once), but do have list of preferences. If you don't list the items on your menu, I'm likely to pass.
If you say you offer a GFE/PSE session, then do it. Don't give me this YMMV crap. To me, that's just as bad as cash and dash. Or leave off activities you would normally get from you GF (like DFK). There are some ladies that advertise "limited GFE" and they are to be commended.
If you are good at what you do, don't be afraid to leave a review trail. Some ladies hate reviews and only see you on the condition that you don't do a review. For guys who do research, reviews are a must. You may offer the best, most passionate and wonderful service known to man (lol!!), but if reviews don't exist, then you'll never see some potential (and wonderful) clients.
It must be easy to contact and schedule you. Please tell me your preferred method, preferably on P411 or the Showcase.
And finally, I know I can find this out in reviews, so please be aware: turn off your fucking cell phone when you are with me. Not just silence, not just vibrate...but OFF!!

Sorry for the rant.

Alex

charlestudor2005 · 08-02-2010, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by ..

... if charlestudor2005 were a jew, he'd tell us: Aroigevofeneh gelt!

OK, so Google's language tools didn't have any results. How is this translated? (BTW, I tried Hebrew, Arabic & Yiddish.)

Grathic · 08-02-2010, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

OK, so Google's language tools didn't have any results. How is this translated? (BTW, I tried Hebrew, Arabic & Yiddish.)

Thrown away, or wasted money.

Rudyard K · 08-02-2010, 08:36 AM

CT your comments above are entlightening and explain a lot why you don't really enjoy your encounters.

How about this? Why don't you write a fictitious review of a one hour encounter with a gal at a $400 rate that you would come away at the end saying..."That was worth it". You are adept at saying what your don't enjoy. But, if you can't put forth the encounter that would be "worth it"...then there is no way for anyone to meet your expectations, because you can't even meet them in your own mind.

You pick what she looks like. You pick what happened. You pick the demeanor. Once you figure out exactly what that looks like, maybe someone can fill those shoes should they want to.

Marcus Aurelius · 08-02-2010, 08:42 AM

I saw a thread like this once and the question was "How much have you spent in a year in the hobby?" There were several sports car (prices) thrown about.
I have to agree, x wives cost the most.

charlestudor2005 · 08-02-2010, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Rudyard K

CT your comments above are entlightening and explain a lot why you don't really enjoy your encounters.

How about this? Why don't you write a fictitious review of a one hour encounter with a gal at a $400 rate that you would come away at the end saying..."That was worth it". You are adept at saying what your don't enjoy. But, if you can't put forth the encounter that would be "worth it"...then there is no way for anyone to meet your expectations, because you can't even meet them in your own mind.

You pick what she looks like. You pick what happened. You pick the demeanor. Once you figure out exactly what that looks like, maybe someone can fill those shoes should they want to.

RK...this will be a challenge. It might take me a couple of days.

Katy Alexander · 08-02-2010, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

See below.

You may offer the best, most passionate and wonderful service known to man (lol!!), but if reviews don't exist, then you'll never see some potential (and wonderful) clients.

If she is offering something that is passionate, and great , she is less likely to even need reviews. She will probably have enough regulars to keep her busy.Also keep in mind that a lack of reviews could mean that the escort truly is low volume, and likes to keep it that way.

It is so rare for me to be reviewed, but when it happens all the crazys seem to come out. From this experience I do not feel I am missing out on all those wondeful clients who feel the need to trust the words of a stranger over their own instincts.

Sorry Charles , me and Ed are in a pissy mood today

Rudyard K · 08-02-2010, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

RK...this will be a challenge. It might take me a couple of days.

Well, it's probably worth the exercise.

If its truly mainly about "getting a nut" for you, then it probably get's hard to beat Ms. Rosey Palm, in the "worth it" category. She is always available and she is free.

You might find that the "worth it" $400 session does not exist for you, and that a massage gal (or something like that) more meets your wants. If you can find a good one...that really knows how to give a good massage (they are out there)...that provides a "nut" at the end...you can probably accomplish that for a 60-90 minute session that is no more than 2-2.5. You can interact verbally with them...or just lay there and say nothing at all. A great massage and a "nut" for a little over the cost of a massage at an upscale spa...might be right up your alley.

.. · 08-02-2010, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Rudyard K

If its truly mainly about "getting a nut" for you, then it probably get's hard to beat Ms. Rosey Palm, in the "worth it" category. She is always available and she is free.

IMO masturbation isn't a substitute for good sex. (I should know, after all I masturbate daily.)

I think Tudor really needs to learn that not every koorvah iz ekldik.

nevergaveitathought · 08-02-2010, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Rudyard K

Well, it's probably worth the exercise.

If its truly mainly about "getting a nut" for you, then it probably get's hard to beat Ms. Rosey Palm, in the "worth it" category. She is always available and she is free.

You might find that the "worth it" $400 session does not exist for you, and that a massage gal (or something like that) more meets your wants. If you can find a good one...that really knows how to give a good massage (they are out there)...that provides a "nut" at the end...you can probably accomplish that for a 60-90 minute session that is no more than 2-2.5. You can interact verbally with them...or just lay there and say nothing at all. A great massage and a "nut" for a little over the cost of a massage at an upscale spa...might be right up your alley.

the more you search or desire a connection...the less....what do you call it? "a nut"? comes to mean...and then in some fantastical way, if you perceive a connection, the more "getting a nut" satisfies but its not the "nut" its the whole tree the nut comes from.

charlestudor2005 · 08-02-2010, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Becky

You may offer the best, most passionate and wonderful service known to man (lol!!), but if reviews don't exist, then you'll never see some potential (and wonderful) clients.

If she is offering something that is passionate, and great , she is less likely to even need reviews. She will probably have enough regulars to keep her busy.Also keep in mind that a lack of reviews could mean that the escort truly is low volume, and likes to keep it that way.

It is so rare for me to be reviewed, but when it happens all the crazys seem to come out. From this experience I do not feel I am missing out on all those wondeful clients who feel the need to trust the words of a stranger over their own instincts.

Sorry Charles , me and Ed are in a pissy mood today

Sorry about the pissy mood. Must be the Monday. All is forgiven.

Yeah, I forgot about you and a few other providers when I wrote that. I was thinking of my situation, constantly traveling, constantly needing to get the lowdown on the local talent.

And reviews are a pain to write, and I'm not particularly good at them, but I do it b/c I take advantage of those written by others.

You have a great website Becky (if I remember correctly...it's been a while), but just as you (probably) don't rely on "just OKs" for your screening process, I wouldn't rely on "just my instincts" in provider selection. As you can see above, it is a process that has many filters, only one of which is reviews.

Reviews to me are not the sole source of choosing, but rather a refinement. If there is an NCNS on a review/alert, then I won't see her. If she is late, then she goes to the bottom of the list. Other conduct that tends to turn up in reviews has an affect also.

BTW, for a number of reasons, you wouldn't make the list. They are not bad reasons...just neutral ones--like although it is possible I will be in SF, it is highly unlikely.