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Originally Posted by BritneyBangs
. Amen! On a side note, why are people so afraid to communicate during sex? You are already doing the most intimate activity. Why not just lose all the inhibitons? If I don't enjoy something I am going to tell you! I would damn sure want someone to tell me!
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Excellent point, Brit, as once relaxed & in the act, there shouldn't be much holding back. Sexual exploration like anything requires research and communication between researchers to calibrate data. *sounds nerdy, eh?*
I'm apparently the unusual one here as I do like having my clit sucked at some point. Sometimes harder than other times, but in between other actions. Starting slow is logical as, unless we have been getting seriously worked up with kissing & feeling each other up, I'm not expecting sudden, voracious nibbles & licks & sucks at initiation of DATY. Guys usually take a moment to admire the butterfly wing labia then my long hood w/ winged clitoris inside the tunnel. I'm not shy to tell fellas that if they choose to insert digits, please be gentle. I didn't care for digits for a long time due to bad experiences w/ jabbing & scratching in search of my evasive G-spot.
For me, variety of techniques & location of focus are what keep the build to orgasm progressing. Too much repitition loses my interest as does too gentle a touch. In contrast, pushing hard on my clit deadens the nerves to feeling completely, so there's a happy medium for sure. I don't have a problem communicating my preferences & hope you will do the same for me during BBBJ activities.
As for me performing DATY, I have learned to be more gentle than my preference for obvious reasons *such as the many ladies who posted that preference*. My fave move is to gently suck the clit & labia minora into my mouth & run my tongue up & down the clit between. Love to watch girls squirm!!! :P
Hope to enjoy some DATY & BBBJ fun SOON!!!
Kat
XOXOX
