Doing what you love? Or just a job?

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

You can tell if a provider truly loves what she does by how long she has been doing it. Many providers quit after a few months, some after a year or so. I'm going on 11 years.

I'm sorry, Heather, but this seems a little silly to me. People have to start sometime, and it isn't really fair to say that a lady doesn't enjoy what she does just because she is new to the business. Now if what you're trying to say is that the likelihood of someone like you (going on 11 years!) disliking the business is slim, I agree completely! I'd also agree that girls who drop out after a few months may not have been cut out for it for one reason or another.

Also, providing is not a forever thing for me, but there is no doubt in my mind that I will look back on it with fond memories.

[Sweet Heather]

Originally Posted by China Doll

I'm sorry, Heather, but this seems a little silly to me. People have to start sometime, and it isn't really fair to say that a lady doesn't enjoy what she does just because she is new to the business. Now if what you're trying to say is that the likelihood of someone like you (going on 11 years!) disliking the business is slim, I agree completely! I'd also agree that girls who drop out after a few months may not have been cut out for it for one reason or another.

Also, providing is not a forever thing for me, but there is no doubt in my mind that I will look back on it with fond memories.

You're right, China Doll. I should have said one way you can tell, not the way you can tell. Sorry for the misconception.

[Tiffany Cums]

Dang...I am always looking up to ChinaDoll....how come she is so wise and good with her words, but yet so young and pretty?

Not fair!

[Guest0812112]

I would have to say this is a job, more so on some days than others, but I truly do love my job. Out of many career opportunities I chose to pursue this and I could not be happier. At the risk of being accused of hijacking this thread, would it be possible for one of you ladies that have the excellent command of language and grammar (I'm so envy you ) to come visit me for a week or so, possibly tour together and give me some pointers. English is a second language to me, but understand I am fluent in country hick xoxo chelsea

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

You're right, China Doll. I should have said one way you can tell, not the way you can tell. Sorry for the misconception.

I figured that this is what you probably meant. So, really, we completely agree. Like I said before, very few women who have been providing for 11 years hate what they do!

Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

Dang...I am always looking up to ChinaDoll....how come she is so wise and good with her words, but yet so young and pretty?

Not fair!

"Not fair?" What are you, 60? You ain't old yet, and you know darn well that you're gorgeous. You needn't flatter me so....but you do flatter me. You know, I appreciate your wisdom, too. Sometimes you are able to remain quite cheery in your posts in threads I wouldn't touch with a ten foot shlong. You're also very fair-minded.