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Originally Posted by Diana Devereaux
Try extended, deep, foreplay. Start out with foreplay, put the condom on, then continue with more intensive foreplay. By that point, u should be so ready to blow it wont be on long anyway!
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This was such a problem for me that at one point I had pretty much stopped doing FS sessions so I can totally relate to this problem. I now have less of the problem. I really liked the suggestion above because I do think a lot of this is mental and when the condom goes on and you go straight to penetration there is a little time for the negative thoughts to start...will I stay hard?, will i feel anything?, yada yada. The idea of putting the condom on and continuing foreplay a while before penetration makes sense to me. I've also considered masturbating with a condom on which sounds goofy but might help my brain replace (I's not going to feel anything) with (you KNOW this condom doesn't keep you from feeling good). I'm also going to experiment with different condoms to see if it makes a difference so thanks for all the recommendations.
There is hope
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I've gone from feeling NOTHING for quite awhile to significant recent improvement. It's been gradual so you just have to get the big head out of the little heads way.