Condoms----Comments and Questions

[Fiero]

Originally Posted by Diana Devereaux

Try extended, deep, foreplay. Start out with foreplay, put the condom on, then continue with more intensive foreplay. By that point, u should be so ready to blow it wont be on long anyway!

This was such a problem for me that at one point I had pretty much stopped doing FS sessions so I can totally relate to this problem. I now have less of the problem. I really liked the suggestion above because I do think a lot of this is mental and when the condom goes on and you go straight to penetration there is a little time for the negative thoughts to start...will I stay hard?, will i feel anything?, yada yada. The idea of putting the condom on and continuing foreplay a while before penetration makes sense to me. I've also considered masturbating with a condom on which sounds goofy but might help my brain replace (I's not going to feel anything) with (you KNOW this condom doesn't keep you from feeling good). I'm also going to experiment with different condoms to see if it makes a difference so thanks for all the recommendations.

There is hope I've gone from feeling NOTHING for quite awhile to significant recent improvement. It's been gradual so you just have to get the big head out of the little heads way.

[beachcomber]

69er, I'm with you. I've had a provider use one and it was great.

Ladies, we'd like to hear from you on female condoms. What do you say?

Beach

[Sweet Heather]

Condoms? It's 2010. Condoms are becoming optional, just like in porn, and we all know what's done in porn eventually filters down to the hobby. Just sayin.....

[Jasser]

Condoms? Who still uses those things? Look, if you want to be safe and still have fun, just rub peroxide on your mushroom tip 10 minutes before you go to grinding. Also, take 10 mg of milk thistle and 5mg of horny goats weed. It's a guaranteed mixture that protects you and your mate from anything.

Seriously though, I'm not sure what to tell you. Nobody likes using them, but we have to in order to keep our circle of fuckbunnies safe. I personally don't get the bigger ones to "move around in". Back in high school I did that and I was pumping away, thinking how good that shit felt. Little did I know the rubber actually came off inside my stuff animal...Good thing it was just practice though.

[DukeCooper]

hahahaha you crack me up

[sxyjade101]

I heard about the crown condoms they are supposedly rated the best condoms out there u can barely feel them

[happyndallas45]

+ 1 on the Kimono Microthins Large. Will probably try Crown after the positive comments, but of all I have tried, this brand is my favorite.

Originally Posted by TheWanderer

There is nothing like the real thing, but in today's world, we have no choice but to learn to love them.
Try this site:
http://www.condoms-review.org/

This led me to Kimono Large Microthins which are my favorite.

I tried Bareback (actual brand-name) Super Sensitive and they are pretty good.

[Guest100610-2]

Originally Posted by Medal P

Ok. I was with SO for 25 years. So never had to deal with this, but wearing a condom is like putting a burlap tow sack on my cock!!!
Totally kills the feeling. Boner killer too. The sensative ones are no better. I know it's partially mental too. Suggestions or comments?

May I suggest " Proper Attire Condoms "

I hate the way condoms feel but I have found that I really enjoy the way these feel. Ive had men tell me they love them... Maybe give them a shot?

" Proper Attire Sheer "



Also found this link interesting!
http://www.condomdepot.com/reviews/best-condoms.cfm

[Iaintliein]

I get it so rarely that the condoms help keep me in the saddle for more a couple of minutes.

On the down side, most are very uncomfortable, I don't carry them myself for security reasons and don't know which ones the various ladies use. But most will not roll down over the last three quarter inch or so at the base and really do pinch (length isn't the problem, but circumference near the base can cause issues).

I once read that the only human attribute more variable in size and shape than the penis is the nose, yet we have very few choices in size and shape of condoms.

(too bad the penis doesn't keep growing, I seem to recall the nose and ears do).

Regards,