All women can squirt, if they want to. Physiologically they are all equipped to do so, and in my experience lately, I have been able to achieve that with every woman I have been with, but not every woman has enjoyed it. Some were actually turned off by it, so I am adjusting my own agenda, especially with providers.
When I first learned how to do it I was like a kid with a new toy and wanted to try it on everyone. Looking back, I was very pushy, and this was made worse in the hobby because of the general assumption that since I was paying for the session, and reasonable sexual request should be met. . .
Yeah, pretty stupid, huh?
I later discovered that more than one provider did it for me out of. . .well whatever motivates a provider to indulge her client's weird request! I guess my approach had entered the area of fetish and that when they were being honest, while their bodies responded to the specific techniques biologically, they really weren't all that into it, and in fact more than one was kind of repulsed by it.
One even said, "When it happened, my first thought is I can't believe he can do this to me, and then I thought, I am not sure I want him to do this to me."
Another, very recently, said she wasn't sure what to call it. For her there was no real pleasure like an an ordinary orgasm, and she would not call what happened cumming. She looked down at the fluid that sprayed on her thighs, was put off by the wet mess, and said, it went from "feeling I had to pee, to thinking I just peed, to why do people even want to do this?" She had contractions like an orgasm and even a warm fluttery feeling, but the disgust of having the fluid wash up and out overode any pleasure she could muster.
Meanwhile, there are others that simply love it. they moan, flop, and writhe. Some like it so much, it has become a routine when we do the session. Even though I am still the one paying, I get treated as a provider. They jump up on the bed at the start of the session, assume the position, and want 3-4 four "episodes" before I get my blowjob and CFS.
I happen to like doing it, and the taste is incredible, so I would never complain to be so objectified.
(yes my tongue is firmly in my cheek right now) I am exaggerating a bit, but what I mean is the focus has become the squirting orgasm, and I am not sure that is a good thing for BCD.
Anyway, sorry for drifting, you were looking for some of the actual medical research?
This should be enough to get you started, if you care to do a research project:
Reprinted from: The Journal of Sex Research (1984)
Often the debate is also tied to the existence of the G-spot;[18][53] stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall involves simultaneous stimulation of the para-urethral tissue, the site of the Skene's glands and ducts and presumed source of the ejaculated fluid, and therefore it has been variously stated that stimulation of this spot results in ejaculation. These tissues, surrounding the distal urethra, and anterior to the vagina, have a common embryological origin to the prostatic tissue in the male.[54][55] Critics have maintained that ejaculation is either stress incontinence or vaginal lubrication. Research in this area has concentrated almost exclusively on attempts to prove that the ejaculate is not urine,[53][71] measuring substances such as urea, creatinine, prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), prostate specific antigen (PSA),[6] glucose and fructose [72] levels. Early work was contradictory; the initial study on one woman by Addiego and colleagues reported in 1981,[41] could not be confirmed in a subsequent study on 11 women in 1983, [73] but was confirmed in another 7 women in 1984.[74] In 1985 a different group studied 27 women, and found only urine,[56] suggesting that results depend critically on the methods used.
A 2007 study on two women involved ultrasound, endoscopy, and biochemical analysis of fluid. The ejaculate was compared to pre-orgasmic urine from the same woman, and also to published data on male ejaculate. In both women, higher levels of PSA, PAP, and glucose but lower levels of creatinine were found in the ejaculate than the urine. PSA levels were comparable to those in males.[5]
Source of fluid
One very practical objection relates to the reported volumes ejaculated since this fluid must be stored somewhere in the pelvis, of which the urinary bladder is the largest source. The actual volume of the para-urethral tissue is quite small. By comparison, male ejaculate varies from 0.2–6.6 mL (0.04–1.3 tsp) (95% confidence interval), with a maximum of 13 mL (2.6 tsp).[75] Therefore claims of larger amounts of ejaculate are likely to contain at least some amount of urine. The eleven specimens analyzed by Goldberg in 1983,[73] ranged from 3–15 mL (0.6–3.0 tsp).[74] One source states that Skene's glands are capable of excreting 30–50 mL (6–10 tsp) in 30–50 seconds,[63] but it is unclear how this was measured and has not been confirmed. One approach is to use a chemical like methylene blue (or drugs like Urised which contain it) so that any urinary component can be detected.[74] Belzer showed that in one woman he studied, the dye was found in her urine, but not her orgasmic expulsion.[40]
PAP and PSA have been identified in the para-urethral tissues, using biochemical and immunohistochemical methods, suggesting that the ejaculate likely arises from the ducts in these tissues, in a manner homologous to that in the male.[76][77][78][79][80] Another marker common to the prostate/para-urethral tissue in the both sexes is Human Protein 1.[81]
PSA occurs in urine, and is elevated in post-orgasmic samples compared to pre-orgasmic. Simultaneous collection of ejaculate also showed PSA in both urine and ejaculate in all cases, but in higher concentration in the ejaculate than in the urine.[60]
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