Kcarp,
I am curious as to what sets you off to "wonder" if a woman could be a provider? Is it how she dresses, the box of condoms she is carrying in her back pocket, the three cell phones she has with her on the treadmill or the thigh highs barely visible under her gym shorts?
I always appreciate when a gentleman (hobbyist/non-hobbyist) gives me a smile or a nod but a creepy stare and/or oogle is a little too much. Definitely following me around the grocery store (hey, I know you really don't need a box of Tampax) will get an unwelcomed comment or action from me.
However, if you are a hobbyist and you approach me in a public setting I will gently rip off an appendage and feed it to my monkey. Just sayin
I think most men (and ladies) on this board would never approach a fellow hobbyist or provider in public unless they had talked about the subjuect with that individual before.
Now, I am off to the gym....where did I put my damn cell phones
Spikebaby