I really enjoy convo before getting busy. Granted, I don't want to cross the line of being "too intimate". But there are other degrees of connection (i.e. Friends with Benefits) and convo goes a long way toward making that connection, getting a feel for her spirit and energy. I also like that it gives me more time to appreciate her physical beauty at a distance and drink up the visual. Once things get hot and heavy, many times you can only see part of her because you are much closer.
That said, it makes me sad\impatient when I book a session and desire MSOG, but the convo starts to take up
too much time heading in the direction of preventing that...
convo, when it's sincere it also makes me feel like I am appreciated and special to the Provider (especially exit convo). That I'm not just a job but a friend as well.
Funny, this reminds me of a session I had:
I went to see a Provider and we just got carried away with the exit convo (she felt like taking a break). We talked about her pictures and outfits and then started talking about sexual episodes we've had. Then after awhile we both got that, "well back to work" vibe. When I got to the door, I realized that the convo had made me SO horny that I would just go home and fantasize about her anyway, so I said, "I know I should go now but... could I just book another session instead?" with a mischievious grin. She got a big ole smile on her face (flattered) and said, "I'd love that." -- Definitely a special memory in my hobby book.
