Providers what do you think?

[guest092312]

I think many men have various reasons of course.
I love the hobby because of the variety some enjoy the regulars more...some enjoy new variety.
I don't think anyone has room to accuse when it comes to the money aspect.
All providers and hobbiests know the prices and therefore are not shocked and therefore know what they're getting into.
It's an enjoyable, private experience

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by throbin

Providers do you think that most of the guys you see are there because they can't get a girl in real life or is there another reason? And guys what is your reason, can you get a girl but are there for fetish reasons or something else? I like knowing the girl I see has never seen me before and I pretty much walk thru the door and it's on, what a turn on. Also there are just some very beautiful sexy women here on eccie that would usually never give me a second look in real life.

A lot of the stereotypes that I had of the industry were immediately blown apart when I began working. Most of the men I see are there not because they can't get a 'girl in real life' but because they're looking for an immediate gratification that requires no commitment and no bullshit. Many are married men LOL so they actually do have a 'girl' (wife ) in real life. Some of the wives just aren't having sex anymore with their husbands. Some of the men have little time for a relationship but want sex with no strings. Anymore than men can stereotype a working lady, can a working lady stereotype her client.

[kingorpawn]

A lot of the guys that I know that go for providers won't get some of these ladies in the real world. There either married or just too old and they want a younger lady, but they have to pay for it to get her. I'm in my late 40's and I still get college girls and even high school girls mostly cause they think I'm in my late 20's, but for me it's just to get something quick without the hassle. I have a sugar baby that's 21, but even her can be a headache sometimes. For me, I just want to get laid quick. I don't care for GFE stuff.

[Guest121613]

As I have an longtime SO for 20+ years, and have an active sex life with her, and a great family, but it is partly that I just love woman, their minds, hearts and bodies. I enjoy reading about polyamoury. With the hobby (i hate the term, but realize is a practical code name), I am looking for a contrast, not a SO substitute. I like athleticism and a sweet disposition. I am always doing the giving at home, the escorts focus on me, and that is what I why I am in the hobby. It is really quite fulfilling, and I have learned so much about myself, and have shattered many old paradigms, as it is very liberating.

[musicaldog2010]

This is easy. It's having your cake and eating it too.

I'm single but I see it so often at my work. Married guys that have a wife acting like a mother. As in mother I mean: cooking all the meals, ironing, washing there clothes, and basically just plain serving them and in some case babying them. Some of the very religious women I dated believed in that...serving the man and the man has the last word (but that's a different topic).

These wives to my co-workers are very good wives, mothers, keepers of the house (with most of them working a job too), and compassion and attention on them. This type of wife, the guys can go home to and know know they will be taken care of. The other side of this is that these women don't have time for themselves and let them self go. So they want the mother at home and the sexy 25 year old with a hot body on the side. The few guys with the hot wife are not getting this.

This goes with the same with women. Women want the nice nerd guy that makes $200K to give them attention and sweetness in a hot muscular body.

[musicaldog2010]

Also likeness in life. Most guys would like to be with hot 25 year old, but would a hot 25 year old would want to be with a middle aged man no matter how hot and muscular he was (or 60 year old man finding a 40 year old woman). If you were a hot 25 year girl why would you want to be with a middle age man besides money (or for very few women a father figure). That's why guys are on here. Do you know how much time and effort it would be to find a girl like that, then its no guarantee of sex once you meet a girl like that during the dating period or if she is even interested. Guys on here don't want to put that effort in and they make enough money to get straight to the point.

[Guest121613]

it is not that simplistic, I don't find that is about a 25 yr old hottie for all clients, and looks are important, but not the point. I have 3 providers I will continue making appointments with because we connect more emotionally and mentally, then just physically. I also have hesitancy with providers that are very young, as they could be young enough to be my daughter.

[BlackMistress]

Originally Posted by throbin

Providers do you think that most of the guys you see are there because they can't get a girl in real life or is there another reason? And guys what is your reason, can you get a girl but are there for fetish reasons or something else? I like knowing the girl I see has never seen me before and I pretty much walk thru the door and it's on, what a turn on. Also there are just some very beautiful sexy women here on eccie that would usually never give me a second look in real life.

1. Can't get a woman in real life.
2. Accepts the reality that P4P is drama free (supposed to be anyway...).
3. Just needs to get laid.

[Alyssa Nicole]

different guys see me for different reasons, but the most common being that they want a chance of pace, someone other than their SO....

[anita]

They see me because they want something more enjoyable than the nagging wife at home. Or the lonely dinner. Or they just want to unload. Or they want to be big babies and have me rub their hair while they watch tv. Or they want to make some fantasies reality . Or they want to play in public places. Whatever the reason is, I am always glad they chose me to rock their world.

[lucky6565]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Nicole

different guys see me for different reasons, but the most common being that they want a chance of pace, someone other than their SO....

I just want to see you!!!

[dilbert firestorm]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Nicole

different guys see me for different reasons, but the most common being that they want a chance of pace, someone other than their SO....

I don't live in Dallas, but I certainly would like to meat you!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Nicole

different guys see me for different reasons, but the most common being that they want a chance of pace, someone other than their SO....

Hummmm that might be. But I think the truth is the vast majority like myself want to see you because your hotter than all get out! Anyone who says different is full of poop! ijs

[kingorpawn]

Or like my man Charlie said,

"For now, I'm just going to hang out with these two smoking hotties and
fly privately around the world. It might be lonely up here,
but I sure like the view."

Charlie Sheen