Hesitant to try prostate/assplay

[briggs4417]

I have read the recent threads that are around the questions and reservations that some guys may have to trying prostate massage or other forms of assplay. But I was wondering, are there many ladies who are interested to try this form of play, but don't know where to start or are nervous about learning.

I know Ms Athena and DallasRain are both very active in this particular practice, but I have to believe that there are a number of other ladies who are also intrigued.

Also, to the ladies who are curious, but have not yet tried it....what appeals to you most....fingers, butt plugs or dildos, or strapon play.....or other things?

[Ms. Athena]

I feel there are others out there that have an interest in learning the art of prostate play, role play and strap on play. But as it does take an investment in the correct toys, lubes and knowledge they may hold back. I started my journey with a finger, then a glass dildo and BF that was as curious as I was...This was such a turn on that I want to know more, I then googled and research all I could find out about a man's GSpot or his PSpot as I call it. I sought out men that had received Prostate stimuli and could help teach me the proper techniques. I continue to learn new ways to give pleasure everyday as everyone responds differently to this form realm of play. This play is not for everyone, there is skills involved, money in toys, and always the chance of a mess. For those that are willing to take the time and learn....WelCUM to the world of KINK!!!

[DallasRain]

ditto with sexy Ms Athena!

{we both have a magic finger.....lol}

I like fingers/toys/butt plugs/strap ons....you name it and I might have it in my toy suitcase{lol}


http://www.whitelotuseast.com/SacredSpotMassage.htm

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/male-...aging-prostate

[NurseCarrie]

Did someone say ass play?

[Deviant Bastard]

I've found the penetration isn't always necessary. What absolutely drives me crazy is light stroking of my asshole and the perineum during--receiving oral and while cumming.

I scream so loud it wakes the dead.
To me , it's about the tease before the explosion.

Lightly using the pads of the fingers or finger nails externally---almost like a tickle...can be delicious.

Just hard to find people who understand this.

[*GoddessDallas*]

A man's anus is more sensitive than even his nipples in most cases.
Watching him squirm and listening to him moan as you drive him crazy is FUN!
I agree that the woman who is "pitching" should know what she is doing.

I give enemas and am all about anal play and have been for decades...lovingly and sensually...unless you like it RAW and kinky.
I am all over that

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by Deviant Bastard

I've found the penetration isn't always necessary. What absolutely drives me crazy is light stroking of my asshole and the perineum during--receiving oral and while cumming.

I scream so loud it wakes the dead.
To me , it's about the tease before the explosion.

Lightly using the pads of the fingers or finger nails externally---almost like a tickle...can be delicious.

Just hard to find people who understand this.

wooohoooooo lucky man...I will be that way in July{lol}

[TexEngnr]

I have been very fortunate to encounter women willing to explore this with me. A few have had some experience, but most had never explored prostrate massage. It's fun to introduce them to it, guide them in how it feels best (for me at least), and see them enjoy doing it.

I always have a package of finger cots in my toy bag. It's a nice compromise between bare finger and full glove. The gloves just strike me as too clinical, while a bare finger has risks for both. I am not wild about what longer fingernails might damage, and equally concerned for the ladies ending up with bacteria under fingernails that would be hard to fully clean up.

The first time a lady does this, the best part for me is observing the look on her face as she observes the resulting orgasm I experience.

[DallasRain]

I always have a package of finger cots in my toy bag. It's a nice compromise between bare finger and full glove. The gloves just strike me as too clinical, while a bare finger has risks for both.

finger cots work great....you can get them at Walmart

[Ms. Athena]

Damn and here my fingers have been playing in condoms.....Butt I do like the thought of fingers playing safe while I finger fucking you............IJS

I save the gloves more for fisting and enema play.............and of course ooops'es.....LOL

[Bliss of DFW]

I had the pleasure of experimenting in this area with a client who is now my regular.
We both just kind of fell into it exactly the way Deviant Bastard described it. Although there was no request for ass play prior to our visit, it was as if our bodies were communicated well and I just went for it. I have to say, that was the most intense orgasm I have ever felt a guy have in my mouth. Yum!

[ForumPoster]

I've got 7 inch strap on and i am not afraid to use it .. just saying

Lina

[cumalot]

ooops'es do happen, as I remember an ooops'e once...small things can get lost...lol...so be carefull and be safe with what you do...

[briggs4417]

Houston and Dallas are well represented for sure. I am surprised there isnt more interest in Austin.....since it is tended to be portrayed as embracing wierd more than most towns. Are there any Austin or San Antonio ladies who have been curious to play in this domain?

and Bliss....just love the shoes in your avatar! They would go hot with you wearing Lina's 7 inch!

[Bliss of DFW]

Originally Posted by jmcqueen6019

Houston and Dallas are well represented for sure. I am surprised there isnt more interest in Austin.....since it is tended to be portrayed as embracing wierd more than most towns. Are there any Austin or San Antonio ladies who have been curious to play in this domain?

and Bliss....just love the shoes in your avatar! They would go hot with you wearing Lina's 7 inch!

I appreciate that ...they are one of my favorites to go with my foot/shoe fetish adventures Lol
The strap on...I'm still working on that