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samantha thom · 05-22-2012, 12:52 AM

It was midnight. I was relaxing at home watching TV, drinking wine, reading posts on Eccie...and suddenly, I received a 411 appt request for an outcall or incall from a guy with no 'okays' for 1am. I was like... "SERIOUSLY???"
I clearly posted my schedule, available times, incall availability, etc.
I couldn't help but getting really annoyed by this request. I wrote him back immediately that I found his 1am appt request rather offensive. I told him I prefer to see a nice polite gentleman who takes the time reading my profile. That there is no way I am going out to satisfy a man with no references at this time of night. I told him that this is NOT how you treat a lady and from this request, I don't think we'll be compatible at all. He just wrote back saying that my profile says: After 4pm, my schedule if flexible.
I couldn't believe it and got even more annoyed. How could this guy think that I am available 24/7 like a robot? REALLY?? Like I have no life and other things to do??
Thank you for listening....I am ranting I know.

bojulay · 05-22-2012, 01:08 AM

Since that guy is out of the picture, I will see you in 30 minutes,
but you have to wear that tennis outfit with those shoes. Bring
the racket too, that could be interesting.

samantha thom · 05-22-2012, 01:10 AM

LOL...you're challenging me on the tennis court??? It's ON!!! You're going down!!! Oh wait...I've had some wine....nevermind then. I surrender! LOL

bojulay · 05-22-2012, 01:17 AM

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LOL...you're challenging me on the tennis court??? It's ON!!! You're going down!!! Oh wait...I've had some wine....nevermind then. I surrender! LOL

Tennis first and then it's to the pool table. That's my plan to wear
you down on the court first. You'll be chasing balls all night.

samantha thom · 05-22-2012, 01:21 AM

LOLOLOL!!! I am confident I can beat you on the tennis court unless you're a really really advanced tennis player. But the pool table....ummm, well....I'd rather do something else on it than shooting pool. Hehe!

bojulay · 05-22-2012, 01:30 AM

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LOLOLOL!!! I am confident I can beat you on the tennis court unless you're a really really advanced tennis player. But the pool table....ummm, well....I'd rather do something else on it than shooting pool. Hehe!

OOOOO LA LA
A sporting girl, my favorite, as long as you don't rack em up too hard.
I always have my stick ready though.

Like games, have you ever played spin the bottle with only two players.
Another of my favorites is find the gumdrop.

samantha thom · 05-22-2012, 01:35 AM

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Originally Posted by bojulay

Like games, have you ever played spin the bottle with only two players.
Another of my favorites is find the gumdrop.

?? No, what does this mean? What is find the gumdrop? Sorry...English is my second language so sometimes, I can be clueless. :/

I'm going to bed now...I'll check back tomorrow. Good night everyone!

bojulay · 05-22-2012, 01:49 AM

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?? No, what does this mean? What is find the gumdrop? Sorry...English is my second language so sometimes, I can be clueless. :/

I'm going to bed now...I'll check back tomorrow. Good night everyone!

It's a little lemon flavored candy that you can hide in interesting places
and then go looking for. Cute girls can also be referred to as gum drops,
so it could be a game of hide and seek also.

I had better quit while I'm ahead, or behind, or one of those.

steviewinwood · 05-22-2012, 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by samantha thom

It was midnight. I was relaxing at home watching TV, drinking wine, reading posts on Eccie...and suddenly, I received a 411 appt request for an outcall or incall from a guy with no 'okays' for 1am. I was like... "SERIOUSLY???"
I clearly posted my schedule, available times, incall availability, etc.
I couldn't help but getting really annoyed by this request. I wrote him back immediately that I found his 1am appt request rather offensive. I told him I prefer to see a nice polite gentleman who takes the time reading my profile. That there is no way I am going out to satisfy a man with no references at this time of night. I told him that this is NOT how you treat a lady and from this request, I don't think we'll be compatible at all. He just wrote back saying that my profile says: After 4pm, my schedule if flexible.
I couldn't believe it and got even more annoyed. How could this guy think that I am available 24/7 like a robot? REALLY?? Like I have no life and other things to do??
Thank you for listening....I am ranting I know.

I'm glad you posted this. Now that I know you're rude, I can scratch you off my list. Have a nice day.

trynagetlaid · 05-22-2012, 07:56 AM

You didn't owe him an immediate response since you were technically 'off the clock'. You could have waited until the next morning and suggested an alternate time.

He had 'x' amount of dollars that could be in your bank account today or tomorrow. Those dollars will no doubt end up in another provider's account.

Not only did you get added to some DNS lists because of your rudeness (see post above), but you failed Economics 101.

samantha thom · 05-22-2012, 08:30 AM

I may be rude in this case but I felt that I had the right to be. I took the time to writte about myself (yes, it is really me...not some made-up persona) including my and my incall availability. If a guy didn't take the time to read it, I find it disrespectful. And asking a woman to come out in such ungodly hour (I heard the weird things happen late at night :-) with such short notice is also disrespectful. He also said he could come to me when I clearly states that my incall is only available till 4pm. Plus he has no references on 411. If you think I failed economics 101, it's ok. In my book, he fails etiquette 101.

trynagetlaid · 05-22-2012, 08:48 AM

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I may be rude in this case but I felt that I had the right to be.

There are hundreds if not thousands of successful businessmen who hobby. Many of them own their own businesses, some they built from scratch.

They didn't get there by being rude to people who wanted to buy their goods and/or services.

ldsilver · 05-22-2012, 08:51 AM

Sam, you go girl ! You're honesty and bluntness and straightforwardness is what should attract people to you. For some reason, some people equate those attributes to rudeness. Not me !

Hercules · 05-22-2012, 09:10 AM

Gotta go with the others on this one Hotness. If the guy had been rude in his request then you would've had every right to go off on his ass. But all he did was ask. Next time maybe just take another glass of wine and say "Thanks, but no thanks" and leave it at that.

samantha thom · 05-22-2012, 09:10 AM

Thank you! I do not need/want EVERYONE's business. If a man doesn'kt want to take the time to read, pay attention to detail, and wanting a woman to come out meet a strange man at 1am....that is rude and disrespectful to a woman. Based on this itself, he didn't pass my etiquette screening. Especially after I took the time to write my profile. In business, I do not need to make everyone out there my client.