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Lovelyelle_01 · 05-09-2012, 10:06 AM

I have read many threads on “Real vs. Fake Os”. Even though most guys would rather be able to hit the spot every time, it puzzles me that some guys don’t mind girls faking it if it doesn’t happen. Some guys don’t care either way as long as they’re satisfied. Sorry guys, but NO WAY am I faking it. Of course, I’d rather get off every time. But, if I don’t, it doesn’t mean that I didn’t have a good time. I could never set myself up for future frustration. I’ve been pretty lucky so far, and I have no doubt that it’s because I simply refuse to lie about it.

I saw a new friend recently. We were having a great time, and decided to curl up and relax for a bit. After a while, the conversation turned towards naughty talk. He asked me if he did the job, and I blushed and told him no (one of those awkward truth moments). He was surprised because he genuinely thought I had. I told him that I’d come VERY close twice (which was true), but it didn’t happen. As a result, he took himself to a place where he was completely in tune with my body. Success. HUGE success... Believe me, once the mission was accomplished, he could tell the distinct difference in almost and HELL YES DEFINITELY!!!

I see lots of threads linking to blog posts where some escort has decided to rant and rave about how much she hates you guys anonymously. I’ll never understand the “I actually hate what I do because the guys think they can f*@k and I’m miserable acting like I enjoy myself” blogs that are written by obviously jaded ladies. I’ve never felt like I had to lie about it in fear of losing business. When delivered with tact and consideration, honesty can actually be an appreciated motivator. One gentleman told me that knowing for a fact that he made it happen did more for his ego than wondering about it and convincing himself that it was real.

Guest022315 · 05-09-2012, 11:02 AM

If you have to ask then more than likely you missed the mark

I just think a woman body does not lie regardless of what her mouth maybe screaming

Outdoorsman · 05-09-2012, 02:09 PM

IN a business that is somewhat based upon lies, of course clients are going to wonder about faked orgasms. It is fantasy, the big thing I know going in is you have no feelings for me, you could care less. I am not special, I do not make you cumm like no other can, etc., etc., etc. All people to include hobbyiests want to feel special or different in a good way. If a guy can make you cum like no other man can it is an ego boast, that simple. Thus, women in your profession lie about it, say things like "O but I enjoy you!" and "You make me feel so good, I love when you come see me!" and "woW, WHAT AN ORGASM!! OUTDOORSMAN!!!" I beleive very little of that coming from a provider, it is her job to fullfill my fantasy.

Actually, I prefer the truth, and it is not my job to give you an orgasm. Just the opposite as I see it. I am not a selfish lover but some ladies just cannot orgasm as easily as others, nothing to do with my abilities as a lover. I do not like the fake moaning and groaning, I do like when she orgasms but I like truth better. Even women I can make cum easily do not always have orgasms, nothing to do with my sexual abilities. I am confident in who I am, don't need to reassure me by having an orgasm. My thought is why not enjoy yourself as much as possible you agreed to be with me for a short while might as well enjoy it. I do not ask women if they cum, I do not need to. I also do not ponder if she is faking or not. Not my concern, it does not make me feel any better or worse. I do not like it when a lady says "Lets get this over with" I already know she is not going to have fun and well who wants to spend leisure time with a stick in the mud? Not me.

Just my .02

gimme_that · 05-09-2012, 02:34 PM

I prefer the truth. Unless of course if she's talking dirty saying raunchy things. But fake moans ....no.

Still Looking · 05-09-2012, 02:42 PM

I could care less.... I'm a selfish lover!

satom · 05-09-2012, 03:30 PM

I prefer the truth but I don't ask because that's kind of rude to put her on the spot like that. Also it's like a woman asking "does my butt look fat in this dress?" You can't win lol

EmilyofHouston · 05-09-2012, 03:33 PM

Still looking, I love your poem lol

Guest071514-1 · 05-09-2012, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Still Looking

I could care less.... I'm a selfish lover!

+1 baby

Guest071514-1 · 05-09-2012, 03:43 PM

Yes, love the poem

Still Looking · 05-09-2012, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by bustyamy

Yes, love the poem

Still Looking · 05-09-2012, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by EmilyofHouston

Still looking, I love your poem lol

Emily & Amy doubles.... hummmm I'm thinking......

Can any one guy handle that combo?

Guest071514-1 · 05-09-2012, 04:27 PM

I think with 2 big red bulls, and some cardio training for the next month you could do it!

I mostly have a great time, but for the ones that don't quite make me go that far he will never know. He likes the nasty talk and moans and groans and fuck me harder talk. I feel like I'm getting paid for a fantasy, not the same ol "get off me so I can go balance the checkbook and write out the grocery list". We are here to be exotic and erotic and nasty. Either way I still love the hell out of it!

Tiffani Jameson · 05-09-2012, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

IN a business that is somewhat based upon lies, of course clients are going to wonder about faked orgasms. It is fantasy, the big thing I know going in is you have no feelings for me, you could care less. I am not special, I do not make you cumm like no other can, etc., etc., etc. All people to include hobbyiests want to feel special or different in a good way. If a guy can make you cum like no other man can it is an ego boast, that simple. Thus, women in your profession lie about it, say things like "O but I enjoy you!" and "You make me feel so good, I love when you come see me!" and "woW, WHAT AN ORGASM!! OUTDOORSMAN!!!" I beleive very little of that coming from a provider, it is her job to fullfill my fantasy.

Actually, I prefer the truth, and it is not my job to give you an orgasm. Just the opposite as I see it. I am not a selfish lover but some ladies just cannot orgasm as easily as others, nothing to do with my abilities as a lover. I do not like the fake moaning and groaning, I do like when she orgasms but I like truth better. Even women I can make cum easily do not always have orgasms, nothing to do with my sexual abilities. I am confident in who I am, don't need to reassure me by having an orgasm. My thought is why not enjoy yourself as much as possible you agreed to be with me for a short while might as well enjoy it. I do not ask women if they cum, I do not need to. I also do not ponder if she is faking or not. Not my concern, it does not make me feel any better or worse. I do not like it when a lady says "Lets get this over with" I already know she is not going to have fun and well who wants to spend leisure time with a stick in the mud? Not me.

Just my .02

I agree wholeheartedly. This is the reason why I don't sit silently when you aren't doing it right (but I'm very sensitive so I don't have to fuss much

). I actually SEEK to have a good time, and I've never been a good fit for those who have to see me as a sub-being in order to be okay with meeting me. Something in you should want us both to have a good time. Mind you, you set the tone, but I won't let you forget I'm on this ride with you.

From my standpoint, the chemistry we create is for that just-right amount of feeling to enjoy ourselves, and not be mad or sad about the choices we've BOTH made, seeing the fact that we BOTH have to go back to our normal lives. I would hope that meeting me not only solidifies your confidence in your decision-making skills, but makes you happier knowing you have an outlet for your desires.

Outdoorsman, you have actually HEARD someone say 'let's get this over with?' Priceless.

wildwooly1 · 05-09-2012, 04:45 PM

Sometimes the truth hurts but would rather have a true reaction from anybody about what they feel ..be it a provider or a lady from civie world.
At my age I dont need ego boosts ..just need a genuine lady that enjoys being with a man for that hr or 2 or 3 ..All I ever need is a woman that enjoys the moment and getting to know each other and then a attempt to fufill our needs together .
If what im doing doesnt feel good tell me ! and ill do the same! and if it feels good be honest about it and just sit back and enjoy the moment.

Lil Oral Annie · 05-09-2012, 04:50 PM

Okay... as a woman in my 30's, I know how to have an orgasm. This means that if he can't make me orgasm from oral or sex, I know exactly how he can help me to orgasm. It can't hurt for the guy to ask what pushes her buttons either.

But yes, I think a guy can tell the difference. And I don't ever want someone to have to wonder. I think it should be enjoyable for everyone.