Okay BIG Question regarding PHone calls..

[Sydney Pure]

I wanted this to be really directed at all the Potential Clients - people that have never met me............. It really makes me not even want to meet these clients ..

my though: If your calling this much and we haven't even met -then whats it going to be like when we do meet I mean I don't even know SOME of the men

[guest031513-1]

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

Perhaps emergency exist requiring escort be called with same urgency as ambulance, but escape humble imagination. Nature of hobby is that of luxury item, not requirement.
Wise man once say, "it's pu$$y, not heart medication."
Perspective is everything.

If it is hobby related then yes, you assumed my reply was meant only about hobby related phone calls. If was hobby related then the person is just a nut job and is not worth the money compared to the amount of trouble they could bring you. If it is was 'real-life' related then still nobody better call my phone that many times or when I call back they are going to hear exactly what I think and I will be blunt about it but that is the circumstance when I was saying there is a chance of emergency.

[guest031513-1]

Originally Posted by Blond_Lily

Understandable--and I definitely answer emails, but at the same time I won't actually set an appointment if I can't talk to you over the phone.

Personally if I was contacting someone I would also do it by e-mail so she could reply at her convenience, after we made some sort of contact I would consider it likely that as you stated she is going to want a phone call. Now if it was someone who is traveling then I might start with a phone call instead.

[GRIPITRIPIT]

Well, maybe I shouldn't have reviewed you,,I am sure my glowing review and charming reputation (lol) stirred up the freaks all over "dueling banjo land" (Arkansas, for those that don't remember Burt Reynolds).. Do you really need to take on new clients? I would think not, you have a fine client base, and for good reason..

However,I can relate, all those pm,s from providers drunk and horny fill my pm box and my delete button is starting to stick...I am not a piece of man-meat that can be manipulated at all hours of the night to satisfy every sick desire you ladies cum up with.. I feel so dirty sometime...So SYD, I can relate and feel your pain,,(oh how I wish I was feeling your PAIN).. Just delete all the freaks and block the calls and just hang with the tried and true..

On a serious note, I actually read the website and contact per the ladies instructions they maybe;;

text
cell
e-mail
pm
I try to follow instructions, but i will only call once, maybe twice if we have seen each other. Newbies get one contact.. Its just the way I roll...

[Lily Blair]

Originally Posted by GRIPITRIPIT

all those pm,s from providers drunk and horny fill my pm box and my delete button is starting to stick...I am not a piece of man-meat that can be manipulated at all hours of the night to satisfy every sick desire you ladies cum up with.. I feel so dirty sometime...

Yeah, sorry about that

[GRIPITRIPIT]

Oh shit I didn't mean you,, its those other idiots,,pm me anytime Lily,,I might just show up next time,,,

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

If phone number advertised most acceptable to call. Some lady's notoriously bad at answering email. Inbox always full. No pun intended.

A woman who posts a phone number in an ad or on a website certainly has no complaint about first contacts by telephone, or continuing contact by telephone (within reason). If she doesn't want to field cold phone calls, she shouldn't post a number.

A favorite Huntsville (AL) lady of my acquaintance posts a number, but she never answers it (lets it go to voice mail). If the caller leaves a voice mail which is respectful and otherwise not suspicious or threatening, she'll call back. During that callback (assuming you can meet or provide other tentative screening information) she'll give you her "real" number. That's the one that "approved" friends can call, and she'll answer (if she's not otherwise occupied).

Cheers,

bcg

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by Sydney Pure

my though: If your calling this much and we haven't even met -then whats it going to be like when we do meet I mean I don't even know SOME of the men

Point taken. I suspect at least some of this may be overexcited newbies who haven't absorbed basic hobby etiquette yet.

Cheers,

bcg

[urhuckleberry]

[quote=Mr.Chan;254605]If phone number advertised most acceptable to call. Some lady's notoriously bad at answering email. Inbox always full. No pun intended.[/quote]

You did too intend honorable pun.

H

[romou]

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

If phone number advertised most acceptable to call. Some lady's notoriously bad at answering email. Inbox always full. No pun intended.

wil do that next time

Let me ask you this, what if she does not advertise it on P411, but its on TER. Still OK?

[jaxar]

Originally Posted by Sydney Pure

I wanted this to be really directed at all the Potential Clients - people that have never met me............. It really makes me not even want to meet these clients ..

my though: If your calling this much and we haven't even met -then whats it going to be like when we do meet I mean I don't even know SOME of the men

Your thinking is correct Sydney, if they're showing obsessive behavior by just phone calls then you need to stay away.

[Mr.Chan]

Originally Posted by romou

wil do that next time

Let me ask you this, what if she does not advertise it on P411, but its on TER. Still OK?

Advertised is advertised.

[Lily Blair]

Someone called me eight times between the hours of 11pm and midnight last night. It must have been a real mystery as to why I wasn't answering the phone.

I try to have faith that people aren't that stupid and that they're basically good, but this guy is making it pretty tough.

[Guest032112]

Originally Posted by Blond_Lily

I try to have faith that people aren't that stupid and that they're basically good, but this guy is making it pretty tough.

Try working in retail or a public oriented service business for a while. That will help you develop a good solid cynical attitude!

[Sonoman]

Originally Posted by Blond_Lily

I try to have faith that people aren't that stupid and that they're basically good, but this guy is making it pretty tough.

If you have a sexy female and add a little Jack Daniels or Pinot to the mix, some people who were somewhat normal, can get real stupid real fast.